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loving deeply losing so much...
I know this make no sense, but I was wondering, why is it that people who have lost so much in life whether it be a parent or somthing can love so deeply and live, but the people who have suffered so little cannot?? If this makes no sense I'm sorry, then just ignore my question. My friends dad committed suicide and I just can't understand how anyone can commit suicide and leave the family behind and not know the damage it has caused. It really gets me when people on this site are asking how to kill themselves, b/c don't you know that suicide temporarily solves the problem by permanently destroying lives?? Gosh, I just don't get it. I want to know what would posess someone to commit suicide, problems are so temporary thats why life is called a roller coaster b/c it has up and downs. I mean how else would we aprreciate the good days if we didn't have bad ones to go with it...
Can someone explain to me, why I can cry my eyes out over someone I don't know committing suicde yet some ppl do it without a second thought???
I just want to say something to him, but I don't know what to say...saying I'm sorry about your dad just seems so limited, I feel there is so much I could do, but where do you even start???
Thank you for reading this. :/
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i know exactly what you are talking about.
sometimes i just sit there and think about it too.
but there are many reasons why people commit suicides.
usually its and internal conflict that they can never resolve. maybe mentally they are just way too weak and they cant do anything to make the pain go away.
many people feel like their dying anyways and they know their pain affects other peoples lives too.
so when they take their lives away(commit suicide)they feel like they are takin away stress from themselves and everybody around them.
nobody really knows why people kill themselves when life is suppose to be hard.
but all you can do is live YOUR life to the fullest and try not to make the same mistake
this might hurt you because you might feel like you have it so good while your friend's dad just committed suicide.
or maybe it is just the fact that you have a heart and it hurts you.
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but dont worry life is worth living so just make sure you dont give up.
hope i helped and if you need more help with anything dont be afraid to talk to me. =]
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K its hard for someone whose never felt like commiting sucide or someone who hasnt been through a lot to understand but the reason most people commit sucide is because they have something that is bothering them. Most teens commit sucide because they've been bullied or tormented and most adults commit sucide because they're having trouble paying bills and getting their family everything they need also they could be depressed about not giving their family enough. Your friend is probably going through a lot the only think you can really say is he's in a better and happier place looking over you and protecting you i hope i helped if you need any more help feel free to ask :)
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