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Cock Blocked
18 Male
Hey everyone I just have a regular problem I am sure every guy has eventually. Okay there is this girl that I like and I am pretty sure she likes me also. The thing is whenever we are together we have fun and are really cool. It's just that whenever her best friend is around or someone else she changes completely. She acts like she hates me and I can't talk to her because of her friend. Also she and her friend are almost inseparable. I really could use some advice. Thanks.
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I'm going to use names in this so you can understand. Your friend you like is going to be named Susie and her best friend is going to be Nikki. A possibility that Susie told you about Nikki but NIkki doesn't like you. You can talk to Susie, "Does Nikki like me?" (not as in like like ).
Sorry if I was no help.
(15/F)
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well ive seen my friends crush going through the same stuff, i have a friend named carly and she always acted totally different in front of me because she would try to like impress me and stuff, Why? i have no idea but alot of people have said that to me, i think your best bet is to tell her how you feel, and that what she is doing is hurting you. If she really cares then she will stop.
Hope this helped!!
London and Paris
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You don't mention if her best friend is male or female. :(
If her best friend is a guy, then she likes him and doesn't want him thinking she likes you.
If her best friend is female, then she is immature.
Sooner or later a girl has to make a choice to spend more time with the guy she likes over the best friend. Its usually not hard to decide. It is
possible if the friend is female, that the friend
likes you and she doesn't want to appear that she does. Again, an immature action.
I suggest next time you have her alone just ask her. Ask why she she changes the minute her friend shows up.
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k well this girl doesn't seem to be all that into you if she's gonna be one way and then another. but then maybe her friend doesn't like you all that much but she should still be cool with yo in public. i think that there's plenty of fish in the sea(that line's so over rated)may be you need to find another girl and what ever happens happens but don't try to ruin their friendship either.
hope i helped!
-kikij
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From what I see, there are only two reasons. Okay, three:
1. She doesn't like it/finds it awkward to be flirty and stuff around any guy when her friend[s] are around, including her best friend.
2. Her bff might not like you that much in a friend way or has some kind of problem with you and she doesn't want her bff lecturing her about her like you or something.
3. Short term memory?
But don't try to separate their friendship no matter what. If this girl really does like you, she'll find a way to get over i. Uhh, why don't you ask her out? Haha. Problem solved.
Emily
15/f
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