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flirt or boyfriend material?
hey, 15/f. the guy is 18/m.
anyways, me and him have been friends since march, introduced by my good friend katie, whom he was in love with. they broke it off awhile ago, maybe two weeks ago. but they hadn't seen eachother all summer so it didn't matter to her, and he accepted the breakup, or so he tells me.
anyways, he got me a gift for my birthday and we couldn't hangout until last night. we went to the movies and i got my gift and hugged him and thanked him.
we went to see the movie together, nobody else. during all the romance parts (we saw Stardust), he would go 'aw' and we'd comment on stuff, and laugh. he'd kind of take sidelong glances at me during the movie, which i found cute.
at one point he leaned his head on my shoulder and i put my head on his for a bit. then i said 'you smell really good!' and he sniffed me and goes 'you smell nice too.' and throughout the movie he kept leaning his head on my shoulder and i even said 'im not a pillow!' and he goes 'yes you are!' haha.
but, all in all, he was EXTREMELY sweet. but the question remains: does he like me, or am i just a rebound? or is he just a major flirt?
it wasn't even a date and it felt like it. we really connected, i thought. and we had a wonderful time, i know, because he talked to me on aim and stuff.
also, another question (sorry this is SO LONG!), but, i am second guessing my feelings for him? could this mean i might not like him?
thank you! for those who help i will definitely be sending you a big thank you note. :)
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it sounds like he likes you, im not sure though because i dont know him so i wouldnt know how his personality is, most guys like to flirt that way, but there is a possible chance that he likes you
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I don't necessarily think you were just a re-bound, but what i do think is that if your second guessing your feelings for this guy then you must not feel truly sincere and if that's the case then you should find someone you feel you can trust and know you have feelings for!!!!!!bye!!!!
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From your story, it sounds like he likes you. But boys are confusing, so you can never tell. Haha. But because you are saying he was really sweet, and didn't try to make any "moves" on you, it sounds like he does like you. If he wanted to rebound, he'd probably try to...well..GET ON YOU. haha just kidding. He would have tried to make a move, if you know what I mean.
Another possibility, I'd like to emphasize the POSSIBILITY part, is that maybe he never really liked his ex (your friend) and used her to get to know you? Its happened to my friends before.
I say you keep hanging out with him, and if anything else happens, feel free to leave it in my inbox.
xxtiffany
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its normal to second guess yourself because you want to make sure it would work out, from what you said it sounded like a connection was made, but it seems to me like its worth investigating a little further, hangout some more and communicate
:)hope i helped
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