i just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last week. we were talking about it tonight and he was saying how i cant last long enough to get him off and was asking if im a virgin. i cant help but take this as an insult. im not a virgin but have only had sex a few times before him. should i be embarassed or insulted by this?
Exquisitechick answered Tuesday October 21 2008, 1:04 am: It doesnt mean he was insulting you. It really depends on how he was saying it. He COULD of been insulting you, but he also could have just been curious about it. Plus, since thats the only thing you guys said about that subject i wouldnt really take it as insulting. Since youve only had sex a couple times its normal for it to hurt you and for you want to stop. Once you do it more, it wont hurt.
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Katlyn answered Tuesday October 21 2008, 12:54 am: i would take that as an insult too and you shouldnt be embarassed you should be insulted he's basically saying your no good at it i hope i helped good luck:) [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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