Member Since: September 2, 2007
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Last Update: September 2, 2007
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hey, 15/f. the guy is 18/m.
anyways, me and him have been friends since march, introduced by my good friend katie, whom he was in love with. they broke it off awhile ago, maybe two weeks ago. but they hadn't seen eachother all summer so it didn't matter to her, and he accepted the breakup, or so he tells me.
anyways, he got me a gift for my birthday and we couldn't hangout until last night. we went to the movies and i got my gift and hugged him and thanked him.
we went to see the movie together, nobody else. during all the romance parts (we saw Stardust), he would go 'aw' and we'd comment on stuff, and laugh. he'd kind of take sidelong glances at me during the movie, which i found cute.
at one point he leaned his head on my shoulder and i put my head on his for a bit. then i said 'you smell really good!' and he sniffed me and goes 'you smell nice too.' and throughout the movie he kept leaning his head on my shoulder and i even said 'im not a pillow!' and he goes 'yes you are!' haha.
but, all in all, he was EXTREMELY sweet. but the question remains: does he like me, or am i just a rebound? or is he just a major flirt?
it wasn't even a date and it felt like it. we really connected, i thought. and we had a wonderful time, i know, because he talked to me on aim and stuff.
also, another question (sorry this is SO LONG!), but, i am second guessing my feelings for him? could this mean i might not like him?
thank you! for those who help i will definitely be sending you a big thank you note. :) (link)
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I don't necessarily think you were just a re-bound, but what i do think is that if your second guessing your feelings for this guy then you must not feel truly sincere and if that's the case then you should find someone you feel you can trust and know you have feelings for!!!!!!bye!!!!
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Ok so i met a guy about a week ago and we tottaly hit it of. (were both 15 by the way) And we hung out then started talking on msn. He said he really liked me and wanted to get to know me a bit better, then would ask me out in person rather than on msn. That was last weekend. I tried to get a hold of him a few times. But he hasn't been talking much and has been acting kinda weird. Whats going on? Does he still like me? (link)
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I'm sure you are a really pretty girl and if you are smart you'll go for some guy that spares at least 5 seconds to talk even if he was doing somthing really important by the way a guy told me this that all he wanted was for a gurl to spend ay least 5 seconds of conversation on the phone even in an emergency so yea go for what your heart tells you!!!!!!!!bye!!!!!
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im 13/f and i cannot strike up a conversation or keep one going with a member of the opposite sex. it annoys me, as if i meet a new guy who i like a lot and i am attracted to, theres all these terrible awkward silences. Awkwardness is seriously a phobia of mine, so i dont talk to guys on the phone or in person much. I talk on IM and text, but it isnt the same. Anyone got any suggestions? HeLp! ThAnKs In AdVaNcE!!! (link)
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well i would just ask random questions and if the guy is normal then he shouldnt leave all the talking to you anyway.
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im so wrong! i used to have a boyfriend we where together for 2 years then i went to ccaanada and broke up with him for a month and in canada i dated a guy that practicly started ignoring me when i didnt wanted to have sex with him but before that everything was so perfect with him maybe all lies but so good and i really liked hiim since i got there the first day i wanted him then surprisinly everything happen we kissed and everything it only lasted 4 days then i diitnt wanted anything and he just started ignoring me but 2 days after that i came back to my country ...i got back with my boyfriend 2 weeks after comming back ..and im still with him...it's been amonth and i still cant get over this guy. i see him online and his display with other girl and i get so sad like almost crying ..:S and i know i dont have too :S and we never talk on msn i mean we got each other but never have talk through it cause if he started ignoring me the last days i guess he just doesn't wanna talk to me i dont want to look like beggin...anyway i wanna get over him! cause i feel so bad cause i have my boyfriend back with me :S so i shouldn't be feeling so sad at the point of almost crying for someone didnt care about me but i cant!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 (link)
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well i would just start making a list of all the good things that you former boyfriend does for you, against the good things that other guy you met did for you. and then maybe block him on msn or deleate him. and start caring more for your boyfriend.
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does anyone know about a website that will let me listen to full songs for free and send them to other people to listen to? thanks to all! (link)
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you can go to music.aol.com and it works.
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Ok i like this guy and whenever I think of him my hert beats so hard and it feels like I'm carrying weight,is this normal? (link)
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I can honestly say that this is normal.You feel like your heart stops mov-n when he comes around,But don't let him get to you because after a certain period of time if he doesn't like you then you definetly will go through a rough time of depression where all you think about is him and what was wrong with you when intentionally it was him!!!!!so good luck!!!
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ok so the last year ive been friends with a girl and shes like been a really good bestfriend and now a new girl moved and and we started being friends with her and then she started acting like it was her bestfriend and so i was like ok ill get a new bestfriend but its weird cause me and my old bestfriend still talked once a week and we still called eachother bestfriends but we both new we really werent then we got in a small fight made up but we still werent bestfriends now the other day she got mad at me cause she wasnt in my pro like it matters at all but my "new bestfriend" was now i guess she doesnt want to talk to me its such a dumb reason should i still be friends with or her (link)
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okay from experiance, i would just talk to him. first i would just ask him random questions like how hes doin and about his love life, and then say you made a mistake turning him down and you really like him. tell him that you understand if he doesnt want to be with you, but hopefully the conversation goes the right way.
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So yeah , its the carnival , a time to hang out with friends and see everyone from schools and so on. The other night i went and i was with a bunch of my friends. I felt totally left out. like wow. embarrased kind of. Like they would talk to eachother and such what and not include me. like; it would be a circle of just them, and i would be out of it. literally. Oh and when i turned around to answer my cell, no one noticed. they went to go meet one of their other friends. i dont know, it kills me to see that i have those kind of friends, you know? so much stress man. like okay, i'll tell you about them. So my bff J, ive known her the besstt out of the whole group. shes awsome, shes like my sister.And then i have my otheer bff M, aha shes hilarious and we have so much in common.Annnd then theres the other four. I dont really talk to them but im friends with them, i eat with them at lunch. i know im still approving the relationships with them but still. No one should just leave someone . that sounds tacky, but im pretty sure you know what i meen. Gr. i just have to let it out. I dont show emotion, i meen im not emo or whatever, its just that ive been hurt so much in the past by the people who i called "best friends" that i can take , and im ready for anything that pops up in my way. I guess you can say im one of those people who dont really care about what you think about me, but for people to totally ditch me and embarass me by looking like a total loser trying to find her friends who left her, uhm no. so yeah, i left the carnival, showing the slightest bit of emotion, of hurt, or you can say happyness. I got home and thought of what had just happened, and it hit me; am i cared about? am i just "that girl". Do i have true friends or not because damn, at this piont i dont even know.
Im sorry if its long, but please give me advice. anything would help so much.
please. (link)
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All I have to say is stand out be you and thats who you are.You kno sometimes just take them to the side and say hey you know i love you guys so much but i kind of feel not wanted in the group and i feel like if we chose to be friends why not include everybody and from there i don't know what to tell you its all up to you and your decision but i'm always here if you need to talk and i've went through this with my freinds so i know how you are feeling and it will take some time to bring it up in a conversation and you'll feel really nervous about what they think but once you start talking it will all come out and hopefully they'll understand!!!!Bye bye!!
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