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Wanna be involved
14/F
Well everyone in my grade goes to all the school games and stuff, the problem is I dont and I want to be involved in that kind of stuff. Except the problem is that my enemie usuallly goes and I don't want drama. And she turned a lot of people againest me last year for no reason. What can I do to be more involved and get popular!
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Woah, haha, I just had that issue last night.
There was a football game at my highschool & I went with about fifteen of my close friends, but then about ten of my ex-friends went to (The stuff your enemies did to you, that`s what these people did to me, so I know how you feel). If we saw them, we just turned around & walked in the other direction & they didn`t bother us at all. Sure, they might have been talking about us the whole time we were there, but at least we were having more fun than them.
She turned everyone against you cause she thought it would make HER more popular. Eventually though, she`ll get what she deserves -- what goes around comes around. =]
If you see her, just smile & keep walking past her. If she says something mean to you just keep smiling & say, "Sorry, I gotta go look for someone." & walk off. Most of the time if she says something mean, it`s cause she thinks it`ll make her friends think she`s cool or something & she`s just trying to piss you off. So basically, ignore it & pleeeeeease don`t let it get to you. Just know that she`s the pathetic one, not you, & walk away.
Just try and find some people who are your real friends. If any of your friend`s friends are going, most of the time, they`ll welcome you to be their friend. & then just keep building from their friends & trust me, by the end of this year, you`ll have at least twenty people who you can honestly say are your true friends.
Good luck! =]
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Go to the games and have fun. It is a public place with lots of parents, teachers and other adults
around. I don't think your enemy will cause you much trouble there. If she tries, move to a place where there are more people. Don't let her stop you having a good time.
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my advice:
i would go to the games with your REAL friends; friends who won't start all that drama crap and who you'll have a good time with.
and trust me, i've been through the same problem where i had a lot of people turned on me for no real reason.
what i did was i found out who my true friends were and i started to hang out with them more and more.
now i don't even associate with the people who like to start stuff with me because honestly, i hate how they are now with all of their drama and what not.
my point to all of this is that i suggest going with your friends who will stick up for you even IF the people who like to start the drama try to get you into it and who you'll have an awesome time with.
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