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love at first sight...?
Ok, not really, but anyways...im 18 and the other day i was at work and one of my friends came in with some of his friends.
i'd never seen them before, but from the second i started talking to them, i had the BIGGEST connection with one of them.
ok so im in to the bad boys, with tattoos, big trucks...ect..
but this guy i met is way different, he's so adorable, in a christian band, sweet as hell...!
anyways, when i got off work, we all hung out for like 3 hours...and me and him flirted so much, and we got each others numbers...
then i find out he has a gf, of like a month, who happens to be in my grade, and way ugly :( anyways he called me last night, and we talk on myspace lol and he really wants to hang out!
...i seriously cant stop thinking about him!!
and he's so different from what i normaly go for, and he's 18 also.
so...what shall i do about this gf???
i dont want to sound like a bitch but, i really want him, and honestly i dont care what it takes to get him...so advice?????????
THANX!!! :)
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I'm trying not to repeat the same things the other comments say, but they're right.
You may like this guy a lot, but it's really not fair to his girlfriend. How would you like it if you were in her shoes?
He may seem sweet, but if he has a girlfriend & he's flirting with you, how do you know he wouldn't do the same thing to you if you were dating him?
The best advice I can give you, even though I doubt you'll want to hear it, is to just not interfere with other people's relationship.
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You really shouldn't be the girl that he cheats on his girlfriend with or breaks up for. He might be all sweet but what happens when you start dating and he see's another girl thats cute and starts hanging out with her? I'm not saying that WILL happen but its always something you have to think about. Maybe you should ask him up front if he's trying to get with you or just be friends..but that could be awkward.
So really, its up to you. But i just suggest thinking before you do.
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well, not to put a damper on your mood but you really shouldnt start out being 'the other woman.' next time he asks you to hang out or you get on the topic, you need to tell him straight out that you don't want to hang out unless he doesnt have a girlfriend. This would tell him that you don't want some other girl to be mad at you, and that you don't want his girl to be mad at him. If he really likes you too, then maybe he'll realize that he can't have his girlfriend and be flirtin it up with you, and he'll have to choose the better end of the deal ;)
xoxo helpachick
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