i just turned 17 years old ill be off to college in about 6 to 7 months .im a nice person im a good communicater.i want to answer peoples advices mainly because ive been through some things in my life too and wished during those times that someone could have giving me some advices.i well take your advice serious, only if your serious too .
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Location: northbabylon new york
Age: 17
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16/f
Some guy clicked on me on the 'Are You Interested' app on FB and added me. nbd, its happened before. I'm not really into that type of stuff but I really didn't think much of it. But we started talking and we have a bunch of mutual friends (he lives a town or two over). We've only been talking for a few days but he keeps calling me "beautiful," saying "we're perfect for each other," etc etc. I think he wants to start a relationship & start seeing each other in 'real life' (for lack of a better term) but online dating just seems really weird to me. Like I never use that application and when guys talk to me, I reply but only as a friend, not really flirtatiously. idk I just really don't feel comfortable dating someone I met online, even if I do know that he's a normal kid and not some psychopath. Plus I barely know him - I take relationships really seriously and I'm not going to start dating someone I've had a few conversations with. i might be willing to date him if i got to know him more, but that would probably mean meeting in person, so i'm pretty much contradicting myself, haha.
Should I tell him im not interested in him in that way, or give it a chance?
thanks :) (link)
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life is too short give it a try ,but only meet him in public go with a friend and becareful.
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Well, first I'm 15/female.
and I know zits are normal ,but for a few years now. Maybe since I was like 11 but it was never this bad- it got really bad maybe 2 years ago. My vaginia and upper inner legs are FULLY covered in zits....white head, black head- you name it. Lately the actual zits look like brueses... Do I have some 'sexual' disease? For the reacord I'm still a virgin and have not had my first date even.
Should I be worried? (link)
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you should see a dermatologist someone who deals with zits or a gynogologist someone who deals wi9th all kind of vagina issues dont take care of the matter by yourself.good luck
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I have:
-High body temperature
-Constipation
-Breast Tenderness
-Fatigue
-Frequent Urination
-Darkened Breasts
What could this be? (link)
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your definitely prego!!!
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Do you think I might be PREGNANT beginnng from what I said earlier could that be POSSIBILITY?... (link)
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couldnt find the question and i dont recall answering you so, it wouold be nice for you to sent me a full version of that message again.
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Does this mean anything started bleeding Friday 24th stopped bleeding today the color is brown with red blood? It can't be my period a period lasts 5days... (link)
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sweety to be very honest with you this is very strange i would see a doctor . theres such things as irregular period which is it when it can come any time in a month. regular period is when it got an exact day that a comes each month .but the changes you descriped to me are weired you should definetly get that checked out.
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Lately, my principal has been getting closer and much nicer to me. Since I am usually a student who gets into a lot of trouble, i visit his office often. Last time i visited his office, he started massaging my shoulders, and sweet talking me. He was slowly kissing my neck and cheeks. He told me he wants us to go to the next level, if I knew what he ment. I did. I am starting to have feelings for him, though i am only 16, and he is in his 40's. It's not illigal if i come onto him. Or is it ? Please help me, I am not sure what to do. (link)
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It is very illegal but not only just that he is taking advantage of you. ^Your in denial if you find that theres nothing wrong with that stay away from that man are tell someone. If I were you i would go with like a camera and get it on tape you can sue the school and get big bucks ...good luck.
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i am a 14/f and i was wondering what are some things to do or say when people make fun of you or crack stupid jokes or try to make you feel bad?? like something that will make it seem like i dont care or can laugh along with it rather then something that will make me sound or look bitchy or like a total idiot (link)
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first of all whoever has the time in the world to be making fun of people is an idiot .ignoring an idiot could be the best thing to do are laugh just ignore it completely dont entertain a fool by commenting them back.
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im 15/ female
ok this is just a little akward...my boyfriend and i had sex 5 times yesterday and yeah i like it really rough and hard but this morning and today my vag has been really sensitive and sore is this normal? im sure it is but i really don't know.Please help me... (link)
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i would slow down because down there is a very sensitive place it might cause a little damage not much.at your age it is normal to be doing it that much but just becareful maybe do it once instead of five or wait before you start again and use protection be smart.good luck.
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im 15 years old, female, 5'5, and about 105-110 pounds. im pretty thin, actually really thin, but i have like a little pouch on my stomach. i dont get it. i dont eat a ton, and its always there. like extra belly fat. i have small love handles too. does anyone know why this is, and how i can get rid of them? thanks! (link)
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you need fat on your body in order to live you sound perfect to me.
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I heard that people take a concoction of drink and drugs to commit suicide, any ideas as to best 'mix'?
Don't waste yout time and mine saying stuff like 'think about people who care' knowone does! from the day my brother used to spit at me accross the bedroom when we were growing up, to todays vain, bitching two faced slags. And if you give me any religious crap, maybe i'll take you with me. (link)
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your going through depression and thats fine but i believe that you have alot to live for and the only pill i would be taking right now if i were you is a pill for depression. wouldn't you want to do something with your life and have all the money you wanted and needed and maybe spit back in your bro's face too and other people that hurt you in the past.money makes the world goes round that should be your motivation for success.your saying that no one cares i know thats a lie just know that if your succeed in you little suicide know that your a coward.
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I REALLY REALLY need some guidance and I've asked a lot of people for help but NO ONE helps me. They just think I need to eat bc I'm so skinny. But what I'm going through is a disaster. I was diagnosed with anorexia. I was eating 600 calories a day and I was very, very obsessive. I almost died.I had been doing that for about a year. If I would have kept it up for 2 more weeks, I would have lost my life!! I already lost my period and every week I have to go to the gyno until I get it back because since I haven't gotten it, my ovaries are full of cysts and I may have to get surgery. But, now I've gotten a lot better. But, as far as the eating disorder, things are pretty bad. I go thru phases where I binge one day and eat uncontrollably and when I ruin my diet for the day, I go crazy and tell myself to eat everything in sight and the next day I punish myself by not eating at all the entire day. It is a terrible habit but its the hardest cycle to break. There has to be something someone can say or do to help me. I will be going to therapy, but financially, I'm a little restricted right now so its not gonna be as soon as now, and NOW is when I need it. I feel like if I keep this up, I'm going to die. I'm treading a thin line right now, and someone just needs to tell me something. I want to stop this more than you can ever imagine, but its such a hard cycle to break and only someone who has actually had an eating disorder can understand. So if you can tell me anything at all to get me through the day, I will appreciate it. You could be saving my life!! I've already had 3 giant cookies and a sandwich today and I feel like crying!! Its like I have no control of myself and I hate feeling this way... I know I shouldn't skip meals or anything like that, but I'm at a hotel and my cousin just ordered a cheeseburger, and its like I want some and at the same time I don't and its like the food just won't digest and I get anxious because I'm full and then I eat more. Please help me!! (link)
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try to let an adult that you trust know that if they don't help you now you might lose your life. I've never been in those kind of situation but I've witnessed many.therapy would be the best right now like you said .maybe you should be in the emergency room right now not to be mean but your situation just sounds really bad right now. don't give up and let your parents that you need help right NOW. you should take my advice about going to the hospital i think your life is better than money despite financial issues good luck.
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14/f
How do I be more confident with myself? I have low self-esteem and I sometimes think I'm one of the ugliest girls in the world. Deep down I know I'm not. I mean, I've gotten plenty of compliments from guys and other people. Its just I'm shy, not really shy but I am shy. If I'm with my friends I can be really loud but when I'm not with people I know or talk to they think I'm shy and that leads to alot of people not wanting to talk to me because they will think I won't talk back. When they do talk I answer but with a normal answer like yes or no. I can never think of anything else to say. I know I'm gonna get something like, "speak up more in class and be open or whatever" I've tried, plenty of times. What should I do? I mean my friends aren't always gonna be there and I'm gonna need to make more. I have and I'm surprised at how many friends I have now but what should I do? Thanks so much for any help! (link)
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well its not your fault its who you are and its impossible to change that.everybody feel more comfortable around people they know when talking to someone pretend there one of your friends are something.you can be shy and mysteries and still talk to people you don't need to be loud.try raising your hands in class cause if your raising you hands in class people will know that you can talk remember that only smart people ask questions.just smile to people and have fun a little smile can go a long way.and if someone has spoken to you before in any way just say hi when you see them hi cant hurt anybody.as for the confident thing its going to take a lot of work and dedication one thing you should do is look in the mirror and tell yourself that your beautiful every morning or every time you walk pass the mirror are just give yourself a confident smile .take care of yourself and know that your beautiful in your own way and thats what makes you unique.good luck
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Have been dating this devorced guy for about a month was going great then doesn't call for a week. I did get a text after 6 days saying he was ok and had alot going on and has his kids again. I sent a text back to see if he would have time to chat later and that I wasn't mad just concerned and a bit confused. So now another 3 days and no call/text. Could still have his kids but I don't know what to do now, trying to give space but for how long???
I'm 34yrs female never married
He is 38yrs devorced 2 kids and X cheated on him and is getting married to guy she cheated with.(ouch) (link)
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his dealing with a very painfully situation and i don't blame him for wanting to spent time with his children's but i do think its wrong how he just leave you in the dark.sounds like your giving him enough space i would ask him if his ready to be in a new relationship?good luck
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my boyfriend and i have had sex 7 times to be excact(and thats as many that ive ever done in my life.) but theres a catch...every time we do it, im feeling more pain than pleasure. is there something wrong with me? i confronted him and a friend about it, and were not sure. im kind of worried? but i remeber hearing that your not always going to expeirence that awesome sex, im not thinking about that so yea. haha. help? (link)
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well something could be wrong because the more you do it the better its suppose to get.try taking it slow and lots of foreplay before sex ex.kissing,feeling on each other,etc..if that doesn't work you should go see a gynecologist you never know something could be wrong good luck and practice safe sex.
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heyaaa female 17!
thanks for reading :D
i had unprotected sex , i no its wrong but its done now, and he told he didnt cum but i think he did coz he stopped after he said he didnt , 3 days after im starting too feel ill, icould just be me thinking about it , could i be pregant or watever sti? (link)
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its impossible to feel pregnant 3 days later its probably something else .if you keep thinking that your pregnant that can cause you to show some symptoms .if you wait a week you can take a pregnancy test best of luck not to judge you are anything even though i am if you dont trust what he says so much you probably shouldnt be having sex with him.
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hello:) 18/female.
i have a good guy friend ben. we have a different relationship i guess you could say. he use to have a girlfriend of two and a half years but they recently just broke up. i'm the kind of girl who NEVER will text a guy first because i'm always paranoid that i'm being annoying or that they wont want to talk to me. well ben realized that we were not as close as we use to be and this was about 3 months ago when he was still going out with his girlfriend and he mentioned that he was the one who ALWAYS had to text me first. it's true, he does. but it's not like we talk everyday. we dont even talk every week. but when we text or see each other in person we talk about EVERYTHING like i tell ben sooo much because i trust him. the thing is, i've always liked ben as more than a "best friend" which is why its so hard for me to text him first. i overanalzye everything and if he didnt text back i'd feel stupid and start assuming he doesnt want to talk, etc. also when i dont know what to talk about i start being random and i also think that may be an annoyance. i'm just wondering though could not texting ben be a turn off? like making him always text me (when he ever even does) make him feel more distant from me? i just LOVE when he texts me first though because i know he wants to talk to me and it makes me happy :) i dont know what to do. (link)
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if you start texting him first then his going to realize that you care and want to talk to him.then his going to start texting you more too.then slow down and his gonna do it without feeling like his bothering you .if you do like him i would try to get out of the friend zone and sent some messages.good luck.
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having a new b/g friend how do u get them to give u oral (link)
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get to know them and spend time with them when the time is right its gonna work out like it suppose to.
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me and my ex dated a few months ago, for about two months. we were crazy about each other, but we just didnt work out, for the stupidest reasons. afterwards, we tried to be friends, but i was mean and ignored him to try to make him want me back, and eventually we just stopped talking. well, now, after not talking for so long (but me still thinking about him everyday and missing him like crazy) he just got a girlfriend. and i mean she's really not that great, and he doesn't seem very interested in her. what should i do? talk to him? i never see him anywhere. so i could like text him.. but what should i say? and how should i act? or should i just be upfront and tell him i want him back even though that would probably scare him off and i'd get rejected. i mean, he DOES have a girlfriend. what to do!? =[ (link)
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yes coming upfront is a little too much especially if his shy thats like putting him on the spot.since you haven't seen him in a while and when he tried to work things out with you by being friends you were mean to him.i would call and talk to him as a friend say things like how are you?how are things going? then i would apologize for how you reacted.try to see if you can hang out with him start flirting a Little then work you way up there hopefully he gets the message .then when the moment comes tell him how you feel .best of luck and if he rejects you just know it wasnt meant to be dont dwell on it and move on if things work out try not to mess up.
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Well, yes, Valentines Day is coming, and my boyfriend and I have plans on just going to the movies and he'll buy the tickets and I'll buy the snack or vice versa, so we don't have to scurry and buy each other a gift. I got him a card before we had this deal, and I was thinking, would it be cute if I wrote and sent the card to him? I mean, he only lives like 7 minutes away, but still, I figured it'd be unexpected but put a smile on his face. Is it cute, or am I the only one? lol
Thankyou ! (link)
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that is actually a very good idea.
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A member of my family with schizophrenia has living with me for about a month. I have tried to help her but I am at my breaking point. (link)
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thats going to be very hard because other family members will be mad at you but you have to do whats best for you .i would speak to an elder in the family like a mother or an aunt first just to let them know that your not the bad guy here and then sit them down and tell them that things are not going as planned you would like them to leave be very sympathetic about it.wish you luck hoped i helped you.
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