okay so my boyfriend is only a year older but a year is a lot with us because im going into seventh grade and he is going into eighth. He always tells me about how his best friend got to third in a cemetery and stuff and well i know that he wants to go farther too. and if he tries to touch my boobs or take off my shirt i always tell him no because i dont want him to see the stretch marks on my boobs. what should i do.
dancedance42 answered Sunday August 19 2007, 8:35 pm: you are waaaaaaaaaaaay too young to be doing any of that.
wait until you are sure you are really in love, otherwise itll be a horrible mistake.
Matt answered Sunday August 19 2007, 1:14 pm: Instead of worrying about that kind of crap, go watch High School Musical 2 or something. [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
MAK answered Sunday August 19 2007, 1:05 pm: You shouldn't do anything. You are in SEVENTH grade. That's really young. If you do things with him right now, the next steps in the relationship will come more easily, leading to sex, pregnancy, STD's, and loss of a good reputation. Why do it? Wait until you do the next step in the relationship in high school. If he is still around 'til then, and you have educated yourself properly on std's, sex, etc, then I guess it's okay to do it. (I say I guess because even ninth grade is too young to do it.)
And stretchmarks are completely normal. They heal with time, and alot of people have them.
But please, wait. Don't get pressured into anything you don't want to do or don't feel comfortable doing.
dreadlydearest answered Sunday August 19 2007, 10:58 am: Well in all honesty I don't think that you should be doing anything along thoes lines at all when you're in seventh grade, but since you asked, I'll answer you.
As dfar as the stretch marks go, they can be embarassing, I myself bloomed before most people I know. I suggest coco butter, make sure you get the one that's meant for stretch marks and it will greatly reduce their appearance overtime. [ dreadlydearest's advice column | Ask dreadlydearest A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Sunday August 19 2007, 9:09 am: First off, everyone gets stretch marks. It's part of life. He should be mature enough to understand that.
However, if you are still self-concious, you tell him no and expect him to live with that answer. If he doesn't, then he doesn't respect you and you should really break up with him. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
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