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My boyfriend and i
I made my boyfriend my world. But what happens when he leaves? I dont know what to do. I'll start off from the beginning.
We used to be inseparable, we've been going out for about 2 years now. and we were best friends. We saw eachother 24/7. We were so happy and such a perfect couple. We share everything. When he got an apartment i helped him buy food and he has my dads truck. And our computer. We pretty much share lives. So half of my stuff is in his apartment. We had gotten to the point where he gave me his key. Ive had it for a yr now. But everything changed about 2 weeks ago. We've been fighting like cats and dogs. And hes been saying things i would never ever imagine him saying to me.Ive been piling up my emotions and just felt like i was about to blow. He just breaks my heart so much by saying hurtful things. But last night it all got out of hand. Something happened yesterday that i was upset about, and i just wanted to talk to him. Because i gave up all of my friends for him, so he was the only one i could go to. But it was weird because he just didnt want to talk to me. And we got into an argument. So he just hung up on me. Me being an idiot i called him back. And he just started screaming at me more (he was at his friends house then). So i went over there. And things became so hectic. He said a LOT of hurtful things and said he doesnt like talking to me. And he kicked me out of his house. And then he said some more hurtful things to me that just pushed me over the edge. So i slapped him. And he blew up. He started calling the cops. And he took my key and kicked me out. Later on i was talking to him and he said he lost feelings for me.. and that he needs a week with no contact to think about things.. I really dont know what to do. I know i should just wait a week and let him cool off. But he doesnt understand that, that might of broke his heart, but hes been breaking my heart by the things hes been saying to me. If anybody knows what to do please help me.
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ok well as a 16 year old girl, ive never felt this way about a guy before, but i have a friend who has. It could be because you both got sick of each other, there is a very high chance that he is feeling that way because you both spend WAY to much time together, you should let him go hang out with his friends and you go hang out with yours. If you keep pushing him to be with you he may just break up with you.
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well i think he isnt worth it by what your saying. he seemed really nice at the beggining. and pretty nice later. but if he really made you that mad for the past 2 weeks enough were you had to slap him. he isnt worth it. and even as much as you think he will get over it. from now on its gonna be completely different your not gonna trust him the same way, im sure you guys arent gonna be best friends like you were before, and if he ever yells at you again your gonna take it a lot more personal. and things are gonna get a lot more outta hands then they were before. well i would just move on and just stay friends. hope i helped. :D
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aw sweetie Im so sorry=[
maybe hes just under pressure, even if that, he shouldnt of said mean things to you. No way, thats abuse. Maybe now is the time to get a hold of old friends, this same thing happened to me. My boyfriend was and still is my world, but hes at college and I needed friends so I got ahold of them. Try doing that. You need a friend now then ever. & if you guys do end up breaking up for good, take everything back. Your dads truck, the computer, everything. But make sure you go over to get your things when he isnt there so you two dont get into a fight. I really hope everything gets better, but all I can really say, is you need a friend. Someone to talk to and be there for you. Im sorry, & good luck with everything<3
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