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how can you enjoy sex?
im an 18 year old female.
i've never had sex before, and don't plan on it anytime soon because i just haven't found the right guy, the one i love. i was just wondering though. how can people enjoy sex? i hear its a wonderful thing but all i can imagine is me being so worried about getting pregnant that i couldn't even enjoy it. i am currently on birth control (for my period) and have been for about 2 and a half years. i know i am going to make him use a condom, no doubt. i just can't see myself enjoying it though because i will be so worried about getting pregnant. i just wondered how people enjoy it so much, without thinking about getting pregnant the whole time! thanks [:
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I was the same way, but once you find a guy who you truly love, sex will be an amazing experience. I understand being a little nervous about being pregnant, I was, too. And like you, I'm also on birth control, & I use a condom every time.
Even though it is possible for both of those prevention methods to fail, the odds of them failing at the same time is small. I highly doubt it will happen. Also, to feel a little bit more secure, there's also a female version of a condom, I think it's supposed to be like a sponge or something, that you put in you to prevent pregnancy.
You could always use that, too, but once you start having sex with someone you're in love with, it will probably feel so good that you won't even be thinking about pregnancy.
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It's really good to hear that you are going to use a condom even though you're on birth control. You definitely should not be worrying about getting pregnant while you are having sex! It is an intimate time between you and your partner, and it's really important that you're completely comfortable with him and the situation. Sex is sexy and hot, but it's also gross and awkward. Make sure it's with the right guy! You actually won't be able to have sex if you are worried/nervous because you won't be able to get "wet enough."
Regarding getting pregnant, it is truthfully really hard to get pregnant. You just have to use protection, take your birth control on time, and if the condom breaks- then you take the morning after pill. If you carry out the steps necessary to prevent pregnancy (by using condoms and taking birth control) it is REALLY hard to get pregnant.
Don't let the possibility of getting pregnant ruin the intimate moment between you and your partner.
I hope everything works out!
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It does hurt your first time. It's not a comfortable feeling and sometimes people cry. Some people say that it doesn't hurt at all..completely depends on your body. However, in my experience it does hurt the first times. It starts to get better and pretty soon it wont hurt. Also, not all girls get pleasure from the penis itself, sometimes their clitoris has to be rubbed as well to get full pleasure. Most women do not experience an orgasm until their 20's or so.
About the getting pregnant thing, when it comes time that you have sex with the guy you love, you won't be worrying about getting pregnant. You'll be using two really good things..birth control and a condom. The condom breaking during sex is not rare, but that doesn't mean it happens all the time. And if it does happen, your on birth control. So really, when it come that time don't worry. Your being extra safe and you have really good protection. Just focus on being with the one you love = )
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no, your dumb. when your baby is born with disorders and shit and you end up hating on yourself, don't go crying to mommy bout it.
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