Hey everyone its London. I am 16 years old, and yes the picture is me. I DID share this account with my friend Paris but i got my account banned for 2 HOURS!!!! because i shared it with someone... but anyway, off of that subject, I plan on helping out people in the future and have read online articles and books on how to help people and be as helpful as we can. You can also email me at AskLnP@aol.com if there is anything personal or something that you dont want to post on the internet. I will always be glad to help you.
E-mail: AskLnP@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
Age: 16
Member Since: September 3, 2007
Answers: 22
Last Update: September 6, 2007
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okay so i have pretty hugee hair. its curly and frizzy but i straighten it really really good everyday, and it looks rlly straight. then i go outside and like after about an hour at school, it starts to get curly and sorta frizzy and big..expecialyy in the back.
i tryed using hairspray and things on my hair, but they have alcohol in them. i usually only wash my hair everyother night... i dont like using hairspray but the alcohol in it supposidly burns your hair pretty badd.
so yeah i dont know what to do.. also i have gym 4th hour, out of 6 classes. our school has no air conditioning so my hair looks really gross afterwards.
any ideas on how i can stillg et it to look straightt and not frizzyy? ive tried pretty much every shampoo and hair product, if you have really good hair products for me that would be nice i guess. but im more looking for just tips on how i can get it to stayy straightt.
thankssss. =] (link)
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try Paul Mitchel hair supplies, like the super skinny serum or something like that, they may be kind of expensive but its worth it
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Oh, I'm so mad right now! I'm going to this high school football game with one of my friends, and this one guy from our school asked if we wanted to sit with him and his friends at the game.
Well, my friend's guy friend said that the guy that wants us to sit with him and his friends is going to pretend to hit on us and embarrass us in front of all of his friends, which make up a good portion of the 8th grade!!!
What should we do? I wanna reverse this prank...
What do you think? Any ideas? (link)
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i would say reject them and ignore what they are saying, or maybe be all like "ew i would never even think about doing anything like that with YOU!" and just make them feel put down in front of all of their friends.
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14/f
Well I really like one of my best guy mates. Recently he told me he likes me as more than a friend, at the time he had a girlfriend. I told him I felt the same way about him.
5 days ago him and his girlfriend split up.
He keeps saying things to me like, 'I really like spending time with you' and suggesting we hang out just the two of us.
People keep asking why we're not together yet, and I really want to be with him. But I don't know what to do, cause I don't think I can bring it up with him when it's only five days since he broke up with his girlfriend, but he hasn't really suggested we get together, and I don't want to leave it too long.
What should I do?
Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
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i think you should hang out with him for a while, dont bring it up to quickly, after a few days then maybe you should bring it up, but dont wait to long because there could always be that chance of someone else being in his life.
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Hey everyone I just have a regular problem I am sure every guy has eventually. Okay there is this girl that I like and I am pretty sure she likes me also. The thing is whenever we are together we have fun and are really cool. It's just that whenever her best friend is around or someone else she changes completely. She acts like she hates me and I can't talk to her because of her friend. Also she and her friend are almost inseparable. I really could use some advice. Thanks. (link)
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well ive seen my friends crush going through the same stuff, i have a friend named carly and she always acted totally different in front of me because she would try to like impress me and stuff, Why? i have no idea but alot of people have said that to me, i think your best bet is to tell her how you feel, and that what she is doing is hurting you. If she really cares then she will stop.
Hope this helped!!
London and Paris
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Okay, I need help. I've been with my current boyfriend for a year & 7 months. Everything used to seem so "perfect", but for the past few months, it has all went downhill. He hardly ever calls as much as he used to, he seems to prefer texting rather than talking on the phone. We see less and less of each other. He never attempts to cheer me up when he knows that I'm upset or have had a bad day. If I disagree with him or express my opinion, it's like he always has to start an argument with me about it. When I'm around him, it seems like everything he does complety annoys me. I have had several talks with him telling him how he has changed and does not act like the same person he used too and that he doesnt treat me the same. All he can ever say to those things is that he is sorry and that he will change. But, nothing ever changes. It's always the same over and over.. and he tells me that he is just human and makes mistakes. But, I don't really agree with that. I know humans make mistakes, but you don't keep making the same mistake over and over when you KNOW that it's wrong. I don't see how he thinks we are going to keep a relationship if we hardly talk and he can't attempt to make me smile when I'm upset, etc. What does this mean? Does this mean we were never really in love or does it mean that we are falling out of love? I'm so confused and I really need some advice. (link)
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ok, there is a possible chance that you both may be falling out of love, maybe you just need to give him some space because i have a friend who was in this same situation and her boyfriend broke up with her because she started to annoy him. So i think maybe you shouldnt try to talk to him 24/7, maybe try letting him going to you first instead of you going to him, it may be hard at first but trust me it will be worth it.
London and Paris
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wow what to say. i still like this kid named alex, and im goin out with a guy that i dated before alex so lets call him my number 2. okay well i said yes to number 2 on thursday and it was infront of the entire class and i didnt want to say no and loook like a BITCH, and hurt his feelings so i said yeah. now yesterday [friday] in school me and alex we "bonded!" and i had the best time and being with alex just felt so right. being with "2" is kind of weird and i dont like him. but he really likes me and all my friends say i should stay with him hes a nice guy but i dont want to stay with a guy that is obbsessed with me and i dont like at all and makes me feel uncomfortable. well yeah thanks! (link)
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ok well if you dont like number 2 then i think you should break it off with him, he will have to understand that you dont have the same feelings for him, but before you go and make a move with alex, you have to make sure that he feels the same way about you.
i hope this helped
London and Paris
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Sorry if it's a stupid question.Ok,school barly started this week and I keep staring at my last year crush all the time.Sometimes he'll catch me looking at him or at least I think he see's me.Anyway would he get very suspious if I keeep doing that? (link)
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ok well i think he may get suspicious if you keep staring at him and he's catching you.
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hey, 15/f. the guy is 18/m.
anyways, me and him have been friends since march, introduced by my good friend katie, whom he was in love with. they broke it off awhile ago, maybe two weeks ago. but they hadn't seen eachother all summer so it didn't matter to her, and he accepted the breakup, or so he tells me.
anyways, he got me a gift for my birthday and we couldn't hangout until last night. we went to the movies and i got my gift and hugged him and thanked him.
we went to see the movie together, nobody else. during all the romance parts (we saw Stardust), he would go 'aw' and we'd comment on stuff, and laugh. he'd kind of take sidelong glances at me during the movie, which i found cute.
at one point he leaned his head on my shoulder and i put my head on his for a bit. then i said 'you smell really good!' and he sniffed me and goes 'you smell nice too.' and throughout the movie he kept leaning his head on my shoulder and i even said 'im not a pillow!' and he goes 'yes you are!' haha.
but, all in all, he was EXTREMELY sweet. but the question remains: does he like me, or am i just a rebound? or is he just a major flirt?
it wasn't even a date and it felt like it. we really connected, i thought. and we had a wonderful time, i know, because he talked to me on aim and stuff.
also, another question (sorry this is SO LONG!), but, i am second guessing my feelings for him? could this mean i might not like him?
thank you! for those who help i will definitely be sending you a big thank you note. :) (link)
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it sounds like he likes you, im not sure though because i dont know him so i wouldnt know how his personality is, most guys like to flirt that way, but there is a possible chance that he likes you
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Okay, so there's a guy that I really like. We flirt with each other sometimes.
Well, anyways, I went to this pizza place yesterday with my family and 2 of my guy friends met us there, too. Well, anyways, we went off to go play some games, and then I came back, leaving them there, cause I ran out of money. So I was walking to our table, when I saw the dude that I like! Right when we both saw each other, he looked like he almost choked on his drink, and his eyes were all big! So, I went back to go play foosball with my guy friends; me versus them. So we started playing, and then the dude that I like came up and was watching us play. And, of course, when he came up to us, I was all nervous and was totally sucking at the game.
Then, last night I went to the high school football opening game, and he was there! My friends that I was with said that he kept on staring at me!
What should I do? Does he even like me or am I just wasting my time?
Thanks! (link)
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it definatley sounds like he likes you, you are not wasting your time at all
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I am 16, and I like this girl at school. We have been in class together often for the past two years. This year I'm a Junior, and I am finally feeling more confident but everytime I get around her my mouth turns to jello, and I sound like a fool. She is so beautiful, that I can't help staring at her sometimes. She thinks it is sweet. I have even told her I like her and she really has not even said a word about it. She is a great friend, but it seems like thats all we will ever be. She says she only dates older guys but I am a great guy too. How do I make her notice that about me? (link)
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lol ok well as a 16 yr old girl i would no, if she says that she only dates older guys, its going to be very hard to change it, maybe you should ask her out to places outside of school, such as a movie or dinner or something, try to become friends with her outside of school and she will realize how great of a guy you really are.
Good luck!!!
London and Paris
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I made my boyfriend my world. But what happens when he leaves? I dont know what to do. I'll start off from the beginning.
We used to be inseparable, we've been going out for about 2 years now. and we were best friends. We saw eachother 24/7. We were so happy and such a perfect couple. We share everything. When he got an apartment i helped him buy food and he has my dads truck. And our computer. We pretty much share lives. So half of my stuff is in his apartment. We had gotten to the point where he gave me his key. Ive had it for a yr now. But everything changed about 2 weeks ago. We've been fighting like cats and dogs. And hes been saying things i would never ever imagine him saying to me.Ive been piling up my emotions and just felt like i was about to blow. He just breaks my heart so much by saying hurtful things. But last night it all got out of hand. Something happened yesterday that i was upset about, and i just wanted to talk to him. Because i gave up all of my friends for him, so he was the only one i could go to. But it was weird because he just didnt want to talk to me. And we got into an argument. So he just hung up on me. Me being an idiot i called him back. And he just started screaming at me more (he was at his friends house then). So i went over there. And things became so hectic. He said a LOT of hurtful things and said he doesnt like talking to me. And he kicked me out of his house. And then he said some more hurtful things to me that just pushed me over the edge. So i slapped him. And he blew up. He started calling the cops. And he took my key and kicked me out. Later on i was talking to him and he said he lost feelings for me.. and that he needs a week with no contact to think about things.. I really dont know what to do. I know i should just wait a week and let him cool off. But he doesnt understand that, that might of broke his heart, but hes been breaking my heart by the things hes been saying to me. If anybody knows what to do please help me. (link)
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ok well as a 16 year old girl, ive never felt this way about a guy before, but i have a friend who has. It could be because you both got sick of each other, there is a very high chance that he is feeling that way because you both spend WAY to much time together, you should let him go hang out with his friends and you go hang out with yours. If you keep pushing him to be with you he may just break up with you.
Good luck!!!
London and Paris
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I'm bad at showing that I like someone. Whenever I see the guy that I like, I act cold towards him and I'll give him an attitude. After I do that, I'm thinking why did I do that? What do you think? (link)
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thats something normal that a girl would do, i admit, i've done it a few times, but you have to try to be nice, maybe you can be cold to him in a joking matter (if you get what im saying) but try to not be as cold.
London and Paris
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how would you know if a guy likes you??
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a guy who likes you will always compliment on how you look, and will always notice something new, such as a new hair cut or whatever. If he flirts alot, and talks to you everyday there is a possible chance that he likes you.
London and Paris
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I usually have pretty good skin. It's a little dry, but it's usually pretty clear. Sometimes I have one or two pimples. I drink a LOT of water- more than eight glasses a day. I wash my face twice a day.
Yesterday when I woke up, my skin was suddenly oily and I had eight pimples all over my face.
Does anyone have any ideas why this could have happened? (link)
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it is probably your hormones, there is a high chance that it is because you are getting your period soon.
London and Paris
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Is there any possible way i can fix this problem with out any funds? I heared of peeing on your hands and i am going to try that but does anybody else have any ideas? Thanks for the help people! (link)
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Lol do not pee on your hands! it does not work (i havent tried it but i know people who have) but yes, try to use hand sanitizer because the alcohol in the sanitizer will dry it out
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ok so im new to the whole concert thing.
i have recently become obsessed with the jonas brothers and im going to their concert.
so i was wondering how do people get to like meet them and get autographs and things?
and how early should i get there?
thanks. =] (link)
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Dear Jonas Fan,
knowing the jonas brothers, they LOVE their fans, and if you get there maybe an hour to 30 minutes before their concert they will most likely be there greeting their fans. And normally after the concert they will be offstage greeting fans.
London and Paris
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okay
so there's this guy and i don't know who he is or any thing
but everytime there's a program i see him
he's always looking at me and smilling and following me kinda
i know he's intrested but he won't come and talk...how can i get him to come over and talk with out me doing it first??
and if i have to do it first i don't wanna say anything like "i saw you noticing me" (link)
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Ok well you can try to start smiling back at him and looking at him and maybe it will draw his attention, but most guys are somewhat stubborn and they won't make that kind of a move first, but your best bet is to just go up to him and try talking to him like you would any ordinary friend.
London and Paris
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Is it posisble for a spider to lay eggs inside of you? Like, is that at all possible, in any way? (link)
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Dear Spider Eggs,
I've heard that it is possible for a spider to lay eggs inside of you, and if you didnt know, when you are alseep spiders normally crawl into your mouth and ive heard nose (not sure about that one) but at least once a year you have a spider crawl into your mouth. So i believe it is possible that a spider can lay eggs inside of you, it just depends where.
London and Paris
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Something really weird is happening to me.
I'm breaking out all over my face, my chest AND my back.
Why would this happen? What can I do?
I'm on my period, but this hasn't happened to me before when I've been on my period. Help? (link)
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Dear Confused,
As a 16 year old girl, i have friends that this has happened to, yet it hasnt really happened to me. Every girls body is different and reacts to things differently. If you are taking some kind of pill to stop cramps or possibly have eaten any kind of sweets, this could have caused it, and also it could just be the way that your period is for this month, ive seen my friends go through this and its normal
London and Paris
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ok i live with my boyfreind and after i work a long shift all day and have an even longer shift tomorrow...i find out he invited his 7 year old nephew to stay the night, knowing i need to get up in the morning and knowing tonight is the first and only night for a week that we will be able spend the night together (if you catch my drift). I even mentioned that to him today and he still did it with out asking me. Am i in the wrong to be upset? Am i in the wrong to tell him no even tho he doesnt get to see his nephew very much? I feel like the bad guy...should i? (link)
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Dear upset,
You should just tell your boyfriend how you feel about him inviting his 7 year old nephew over and that it made you upset that you and him couldnt spend the night together, im sure he will understand.
London and Paris
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