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me and my ex dated a few months ago, for about two months. we were crazy about each other, but we just didnt work out, for the stupidest reasons. afterwards, we tried to be friends, but i was mean and ignored him to try to make him want me back, and eventually we just stopped talking. well, now, after not talking for so long (but me still thinking about him everyday and missing him like crazy) he just got a girlfriend. and i mean she's really not that great, and he doesn't seem very interested in her. what should i do? talk to him? i never see him anywhere. so i could like text him.. but what should i say? and how should i act? or should i just be upfront and tell him i want him back even though that would probably scare him off and i'd get rejected. i mean, he DOES have a girlfriend. what to do!? =[
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yes coming upfront is a little too much especially if his shy thats like putting him on the spot.since you haven't seen him in a while and when he tried to work things out with you by being friends you were mean to him.i would call and talk to him as a friend say things like how are you?how are things going? then i would apologize for how you reacted.try to see if you can hang out with him start flirting a Little then work you way up there hopefully he gets the message .then when the moment comes tell him how you feel .best of luck and if he rejects you just know it wasnt meant to be dont dwell on it and move on if things work out try not to mess up.
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Hello,well if you really have these feelings for him that are this strong then you should definitley be open and talk about it, it is worth a shot because you never know what could happen,you dont have to direclty say I want you back or anything because that would probably turn him off and even though you probably are not fond of his new girlfriend that would be pretty rude,just think if you were with him and an ex did that you would be pretty upset. just simply maybe say hi and if he does not respond like through a txt or if he calls and you dont respond then you know it wasnt meant to be and just move on,but if he responds you could just ask how he has been and that you miised talking to him,which is reasonable to say since you guys did date and where crazy over eachother. You should act no certain way just be yourself,acting differently will never work. If he really has strong feelings for you then he will more than likely come back to you but if not then you have to move on,that just means he is not the guy for you,there are plenty of guys out there for you and will like and accept for you for you,peoppe are put in your life for a reason but they are not there forever unless they are meant to be.Dont worry about it at all if he is not the one for you,I am sure you are quite young and even older women dont have realtionships and things just dontworkout,it just takes time to find that right guy!So just think positive and everything will be fine:)I hope this helped,if you have any further qustions I would be happy to help you on this topic or any other topic,just send me a private message,the best of luck to you!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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If you are absolutely set on trying to get back together/work something out with him, then maybe an innocent text/IM would be appropriate... (or even a phone call if you're feeling daring)
You don't want to get rejected or come out with all of your feelings the first time you talk to him. An innocent text/IM/call would involve a "whats up!" and a "what have you been up to?", stuff like that. Don't come out with "i miss you" but you CAN say "i miss hanging out" in a sweet, almost joking way and see how he responds. At this point you're just trying to feel the tone and how he chooses to answer. If he seems interested and responds friendly, then that's great. But if he's giving you short answers and not asking you questions, then maybe it's time to move on. But even if that's the case, you have closure and know where things stand!
Hope everything works out :]
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