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Confused
Theres this girl that i been friends with for a long time and i know she likes me and i kinda like her but she is not that popular but pretty
there is this other girl that i actually like alot but me and her arent friends but we give each other the accusional hi in the hallways and she is popular and really pretty shouldi wait and become friends with the popular one or just go out with my friend
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Think about it...weigh out the odds...which one do you like more(if its harder,all the better it will be when you get her). Which one likes you more? (makes a difference) get to know the popular one a little bit, so many people like her so there must be something good about her. I've found that popular people aren't as bitter as people that only have a few group of friends (they're more fun to talk to)>...honestly you can only get this answer from yourself, you have to learn from life experiences...at least thats what every1's been telling me...but, DONT WAIT TO LONG TO MAKE A DECISION!!!!! That is the number 1 thing. But good luck, I wish you the best. :)
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whats popularity got to do with it homie? honestly if your friends a great girl then go for her because why wait for someone you almost know nothing about and do you even know if the popular one likes youi? come on you know your friend does and of course the feelings going to be stronger for the pop. girl but that's because you know you can't really get her at the moment. the occacional hi's are probably just friendly one. if i'm sounding a bit harsh sorry i don't mean to. well that's my opion.
hope i helped
-kikij
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I would think of it as this way- If you do decide to ask out the popular one, well... she's not going to be around you much, popular is the same exact thing as having a lot of friends. If you are her boyfriend, she's going to have a lot of friends and the majority of the time that you go out with her, she will be focusing on them not you. do you get my point? She has a lot of friends and will want to spend time with them, sure maybe 2 or 3 friends is ok to hang out with (without you of course) but she is popular, that means she will have 20 friends asking her to go to the mall on a saturday night, when she will have to say no to all of them because she is going out with you. And that can get very ugly, so she might not pay much attention to you.
Suure, lots of popular people have boyfriends and girlfriends, but they are not that serious. Its actually your decision... do you want a serious relationship, where you meet your girlfriend everyday after school? or every saturday you go out? If so, then I would choose the girl who you are actually friends with and doesn't have so many people waiting to hang out with her...
Do you want a girlfriend ASAP??? then choose the girl you are friends with, you already know things about her so you can move along and ask her out.
If you don't want to rush into having a girlfriend, and you don't care if your girlfriend has 20 different friends wanting to talk to her, then go ahead and choose the popular one...
but beware, I honestly don't think you want a girlfriend that much because if you did, you woudn't care if they were popular or not, you would choose the girl you have most in common with, the girl you love her personallity, the girl you will always remember, the girl who you always talk about and the girl who always makes you happy.
Don't decide weather or not they are popular, choose the one you like from your heart.
-volleyball2150
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Popularity means nothing.
I say you should lean more twoard the girl you know more. But if your not sure and your asking for advice, then your not ready. Take some time and patients is always good to have.
see how things fall out.
cuz if you dont know this other popular girl, who knows she might be completly not your type personallity wise.
Just make sure the relationships meaningful and not some 2 week deal. Make sure your decisions one thats worth it and the best for the long run.
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