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Guy friends vs. boyfriends 15/f
I have a lot of guy friends, and we're just friends and they are my best friends. We flirt a little, but it's not anything serious.
The problem is, it's impossible for me to get a boyfriend. is it because of my friends? Everyone knows that we are just friends, and it's really bothering me. I haven't had a boyfriend in a LONG time, and I keep liking guys and having it not happen. What can I do?
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I think that your inability to get a boyfriend [according to you] actually can be caused by your guy friends. If everyone knows that these guys have your back and will do anything to protect you- well that can honestly intimidate a guy. He knows that if he makes a move too fast- or does something you don't like- your friends will be all over him- regardless of whether you ask them to or not.
Maybe next time you like a guy- and they like you- set it straight that your friends are just friends. Also- talk with your guy friends- and have them know that they aren't to step in and intimidate this guy unless you ask [like after a break up or something]. Try not to let your friends hold you back from having a meaningful relationship =D.
--Jack
(15/m) ]
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