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my boyfriend is kind of kinky and last time I went to his place, he had me wear bunny ears. I know he's coming over to my place soon, but he said something about a tail. I'm afraid my boyfriend's a furry. Should I stop shaving "down there (link)
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do you want to stop shaving down there? If you want to stop then stop. But if you don't and your just doing it for him then don't do it. Its your body and you control it. its all up to you
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ive been dating some boy for lik 1month and a half. all thee sudden hes acting really wierd hess ignoring me not writing back to me but hes writing back to my bestfriend. what should i do? should i ask him whats going on or just let it go?:/ im a girl btw
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well i think you should definatly ask him what's going on. because i think that if you don't your going to have wish you did. Im the kind of person who would rather know the truth than to sit there and wonder. Just be prepared for the worst because if you prepare for a lesser outcome then if the outcome is good it'll be alot more satisfying. Sometimes things don't work out but everything has a reason. SO just find the right time to ask him and be strong :]
-hope i helped
Kikij
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Do you think that im being easy? because me and my ex broke up with me because its not working out and fight a lot but he still like me, he wanted to get back with me but i didnt want to
but i still like him. We're friends,But we flirt a lot we hug and stuff and then when we were talking he kinda poked me near my butt and then when we were hugging he suddelny bit my ear out of nowhere 2 times did he lost my respect or am i being easy?
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in my honest opinion you're not easy and for him losing respect for you i'm not sure. May be he's acting like this because he wants to be in a friends w/ benifites relationship and because you're not his girlfriend there's no pressure to act a certain way. i'm not sure i mean my ex acted in the same way with a similar situation and to get over him i needed closure because yeah i liked him but the fighting and everything wasn't for me. Hun i'm not an expert and this is an old saying but try following your instincts if you think you two should just be friends than fine and if you want to be more than ok but be smart about it.
hope i helpped
-kikij
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my gf and i are talking about having sex were both 16 im a bit worried my penis is not that big she said it doesnt matter that much but im a bit nervous i wont measure up can a guy please a girl with a smaller penis? (link)
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for sure! it's not the size that matters it's what you can do with it. like my ex he was smaller than most guys but he really knew how to work it. if you need ideas, for example, he looked at articles on line and in magazines. so don't worry about it and please use protection =]
lots of love
-Kikij
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15 yr old guy and my penis is bent over to the right especially when i get an erection im a bit worried is this normal? it wont matter to my girlfriend? (link)
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is it normal i'm not sure but all guys are different. for example when my ex got an erection it would go a bit more up than other guys. i didn't find it to matter though cause i cared alot about him. meaning if your girlfriend really cares about you for you than it's not gonna matter but if she's just looking for sex it will. (girls like those you don't need them). i'm sure there's nothing wrong with you but if you're worried you might wanna ask a specialist. but i'm pretty sure no worries =]
hope i helped
-kikij
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my bf and are i 16 and weve talked about having sex im a bit nervous a couple of my friends said it really hurts so im worried my bf has a big penis so does it hurt much the first time?
does it depend on the size of his penis? (link)
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ok first of all use protection you wouldn't want to get pregnant. and does it hurt the first time...yes it does. it'll hurt the first two times because the penis will stretch it out to an extent it hasn't before. you might bleed to i didn't but it depends on the person. and considering his size, since it's large, yea it might hurt more since your still a virgin.
well hope i helped!!
-kikij
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alright so my boyfriend and i have bee going out for over a year, anyways we've thought about having sex awhile. i love him and he loves me so dont give me you're too young crap. we were both virgins till today. haha anyways he went inside my vag, and it hurt ALOT. he stuck it in more then half way but not fully, then took it out. the condem had a bit of blood at the tip, but not alot. now, does that mean my cherry popped fully?, or whatt is there suppose to be alot of blood? thankss for readingg :) (link)
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yup it popped.sometimes you can't really tell besides the pain. i mean when mine popped i didn't bleed at all (weird i know). well all i have to say is use protection hun k? any ways it's good that you lost it to someone you love =].
p.s. by the way the first person on here is an idiot because everyone has there own opinion it doesn't mea trying to get higher ratings.
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If someone fingers you are you still a virgin? (link)
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yes hun he didn't penitrate you so it's all good...
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14/m my girlfriend and i talk about sex and stuff all the time about what we would do to eachother etc. and it kinda seems like she is so open with me and i have only known her for about a week or two and am having thoughts that she will tell this stuff to anyone and that she is some sort of a whore or something. What is your opinion? (link)
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well first of all the people who've answered before me i think are a bit harsh i mean i went out with a guy i've only known for two hours(doesn't make me a whore). and the sex convo's well think of who brought it up first if it's you then maybe the reason she's being so opened with you is because she thinks she's making you happy and impressing you. but if it's her then she might be a "whore" but then maybe she's use to this and she's not sure in what other way for her to grab your attention.
and hun i believe that she might have told someone because unless she's not that social and isolated then i have a lesson for you: girls at the teenage state get all excited about certain sitations and might tell anyone.
but yea maybe you might wanna talk to her get to know her better and if you feel uncomfortable with her like your moving to fast infer it and just let things fall into place.
hope i helped! =]
-kikij
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Theres this girl that i been friends with for a long time and i know she likes me and i kinda like her but she is not that popular but pretty
there is this other girl that i actually like alot but me and her arent friends but we give each other the accusional hi in the hallways and she is popular and really pretty shouldi wait and become friends with the popular one or just go out with my friend (link)
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whats popularity got to do with it homie? honestly if your friends a great girl then go for her because why wait for someone you almost know nothing about and do you even know if the popular one likes youi? come on you know your friend does and of course the feelings going to be stronger for the pop. girl but that's because you know you can't really get her at the moment. the occacional hi's are probably just friendly one. if i'm sounding a bit harsh sorry i don't mean to. well that's my opion.
hope i helped
-kikij
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Hey everyone I just have a regular problem I am sure every guy has eventually. Okay there is this girl that I like and I am pretty sure she likes me also. The thing is whenever we are together we have fun and are really cool. It's just that whenever her best friend is around or someone else she changes completely. She acts like she hates me and I can't talk to her because of her friend. Also she and her friend are almost inseparable. I really could use some advice. Thanks. (link)
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k well this girl doesn't seem to be all that into you if she's gonna be one way and then another. but then maybe her friend doesn't like you all that much but she should still be cool with yo in public. i think that there's plenty of fish in the sea(that line's so over rated)may be you need to find another girl and what ever happens happens but don't try to ruin their friendship either.
hope i helped!
-kikij
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he's amazing, he lives in a different town then me and I don't know when I can see him again. I can't take him off my mind, I keep thinking about how we're just engrossd in each other when we do in fact see eachother, and the last time I saw him, before he left, he gave me the sweetest kiss good-bye. I can't wait to see him again, its this huuuge desire. how do I keep my mind off him, I've tried to stay occupied with music, being with friends, but not matter what I do my mind always goes back to him. any ideas? (link)
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well there's not much you can do hun i mean honesty i believe long distance relationships never work out. i mean if you two are meant to be let it go and if he comes back that's when you know. i mean you could always try to find another guy. (i know it might be a little difficult) but other than that maybe an activity at school new friends you know. just don't let him consum our mind but then don't forget about him either ok hun?
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just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?
i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss. (link)
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me well i was 13 and it was infront of my house. but don't stress about the whole first kiss cuz if you think about it too much it might turn out horriblly. =]
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Ok, well last weekend my band took a trip to san antonio and i hooked up with someone. i'm 14/f and a freshman and he's 17/m and a junior. On the bus ride home (about 5 hours) we sat together and shared a blanket, cuddled, held hands, leaned heads on each other, etc. And he did sit with another girl earlier on thr trip but he never acted like that with her. When it was dark I had my head in his lap and we started kissing and making out for the rest of the way home which was about 30ish minutes. It's been three days and he hasn't really taked to me much. He's in my first period class and lunch. He kind of talks to me during first period but only noticed me once in lunch. And after school I'll be standing in the hall and he walks right past me without even looking at me. I like him, but I don't know if he likes me because it's not really seeming that way right now. And I don't to be the naive little freshman who thinks there's a relationsihp there that's really not and follow him around and be annoying. Several of my friends have told me just to forget about him and find someone else, and believe me, I've tried, but for some reason I just can't. But does anyone think that he might like me? And if it doesn't seem that way how can I forget about him? Thanks!! (link)
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hun i don't think so. i mean it was kinda the same thing with me and this guy i was 13 and he was 16 and we did some stupid things and at first i thought relationship!! but no...more like one nght stand. i was that naive little girl that thought we were real. at least until his friend confronted me with the truth. you can't imagine how long i cried for and yea my friends told me to get over him find someone new all that stuff. but i couldn't for a while. i rejected every guy that would ask me out and that's not a good thing so don't do that. take chances cuz that guy probably wasn't worth it hun. and if he is he'll come back to you in life but for you not your body.
like the saying a true kiss is one with the heart not the lips. i know that it might be hard for you but you know what i know you're gonna get over him and it may take a while because i'm not really sure how to get over a guy just like that besides finding something to get your mind off of him.
hope i helped
-KikiJ
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I'm so sick of being the shy little nice passive girl that I am; I'm always ignored,especially by guys. There's this kid that I really really like and just when I think I have a chance with him this random girl comes along and flirts with him like crazyyy and I'm just so tired of being too shy to do anything about it. What can I do to get this guy's, or any guy's, attention? Other than the obvious; like talking to him about his hobbies, music, laughing at his jokes, blah blah blah because that's obviously not working to well. (link)
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well yea i use to be just like you too shy for anything. and yea the hobbie thing works but psh it just may make him think of you more as a friend. flirting is good but i guess you want something else. i could say start dressing like a slut but ha don't cuz that's just gonna make him lthink about you in the wrong way. you could always smile at him and only look at him at the corner of your eye to be mysterious. or get a totally hot but not sluttish make over and say hi then walk away. But other than that hun i don't really have anything but get to know him and let him get to know you.
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do you believe "once a cheater always a cheater" ?
why or why not? (link)
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yes and no. i believe that once a guy cheats he's probablly gonna do it again but it's not like for sure. i think that it depends on the girl/boy he/she is with and how much they like them. like the girl said b4 i do believe that a cheater doesn't deserve a second chance. but truthfully it's just in the persons own experience i suppose.
-KikiJ
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if your ex asked you to go to the movies with her/him - as friends - and you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, would you still say yes or no?
i'm thinking of asking my ex to go to the movies during our spring break, which is in about 2 weeks, but i don't know if he would say yes or no since he has a girlfriend. all i really wanna do is see him since i haven't seen him for like, 2 years. so i was wondering what YOU would say.
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haha awkwardness =] i think that it depends on the break up if it was on good or bad conditions and may be not a movie because you can't really talk you know? i don't think you should invite his girlfriend because tat'll make it even more awkward and if you say anything around her it might get all twisted and she might try to ruin your likfe but that's just my thought...
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I'm not planning on having sex the first time for a couple years or so atleast but I'm afraid I will end up regretting it later on. I'm just curious about the average age girls lose their virginity.
So basically I have three questions..
1. What age did you lose your virginity?
2. Do you regret it or are you happy with your choice?
3. What age do you suggest? (Please don't say when you're ready because obviously I'm going to wait until I'm ready but I'm talking like what's too young, etc.)
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k well i guess i have the youngest age on here
i was 13
do i regret it? no but i do regret who i did it with because he just used me
u should wait until ur married and all but hey told myselfi was gonna wait and look wat happened. i did it at a yong age and in my idea of all this you should wait until your married or at least leagal (meaning 18)
but be careful of STDs and all of that use protection and all k?
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i no the age of consent is 16 but if iam 16 and the guy that i want to have sex with is 22 is that still ok? (link)
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no hun, no the age of consent is 16 but if he's 22 it's illeagal if he was 18 alright because if there's only a two year difference then yea but your a minor to this guy so nope.
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me and my ex boyfriend have gone out twice and the last time i dumped him because i thought he was flirting with other girls cause he was calling them "sexy" and stuff but thats a whole different story but now hes leaving me comments saying "hey sexy i miss you" and stuff like that and hes leaving me compliments but hes saying the same stuff to other girls, the thing is though hes only talking to those other girls cause he wants to "get some" and he knows hes not going to get anything from me, he says he likes me still and he misses me but i dont get it if he likes me and i know he really does like me then why would he flirt with all these other girls? someone wanna fill me in? (link)
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k well guys like the chase it's fun to them. If they know they can't get it it makes them want even more but don't give in. i did and he left me in an instant. In my opinion he doesn't like you all that much becuase if he did he wouldn't be flirting w/ other girls. if he really wanted you then he would probably just be paying attention to you and not them other girls. guys are dogs hun and i know it might be hard to do but you might wanna stay away from him.
Best of luck
-KikiJ
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