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i don't know why but i don't really have any guy friends. i'm 17 (female) and guys barely talk to me. when they do i'm not really shy or anything but the guys i hang around just never have anything to talk about so our conversations are brief. i dont really have a crush on anyone but i do find some guys at my school attractive/i would hook up with them but i don't know how that would ever happen. i dont feel like any guy would ever want to hook up with me... but i don't know why. i'm pretty "normal," not ugly or anything, in shape, good sense of humor, and i have a pretty wide circle of friends. i'm nice to everyone and i don't talk badly of anyone... im not clingy to guys either. i really need help, im woried about even getting a prom date! (link)
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You just really have to put yourself out there, don't be afraid to talk to people. Don't be the annoying girl who randomly talks to people..cause that can be annoying. But when those guys do talk to you..sweep them into your conversation. Find ways to make it last longer. Just act like your talking to one of your friends. Don't be afraid to ask the guys around you in class questions or laugh with them or something. All you have to do is put yourself out there. Don't expect to find a guy overnight though, just start with making friends with guys. I am actually quiet in class..but i always find something to talk about to the people around me. Whether its asking them about the assignments or making a comment on how boring and long the class is...just something.Because i talk with the people around me, i'm not considered quiet in my class. And people feel they can turn and talk to me whenever they want. Just remember to be nice and open to any conversation. Just try making friends. Don't give up!! It will happen for you =)
Also, what about your girlfriends? Do they have guys or guy friends that they can set you up with? Or at least hang out with. You can easily make guy friends that way.
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ok yeah so i like him
yeah but im someone who never ever datess
and last nite he told me he liked me a lot!and i told him i liked him too but then he was like ithought u dont date and im confused because i really like him! but i just dont date because i dont trust myself when i have a boyfriend because i always cheat. is there anyway that i can trust myself enough to not cheat! or should i just not date him? (link)
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That tough =(. I think if he's someone you like, your not going to what to hurt his feelings. You should only date him if you really truely care about him..cause then your not going to want to cheat on him. You could try trusting yourself, and if it's getting too overwhelming then break up?
Good luck
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ive liked a guy over 3 years
my friends got involved try getting me to talk to him. he knows i like him. my group and his group became good friends
long story short, in the end my friends are better friends with him. i am still to shy. i try and talk to him but he just doesnt always talk back. he is shy oo, but i think its cuz he knows i like him but i dont know
my friends are closer to him and it hurts me. what do i do?
stop hanging with them all, try harder with him, ot just ignore everything.
please help!! (link)
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Tell your friends. I know if that happened i'd be like GUYS i never get to talk to him because i can never get a word in! lol. Start speaking up. Just be comfortable, like the guys aren't even there. Me and my friends are crazy when we hang out with our guys cause we just don't care. that doesn't mean you should be like obnoxiously annoyingly outgoing lol but just be yourself with your girls. Try sitting next to him or if he is standing alone doing something go talk to him. The most you can do is to just have fun and TALK to him.
=)You've really got nothing to lose
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18,f. sorry long, but so thankful if you read this.
i use to be happy, i use to love life. now i'm the complete opposite. i've been through so much in the past and i'm currently going through some rough times. i don't like to complain, i don't want people to feel bad for me but i just don't know what to do with myself anymore. it all started in 8th grade. i had a major surgery, and it wash honestly one of the worst things i had to deal with. i had a cist in my mouth, they had to break my jaw. the oral surgeon said NOBODY has ever seen this before, it was something rare. after surgery i was throwing up blood, i couldn't sleep and didn't eat. i lost so much weight and i'm a skinny girl to begin with. they threatened to put a tube down my throat because i needed to eat but i refused. it ended up taking about a full year for my cheeks to get back to normal and everything else but now i have to go every year to the hospital for a check up to make sure the cells that were in my cist aren't coming back, because it's possible and that just scares me so much. my great grandpa also died, i know people aren't really close with their "great" grandparents or anything but he was like my grandpa. i saw him all the time, he believed in me, he was one of the strongest men i know and he was my hero. when he died i was so lost. people think i'm so gorgeous, guys have even told me im "perfect" and i think i'm pretty, but have no self-confidence. i can't take a compliment at all. i don't really mind how i look but no guys want to go for me for some reason. i'm not a bitch, i'm a nice person i dont know what my problem is. i have trust issues, especially with guys. i've tried to trust people and two of my best friends completely screwed me over and it hurt, really bad because they did hurtful things, and it affected my family. i use to be close to my family. don't get me wrong it's not like i don't still talk to them but they think i don't appreicate anything. they think i'm a brat and all i do is want everything from them. lately i have been crabby, i'll admit that and maybe sometimes i don't treat my parents how they should be treated but i can't help it. everything is getting to me and i have the shortest temper. sometimes i'll even cry for no reason? my friends all left me to go off to college and i need them, more than anything. i'm a freshman in college but am living at home. college is so stressful, i am trying so hard and i'm doing pretty good but it's taking a toll on me. work is just a whole different issue. i love my job, and i had the opportunity to work at a bank but i didn't want to leave my current job because i loved it so much and that opportunity passed and now i regret it so much because i can't work at the place i'm at now forever. and i'm majoring in business so i should of taken the bank job. since school started and with everything else going on i don't really have time to eat much. i've lost about 10 pounds in the past two months. i am about 5'6 and use to weigh around 120 and now i weigh about 112. i don't want to lose weight, i try to gain it back but i can't, i can't eat right. all my jeans are too big for me now and i hate it. i can't sleep at night. i am too worried about everything going on in my life. i recently had my heartbroken by my best guy friend,we were not going out but were really close to and he decided he wanted someone else and i don't know how i'm going to overcome this. i have been having pains in my stomach, and the worst aches on my body and my mom thinks it's due to stress, i think so too. ive been to the doctor and they said nothing was wrong. nobody understands me. they don't know what i'm going through. everyone thinks im something i'm not. they think i'm a strong girl, they think i'm happy because i pretend to be they think i live a perfect life. i don't want people to think my life is a mess and that i have so many problems. i do let it out, i have cried too many times to count but nobody knows this. my parents won't understand. they think i'm fine. everytime i bring up a problem with them they say "you'll be fine" or "dont worry, it'll get better" or "there is nothing wrong with you" they tell me to try my hardest and thats all they ask of me because they know how stressed out i get and they know i try, really really hard at everything i do but i just can't even handle everything right now. i know people in the world have much worse problems than me, but why does it seem like everything in my life is falling apart. like nothing i do will make it better? (link)
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I can really relate to what your story. I myself have not been happy and it started in 8th grade when my best friend moved across the country, when i also moved and went to a new school, and when my dad started to forget about me and my siblings for his new girlfriend. I have cried soooo many times and sometimes its just for no reason. I've gotten really annoyed with people really easily especially my family. They all say i'm just the grinch of the house cause i'm short tempered. I think its great that you think your a pretty person, because I don't think anything good about myself ever. Im not a doctor, but i do think you have depression and have anxiety issues. Your kinda like me and my sister combined. I'm depressed and have no self-confidence and she has a lot of self-confidence but is a complete mess because of her anxiety. She took an anxiety class at her college and she said it really helped. You learn ways to cope with what your feeling and how to deal with situations without breaking down crying. Going to a psychiatrist will help soo much. They can give you medicine and you'll feel so much more happier. Plus you'll have someone to talk to about your probelms.
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Oksy, so I am not in need of a lecture on how I nned to be protected from oregnancy and STD's. I have take the proper precautions; I have been taking BC pills for almost 3 months now and I have condoms on hand. I am planning on doing with someone I trust and care for very much. No need to worry too much, I know the consequences and what-not.
My question is more of what would be the least painful way to lose virgnity. I have never been fingered but am willing to if it helps. Also, I am a rather tiny person so I don't know if that makes a difference. Is the top or bottom better for pain? If it hurts can we stop or is it one of those things that's going to hurt as much on the way out as it did on the way in? Does masterbation make it easier for later? (random detail: i know i get wet rather easily, as in turned on, would this benefit me or make it woerd?)
I am 18/f and he is 22/m if this makes a difference. In Canada that's legal right? As in, the legal consent age is 18 right, not 19? (link)
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When you lose your virginity, of course it will be somewhat painful..but there are ways to make it less painful. Fingering will definately help. Starting off with 1 finger until it doesn't hurt..then 2 until it doesnt hurt..ect. I'm also a tiny person..and the fingering definately helped open me up. Either way, its going to feel sore your first time. Putting it in at first will be a little painful but like i said..fingering will help. If it does hurt, you can take a break. Its not going to be painful to take out but you'll feel sore. The top is definately less painful at least in my experience. You are much more open when you ride on top of your partner then when your under them. Getting wet easily will help when inserting his member but you can also get a KY Jelly that you can put over the condom to make an easier insertion. I don't know if you'd feel comfortable doing this, but you could always buy different sized dildo's or vibrators or something to use on yourself before you have sex. I've never tried it but it would seem to do the same as fingering.
As for the Canada thing..i'm not sure! Sorry
But good luck!
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im going to a quincanera party ( sweet 15) and i need a nice dress. does any one have any ideas? like colorss or anything? or anywhere i can get a dress. thanks ;] (link)
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Don't wear anything that looks like what their party girl is wearing! Bad idea lol
If it is formal..a long dress would be great. It doesn't have to be long really..but a formal looking dress is good.
If its really ball gowny ish then definately a long dress. Any long dress would do. Try for colors like dark purple, light pink, blue..whatever really just don't look like that party girl!!
I suggest looking at bloomindales they have really cute dresses there. They can be expensive..but it does get you an idea. You can always print out their dresses and take it with you to other stores and look for dresses that are alike.
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how do u remove the pimples on your back, and how do they form? and why? i have my prom soon, and i am waring a back-less dress! i have to look good! lol. :D need help urgently!!! :( (link)
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Athletes tend to get acne on the back and shoulders a lot. The combinatino of sweat and clothes rubbing against your skin causes and irritation and does result in acne. Make sure you shower after working out..don't leave the sweat on you. There are many body washes that will help you.
Neutrogena body clear body wash
http://www.drugstore.com/qxp45779_333181_sespider/neutrogena_body_clear/body_wash_salicylic_acid_acne_treatment.htm
Murad Acne Body Wash
http://www.murad.com/acne-body-wash.html
(can be found at Bath & Body works)
Here's a ton more
http://www.google.com/products?q=acne+body+wash&sa=N&start=0
A dermatologist could also prescribe you a cream that will help get rid of your back acne.
I've heard of a LOT of people using Proactive body wash to get rid of their back acne..but that can be pricey so i do suggest reading reviews on each product before you use it. However, even though some people may not like the product, it could work on you. Everybody's different. If you don't see a result with your acne within 2 weeks of using the product- you may want to head to the doctor to get medication.
Hope i helped = )
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im an 18 year old female.
i've never had sex before, and don't plan on it anytime soon because i just haven't found the right guy, the one i love. i was just wondering though. how can people enjoy sex? i hear its a wonderful thing but all i can imagine is me being so worried about getting pregnant that i couldn't even enjoy it. i am currently on birth control (for my period) and have been for about 2 and a half years. i know i am going to make him use a condom, no doubt. i just can't see myself enjoying it though because i will be so worried about getting pregnant. i just wondered how people enjoy it so much, without thinking about getting pregnant the whole time! thanks [: (link)
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It does hurt your first time. It's not a comfortable feeling and sometimes people cry. Some people say that it doesn't hurt at all..completely depends on your body. However, in my experience it does hurt the first times. It starts to get better and pretty soon it wont hurt. Also, not all girls get pleasure from the penis itself, sometimes their clitoris has to be rubbed as well to get full pleasure. Most women do not experience an orgasm until their 20's or so.
About the getting pregnant thing, when it comes time that you have sex with the guy you love, you won't be worrying about getting pregnant. You'll be using two really good things..birth control and a condom. The condom breaking during sex is not rare, but that doesn't mean it happens all the time. And if it does happen, your on birth control. So really, when it come that time don't worry. Your being extra safe and you have really good protection. Just focus on being with the one you love = )
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Ok, not really, but anyways...im 18 and the other day i was at work and one of my friends came in with some of his friends.
i'd never seen them before, but from the second i started talking to them, i had the BIGGEST connection with one of them.
ok so im in to the bad boys, with tattoos, big trucks...ect..
but this guy i met is way different, he's so adorable, in a christian band, sweet as hell...!
anyways, when i got off work, we all hung out for like 3 hours...and me and him flirted so much, and we got each others numbers...
then i find out he has a gf, of like a month, who happens to be in my grade, and way ugly :( anyways he called me last night, and we talk on myspace lol and he really wants to hang out!
...i seriously cant stop thinking about him!!
and he's so different from what i normaly go for, and he's 18 also.
so...what shall i do about this gf???
i dont want to sound like a bitch but, i really want him, and honestly i dont care what it takes to get him...so advice?????????
THANX!!! :) (link)
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You really shouldn't be the girl that he cheats on his girlfriend with or breaks up for. He might be all sweet but what happens when you start dating and he see's another girl thats cute and starts hanging out with her? I'm not saying that WILL happen but its always something you have to think about. Maybe you should ask him up front if he's trying to get with you or just be friends..but that could be awkward.
So really, its up to you. But i just suggest thinking before you do.
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So I just moved this year to a new HIGH SCHOOL (I'm a soph), and I absolutely HATE IT. I have like some people to talk to in classes but nobody who goes out of their way to be like really good friends. I have a lunch table to sit at but its not any better than sitting alone honestly because the people are in tiny cliques at the table and ignore me.. :( I spend majority of my lunch time in the library...it's really sad....i've never ever ever had to do that before. I've moved a lot too! (Never in high school tho). And so anyways, you get the basic point. I have no friends to talk to after/before school. Or friends to hang out with in this town (except ONE friend who goes to A CATHOLIC SCHOOL and Ive known her for awhilee but she's busy most of the time). So anyways, the question. I was thinking about going to her Catholic school. I mean at least I would have her right? If not anyone else?? Problem is, it's 6000 somethinn a yearr. My family would have to find the money from god knows where to keep me in there. I'm getting a job (Planning on it so i may be able to help...a little) but its still a lot of money! I'm not catholic but i'm christian...so i'm not going for the religion but my parents were talking about putting me in a christian school but its like 4000 DOLLARS MORE EXPENSIVE! And i'm like nooo, thats stupid!! I'd rather just go to my friends school! It has more electives (Like fashion, which the other school doesnt have and I really wanna take it). And it has my friend....and i'm not saying she's going to be the only friend I have in the school because I plan on making friends through her or on my own..but like in the end i can hang out with her in the mornings or afternoons....compared to this school right now where i just go to school and get out as soon as possible to get a ride with my mom....its really sad... :\ So i'm unsure of what to do. I just donnoo if i can stay in this stpuid school :[ even if I had the money to do extra curriculars :[ ughhhh. please helppppppp :( thats my parents argument. Like if I stayed in the public school i have money for extra curriculars...such as voice lessons, acting classes, etc. but ughh idkkk :( please help!! (link)
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I've been in this situation..and it truely sucks. Everyone already has their cliques and its really really stupid cause no one opens up to invite you to hang out. I know for sure if i saw someone knew i'd talk to them and get to know them and help them feel welcome. But trust me if you can make it in this school you'll be so prepared when college comes around. It's hard going to a new school..no one knows you and it seems like no one wants to know you. I found that guys are actually a lot more accepting. You really just have to be out going and make that connection with people. In your classes, participate in group activities..talking and joking around with people will get them to know you. Raising your hand to say answers, asks questions. Joining a club or after school activity is a GREAT way to meet people. You can get a job at a place where people at your school shop or eat or something. You'll meet a lot of people that way too. My friend works at Hollister and she see's so many people from my school and talks with them even if their not friends you can say "Do you go to _________?" and stuff. You also meet a lot of people that way too. I think you should try to stick it out for a few months which is probably not what you want to hear..but you really just have to try.
Let me know if you need more help!
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Me and this guy I have a huge crush on are in our schools band together. We know eathothers names and say hi to eachother and we chat somtimes at band practice and competitions. The problem is, I dont know how do get any closer to him! Yesterday, I went out of my way to sit by him in the bleachers at our band competition, and I talked to him alot durring it, but never really got into any real conversation, just like little comments. I am not shy at all, but I really just cant think of anything to do to get his attention and get him thinking about me. He probably just thought it was a fluke that I sat next to him for all that time yesterday, if he even thought about it at all. I want to invite him to do somthing with my freinds, because he is sorta friends with some of the guys in my group, but my friends havn't done anything lately as a group that would be appropiate to ask him to come to. Another problem is, we only have one week left of band practices and competition... then its totally over for the year, and I dont even have any classes with him. So please help! I really really like him but only have one week to get him! Any ideas?
Oh yes, and I want to flirt with him, but I just dont want it to be too obvious, because you know how it is when you're with your friends and one of them is getting flirted with really hard, and as soon as the flirter leaves you all talk about it and discuss it with the person who was getting flirted with... you know what I mean? Like, I dont wnat to flirt with him alot and then as soon as I leave all his friends will turn to him and say "Woah! She was really trying hard to pick you up, huh?" So what are some really subtle ways that I can lure him in without making a scene? (link)
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He could definately be shy. It sounds like you need your friends help! Me and my friends used to do this all the time..if we liked a guy we'd get our guy friend who knows him to invite him to something. Something like bonfires..movies..hanging at someones house..hot tub..anything! He does sound shy..so you wouldn't make it a lot of people. Movies are good cause he's not on the spot. Set up a date with your friends and work on getting him there. AND do not worry if it doesn't work out..it does seem like the end of your chance but its not. I used to change the way i went to class in school JUST so i can pass by a guy..so lame but so worth it. You can pass him in the hall and wave and say hey and occasionaly ask him where he's going. I know this might be OUT there but you could always just be like Hey what are you doing this weekend cause me and my friends are doing ___ and are trying to get people to come so it would be cool if you could come.
FOR NOW, don't follow him around the room to try to get him. Just stay cool..look good and walk by him and say hey without looking at him like your busy. If you happen to sit next to eachother..then talk to other people around you and then ocassionaly say something to him. Striking up conversations like.."So whats up?" "Hows your day" and stuff like that can sometimes lead NO WHERE. Telling stories can be annoying to guys sometimes so if your trying to get him interested in what your saying..keep it short. Always smile when you walk in like your happy. Getting a guys attention can be so hard and confusing i gotta tell you. But really, don't worry if you can't get closer to him this week. You will see him in the hallways or before school and you might even run into him out and about. Overall, i really just suggest smiling and saying a nice Hey when you see him at band. Make eye contact with them like your going to sit with him..and then look somewhere else and sit there. It kinda makes them think "Why did she look at me and then sit over there". Of course you don't do it in a way that makes it seem like you hate him..cause that would just be bad. But by the end of the week, really just go up and ask if he wants to hang out with you and your friends and have a bonfire or play a huge game of flashlight tag or manhunt( its actually so much fun). If you feel like he thinks your coming on strong..just act liek your talking to one of your friends and be like "its cool if you can't or don't want to we just want a lot of people". I swear its not awkward if its just an open invitation and he wont feel on the spot.
Good luck!! And let me know if you need more help.
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what is that movie like charlie something
its about a kid who gets advice from his therapist
and gives advice to others in a bathroom stall (link)
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Isn't it like Charlie Bartlet??
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Yeah well i did have one of my friends ask him and he said that he does not like her at all. And then she thinks its like special that he acts like that with me cause he doesnt do that with all the other girls like al the other dudes in my grade. But like part of me wants to believe her what she says is true the other part is like what if he is just being a guy. (link)
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I think if he says he doesn't like her at all, then he means it. And you should somehow let him know that you like him. Telling one of his friends works because they'll def. tell him and they'll let you know what he says. Or if you don't want to tell him you like him cause your afraid he might just be being a guy..have his friend ask him if he likes you. If he says no..you can always be like "oh okay someone said you did". But if he does like you it will all be good!
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How do you make your boobs bigger without taking pills or boob jobs? (link)
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People have told me that massaging them works? Like if you take lotion and just massage them for like 10 minutes every day. Not really sure if that works. But there are def. work outs that make your boobs a little bigger! Like i have this ab slider and i was using it and then next day i realized my boobs kinda hurt and they looked bigger.
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what things can i do to get my bf hard without touching his thing?? like he and i arent sexually active but i really wanna arouse him and he loves it when i do soo what will get him hard?? where to touch, how to kiss, where to kiss, anything is open!! THANX (link)
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Kiss his neck and his ear lightly. and run your fingers around behind his ears and his neck down his body and lightly use your finger tips to massage his stomach. you can go like down his pants a little bit just like using your fingers as lightly as possible and just massage the area around without touching his thing lol. also if you like straddle him when your both sitting up and just like lift up his shirt and just like rub his whole chest while looking at him. just plain making out with him can get them hard too!! Try reading this..
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/sex/597244-2
even though you guys aren't sexually active you can still use the site to find ways to get him hard!
goodluck :)
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i need some new things to do with my bouy when we makeout some things that will really turn him on. it doesnt have to be when we are making out actually i really want to know what to do to lure him to makeout with me. like some things that will make him want me so much he cant keep his hands off me. whenever he gets real lusty and cant keep away from me i get soo turned on and come on it just makes everything so much more fun and exciting!! all answers are appreciated :) thanks (link)
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It is a lot of fun when they get all 'cant keep their hands off you' kinda mood -i wont lie!! I always did different things with my bf to find things that he liked. Like when he would watch tv i would like crawl over to him and act like i was going to kiss him. like baaarley touch his lips with mine and then back away and kiss his cheek and his neck. And he always liked when i talked real quietly in a sexy voice in his ear. Or if i was wearing like tight pants he liked when i would bend over like right infront of him to pick up something. However-- some guys..never notice that kinda thing! Sometimes i would like rub his stomach under his shirt REALLY lightly with my fingertips and go down into his pants and ALMOST touch him down there but then like slowly come back up. Basically anything sexy will work! I know if you go to cosmopolitan.com i know they have like a bunch of tips for that kinda stuff!
good luck :)
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i am new at my school in kentucky, ive made a few friends. but only 2 or 3 friends i am able to get togethor with over the weekends. i feel very lonely and stupid because my other old friends all fit into social groups and have lives outside of school and hang out with their friends, in groups. I feel so low because i dont do much over the weekends..I dont enjoy that. at all. I wish people invited me places, ive invited them places before but they never ask me to go anywhere. it upsets me because all of my old friends have lives, and I do not. I dont know what im doing wrong, Im a nice person and I talk to them and try to be very outgoing. I wish someone could help. (link)
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You proabbly don't feel comofortable in the school because its not the enviroment your used to. Your used to walking around the school and knowing who everyone was even if you weren't friends with them. And you become comfortable with that. Kinda like when you sleep over at a friends house for the first time and you have no idea what their rules are and stuff so you try to be like the best you can where as if your at your best friends house you feel much more comfortable.
What i did was i just acted like i was at my old school still. I would show the same confidence i had when i walked down the hallways at my old school where i knew everyone and felt comfortable. And the confidence really shows through to other people. Maybe you can like just ask someone a question that sits next to you in a class that you havn't really talked to EVER. But it lets other people know that your outgoing.
Also, i know exactly how you feel about the inviting thing. Even with my best friends, i feel like they never ask me to do something. They might be like "yeah lets hang out" and then they forget and all get together and when i call they'll be like "oh yeah you can come" kinda thing. You should just show them how fun you can be to hang out with and they'll be like hey i wanna hang out with her again.
Things will look up!!
Good luck :)
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Ok this might be long but i need your complete honest advice. So i really like this guy he is so adorable and like we click like that right. So i have a free period with him and 3 other of my guy friends who always tease me and make jokes about me being blonde and crap and stuff kk. He is like the only guy who doesnt really be mean and stuff. And he always steals my cell ipod and books and stuff during free and like i have a mirror on my locker he took and always like steals it and hides it and makes me find it. he also is in my homeroom and sits behind me most of the time and will always be like grace we have freee or on somedays he will be like grace i hate you why do you have one more freee then me now u have 3 frees today and stuff. i told this to my friends and she said since he is kinda shy it MIGHT mean something because he doesnt just flirt with all girls. And also he really was stuck on this one girl who my bff holly says he doesnt like anymore last time they talked but my other freind ashley says that he still does. please help me i want to kno if he is into me. (link)
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Guys do things to girls in a playful manor a lot. I would know all my guy friends steal stuff from me and hide it and stuff. It seems like your friends have like an "in" with the boy you like. Like they can go chat with him and be like "so do you still like that girl" and get an answer out of him. if he says like "i don't know" or some answer that doesn't really give you a hint..then maybe you could tell him you like him! or tell one of his friends.
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Does it feel good when someone fingers you? Because my boyfriend wants to, but I'm scared that it wont feel good or it will hurt. What about after if he's fingers are wet? What does he do? I feel like an idiot for asking, but I really wanna know.. (link)
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Don't worry everyone feels like that. For me it hurt the first time but the second time was much better. And it does feel good..you just have to relax. Just let him know if something hurts.
Goodluck :)
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