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least painful way to lose your virginity?
Oksy, so I am not in need of a lecture on how I nned to be protected from oregnancy and STD's. I have take the proper precautions; I have been taking BC pills for almost 3 months now and I have condoms on hand. I am planning on doing with someone I trust and care for very much. No need to worry too much, I know the consequences and what-not.
My question is more of what would be the least painful way to lose virgnity. I have never been fingered but am willing to if it helps. Also, I am a rather tiny person so I don't know if that makes a difference. Is the top or bottom better for pain? If it hurts can we stop or is it one of those things that's going to hurt as much on the way out as it did on the way in? Does masterbation make it easier for later? (random detail: i know i get wet rather easily, as in turned on, would this benefit me or make it woerd?)
I am 18/f and he is 22/m if this makes a difference. In Canada that's legal right? As in, the legal consent age is 18 right, not 19?
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it doesnt hurt for everybody if you take proper precautions.as you mentioned you get wet easily which is good b/c if your private is dry its going to hurt more.i would let him finger me before and you could try oral to relax each other.(days before you should start fingering yourself)and advice him to take it slow .sex is not suppose to hurt if your tense then its going to hurt all you have to do is relax.good luck
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It is best to be fingered first, starting with one finger, then two, then three.
It helps to loosen you up so it wont hurt as bad.
Then, it may help if your ontop so you'll know how you want to have sex, and how hard and fast.
Some like it better on bottom their first time because the feeling that they're doing it wrong.
If your on bottom hold the guy by his waist so you can control how fast or slow he goes.
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I think the easiest way is to get fingered first. Starting with one finger and moving on to two then three. and it should be less painful when you actually have sex. Although some people's first time hurts, and others don't. it depends on you
Its also better if your on top so you know when to stop or if it hurts too much.
and you can stop whenever you want, but in my opinion I think you should just keep going because you have to go through it eventually.
hope i helped.
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I agree with the person below me. Fingering [going slowly, adding fingers here and there when completely comfortable] will help you get loosen up [but not too loose, as people tend to freak out about that, too]. I did that and losing my virginity, although was noticeable, wasn't as painful as I'd always worried. You'll be sore, yes, but over all, it wasn't as painful experience as I expected. And, PS, I'm quite small too.
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When you lose your virginity, of course it will be somewhat painful..but there are ways to make it less painful. Fingering will definately help. Starting off with 1 finger until it doesn't hurt..then 2 until it doesnt hurt..ect. I'm also a tiny person..and the fingering definately helped open me up. Either way, its going to feel sore your first time. Putting it in at first will be a little painful but like i said..fingering will help. If it does hurt, you can take a break. Its not going to be painful to take out but you'll feel sore. The top is definately less painful at least in my experience. You are much more open when you ride on top of your partner then when your under them. Getting wet easily will help when inserting his member but you can also get a KY Jelly that you can put over the condom to make an easier insertion. I don't know if you'd feel comfortable doing this, but you could always buy different sized dildo's or vibrators or something to use on yourself before you have sex. I've never tried it but it would seem to do the same as fingering.
As for the Canada thing..i'm not sure! Sorry
But good luck!
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