14/m my girlfriend and i talk about sex and stuff all the time about what we would do to eachother etc. and it kinda seems like she is so open with me and i have only known her for about a week or two and am having thoughts that she will tell this stuff to anyone and that she is some sort of a whore or something. What is your opinion?
KikiJ answered Monday September 3 2007, 10:52 am: well first of all the people who've answered before me i think are a bit harsh i mean i went out with a guy i've only known for two hours(doesn't make me a whore). and the sex convo's well think of who brought it up first if it's you then maybe the reason she's being so opened with you is because she thinks she's making you happy and impressing you. but if it's her then she might be a "whore" but then maybe she's use to this and she's not sure in what other way for her to grab your attention.
and hun i believe that she might have told someone because unless she's not that social and isolated then i have a lesson for you: girls at the teenage state get all excited about certain sitations and might tell anyone.
but yea maybe you might wanna talk to her get to know her better and if you feel uncomfortable with her like your moving to fast infer it and just let things fall into place.
Cux answered Sunday September 2 2007, 10:16 pm: Hey.
You're 14. You've only known this girl for a week and you're going out with her? Not judging you- but that's not something I would do.
Two- because you've only been dating a week- and you're already talking about sex- well if you're not comfortable with it- then don't do it. Uncertainly only means that you shouldn't do it. Don't do anything like this until you're ABSOLUTELY sure.
I think this girl is a whore- c'mon- seriously? She wants nothing but sex if that's pretty much all you're talking about. Dump her. She isn't worth it.
Razhie answered Sunday September 2 2007, 10:16 pm: My opinion would be that it would be far nicer, more gentlemanly, and plain decent of you to express your feelings of her moving to fast to her, and not to jump the conclusion she's 'some sort of whore'.
If you don't feel she's moving to fast, and you enjoy the attentions... then you are either a guy with a confident and sexual girl on your hands, or a guy who is attracted to 'some sort of whore'. Which kind of guy would you rather be?
How about being a little less 'open' with her and a bit more honest? Oh, and not jumping to the conclusion that any girl with a sex drive is a 'whore'. That is so last decade. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
scenehairlolz answered Sunday September 2 2007, 10:15 pm: you've known her for a week and you're already going out?
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