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Me and my g/f
My gf says im not daring enough like she wants me to grab her but and finger her but I want to treat her with respect and iono most ppl would think i'm weir for not doing it but iono
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Your girlfriend is dating you because she is extremely immature and sees you as her way of not being a "loser" by not being sexually experienced. She is dating you because she thinks having a boyfriend is supposed to be exciting and illicit.
If you arent ready or dont want to do those things, then find a new girl. The one you have is just going to end up pregnant and a dropout somewhere down the line.
And do not _ever_ compromise on your own values (especially ones like respecting women) because some little slut wanna be wants you to. You're young, you'll meet plenty of decent girls further down the line.
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It sounds like your gf just wants to keep up with her friends..and maybe she thinks you're not into her because you're not as physically demanding of her. But just let her know you're into her in other ways..if you're not comfortable touching her butt then just rub her back or her shoulders and arms. If all she wants is to move forward physically in your relationship, then you two are on different levels and you should probably let her know that.
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Having respect for women is pretty weird...
Just explain your feelings about the whole thing to her and hope she gets it. Make her understand that that just isn't what you're into
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Honestly, people who think your wierd, are the wierd ones.
There should be more guys like you out there.
But don't do anything if your not ready, I'm pretty sure shes ready, since shes asking.
But if thats all she wants from you, then shes not worth your time.
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first off let me say that you must be a grate guy cuz most guys do it any way just because they think its cool.
if you don't feel comfortable doing those things tell her if she leaves you shes not worth it. because i know a bunch of girls that would kill to have a descent person in there lives and if your girlfriend cant see that all you want to do is respect her then don't stay with her now I'm sher she is a great girl and I'm sher you like/love her allot but if she is pressuring you to do something you don't want to the leave her
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Sounds to me like you are a respectable guy. She is a lucky girl. I don't think you are weird, and neither should you.
Look, you do what you are ready to do. Period. If you don't want to do those things, then don't. If she can't accept that, then she is not the one for you to begin with.
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