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Firefighter vs. Artist
20/f
I have been dating this guy who is an artist for almost a year and a half now.
Pros: *He is a really nice guy
*He claims he wants to marry me.
*His sister is awesome
*He makes me laugh and i can do stupid stuff with him
Cons: *We do the same things over and over
*He is an artist but he also has to have a regular job, so he is always broke
*I cannot stand his mother
Ok, now everyone is going to think I am a bad person, but I just feel like the Artist is my friend and not my boyfriend. So I have been looking. I have met this guy who is a firefighter online, and he seems really nice. I haven't met him in person yet, but I have his phone number.
What is your opinion on what I should do? I am so confused right now.
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i think you should decide once you meet the other guy in person hang around him for a little while.then if he meets your needs and the artist is still not willing to change then make your decision but becareful, cause as you already know someone will get hurt just make sure your a 100% sure with your decisions . good luck
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well with the artist, not all relationships are going to be perfect. But, if you feel like he is more than a friend and if you TRULY feel like he will never really be more than a friend to you, then you should end it. Maybe you are just bored with your relationship, try spicing it up by going on dates to different places, ect.
Youre not a bad person, you are still young so you shouldnt be tied down to one guy. If you say you connect well with the firefighter, meet him and see how it goes. Dont cross the line though. Just keep your options open.
In my opinion, i would just not do anything for the time being, and just meet with the firefighter and see how it is going. There is a saying "when in doubt, DONT."
You arent sure what to do, so just dont do anything, go with the flow
GOOD LUCK!
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