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okay so im going to a FOB concert in october and im not sure about what to wear.
we are going to be like right in front of the stage, so i guess i need something comfortable :D

thankss (link)
ok save up some money and when you get there buy a fall out boy concert t-shirt then you can change into it at the concert i would wear comfy jeans or something that would go with anything becuase you never know wat the jersey will look like


well I DID go out with this guy for 9 months and last friday we broke up and surprisingly i got over it not fully but i dont feel the same for him as i used one cuz hes a jerk now and two hes not talking to me but there is this reallllly cute new kid who i talk to all the time he already knows i like him and he likes me . we talk all the time like to the point where people are wondering if we are going ouT! but theres the thing i do want to and he does too i think but idont know if its to soon to do go out should i just date like hang out a while or just wait a month and then go out with him???! (link)
no dont wait if you honestly like this guy you shouldn't wai its not to soon specially if the other guy is a jerk youll get over him soon cuz your already almost there anyway so if i were you i would go out with the new guy


I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now. He's always been so good to me and I love him so much.

A couple weeks ago, I went on his computer and saw that he left a comment on this girl's picture saying how beautiful she was. I can't explain it, but this literally broke my heart. Probably because it was so unlike him to do something like that. I confronted him about it and he said it didn't mean anything and it wasn't a big deal and he was sorry. I believe him. I really do. But I can't understand why it still hurts me so much to think about it. It still kills me inside even though he really didn't do anything that horrible. Sometimes when I'm talking to him I'll remember what he did and I'll get upset about it all over again and he doesn't understand why it's such a big deal.

Can anyone explain why I can't get through this? I don't want our relationship to all of a sudden be bad over a stupid comment. (link)
you are having troubles becuase you obviously love your boyfriend so much you cant stand the thought of anything like that thats whyit hurt you so much just let him know that and that how much you love him and how much you believe him and then just tell him your having a hartd time getting over it even though he may not understand its worth a shot


Fall out boy, Cute is what we aim for, Plain white t's and Gym Class heros are goign on tour together!!!!! They are coming to The Assembly hall in Champaign illinois on October 21th

Does anyone know when the tickets go on sale and where i can get them?

any information will be sooo helpful! (link)
i dont know when but you can always look on different fan sites or search on google the typ of tickets your looking for theyll either try and sell you some or theyll tell you when they
sell them


hi i have a hairy bum an little bit of pimples and stretch marks is it good to shave coz i dont want my girl friend seen it..an how do i make pimples an stretch marks go away its not that bad well its jus hairy down there would it look better if i shave..an im a 17 guy..thanx (link)
lol dude they have stretch mark cream to reduce stretch marks pop your pimples or wash your butt with acne soap you can shave your butt if you want but i wouldn't becuase itll grow back in only worse and if you tell anyone you shave your butt people will make fun of you so if you decide to dont tell anyone and dont shave there if youv never shved before at all becuase if you cut your butt really bad then your gonna have to tell someone cuz that would be embarrassing


Okay, lately I've been called moody.
Well if people weren't tards I wouldn't be like what the hell with them. I'm tired of people being like
"Soo Katie what grade did you just go into 9th..10th.." When Im in 7th! Yeahh im tall and look old for my age but if you really have no clue about my age why point it out??
My Aunt is driving me insane. No joke she's driving me up the wall and wonders why i tell her to shut up! okay, im big for my age everywhere im a regualr sizde its only my stomach thats huge.. i have a pot belly that runs in my family and my Aunt will be like "Katie you look pregnante." Omg and she doesnt expect me to get mad! I think like last weekend she brought it up and I completely bitched her out! She was drunk yeahh but that doesn't give her the right to open her dumb ass mouth when she feels the need. So I told her that and she thinks im a spoiled brat! umm no I just not a tard when I see it.
Im not going to hold my tongue, but im tired of them calling my a pot mouth when there the ones smoking and being called idiotic.. when they have the IQ of a 3rd garder. They want respect there gunn have to earn it.
I'm tired of there bull how do I shut them up for good?? (link)
ok i dont exactly know how to shut them up but i would just ignore them i understand wat living around tards is like when i was 11 people thought i was 14 when i turned 12 i went to work with me my mom one guy said thought i was 18 and some chick thought i was on payroll or another words working there then some dude that was 13 thought i was 15 im in 7th grade now and im 13 all the fucktards think im older cuz im really tall taller than all the girls in my family so just ignore them who cares what they think


I'm blaming my hormones for this cause I really can't think of any excuse for someone feeling the way I do. I'm in love with an asshole. Yes, you heard me.. I'm fully aware that the guy's an idiot, yet I'm cool with it. Except I'm not. See.. I walk around constantly being mad at the guy, I hate him. No seriously.. not hate as in "i hate that he doesnt like me" or "i hate that he treated me like a jerk" as in - seriously, 100%- i hate who he is. His attitude towards things, his looks, his way of being. I just don't like it. Yet, I love him. DOES THIS MAKE SENSE TO YOU?? I mean, really, is this normal behaviour?? I hate everythying about him, yet I love him. Now this is not good. Because he's an asshole and we will never be together.. and I made sure to get over him.. I live in another country now (so ill never see him again!!) I deleted my msn and his phone number and go out every night.. I'm doing everything according to the get-over-someone rule-book. BUT IM NOT GETTING OVER HIM! I'm not listening to our songs, I'm not thinking about the way he touched me or the things he said or the way he made me feel. I've accepted that I was being used. That he did not care. And that we will not be together again. Yet I cant help but praying in the middle of the night that one day, he'll come up to me, like something out of a movie scene, and tell me he finally relaized we were meant to be. But he wont. I KNOW him so well, I knwo what he's like, he pretty much said it loud and clear "i - don't - think - you're - worth - it" he thinks im a bad kisser, and he doesnt like my body, and my sense of humor.. HE DOESN'T LIKE ME. I can't seem to get it through my head. I mean I know I can't make him like me, so i have given up.. but it's the WANTING him to like me that I can't stop!! I promised myself if he one day said "lets pick up from where we left off" I'd say: "No." So I guess I don't actually want HIM. I jsut want him to want me. No thats a lie. I want him. Every part of him. I want to marry him. Be with him forever and ever. If I had him I'd be so happy to be me - I wouldn't be able to envy anyone, I'd be able to tell freakin Angelina Jolie "Ha! You might think you're lucky, with Brad Pitt, lots of money and you're perfect body.. but you know what?!! I HAVE RICHARD!!" I love him. I hate him. HELP!!! Do you see?? This cant be normal? I hate my hormones. I hate being a teenager. And I hate that I just turned 17, and I didn't get HIm as a birthday prsent. I hate that I let myself obsess over him for 4 years, and he stopped liking me after 4 minutes. And I hate that everything i think, I think for him. I don't want to get married one day to be happy - I want to get marrie one day so he can see I'm over him. I dont want to go to university to get a good future, I want to go to university so he can see I'm a success. I dont want to get a facebook to stay in touch with friends, I want to get a facebook so he can look at my amazing life and regret not being a part of it.

Help me, please help me, I can't feel like this anymore. Have you ever erased someone out of your mind? Please share your secret, because I'm afraid one more day of thinking about him and I'll lose my mind.

I've done everything that's possible to get over him I swear, I've gotten closure in every way possible. AND I've given it time, lots of time. So NOW what?!

I love him. I hate him. I love him. I hate him. HEEELP!!! (link)
there is something deep inside of him you love thats why you love him you just dont see wat it is right know


Just as the title says. I'm sexually frustrated. Not in that I simply don't get enough sex. I just can't have an orgasm from having sex. I have had sex enough to where I should be pleasured enough to have an orgasm, but I haven't. I really only can have an orgasm if I touch myself, or if oral sex is being given. I'm frustrated because I can't seem to figure out why I can't have an orgasm during sex. I've had to fake it every time. Is this something I need to talk to an Gynecologist about? I would like some advice and input. Help! (link)
well i hate to say it but maybe your guy is not good enough at having sex to please you its not a gynecologist type of problem its just it doen't pleas you specialy if you can orgasm other ways


Hey everyone, thanks in advance if you answer.

So I LOVE to act, and I've been told I'm good at it. I'd love to start a very small acting career like appear in TV ads or something but one small problem: I don't know how to start. My dad said ages ago those talent agencies are scams if they ask for money.

So where do I start? I'm 15 and I live in Australia. (link)
well if your 15 i suggest being in drama club if your school has one but i dont know how you would start at your age after you finish highschool though you can go to college for it and dpending on the college they will line you up for some job openings and go from there but in the mean time be in all the school plays possible and it will help prepare you


How long does mono stay in someone system? K so well i kissed a guy the other night we only knew eachother for a couple hours so like i didnt know him that well and stuff, and like as dumb as this sounds but like im scared that i might get mono and stuff cause he is a big flirt and i bet he kisses a lot of girls so anyways i dont know if he has ever has had mono, but how long does it stay in someone's system? and like what are the odds of me getting it? if like he everr had, even though he likes out and he was tottaly drunk...so i dont know...

so yeah just answear this questin haha how long does mono stay in someone's system? (link)
ok you might not get it i know its called the kissing disiease but most people dont get it from kissing my friend got mono and she had to got to the hospital for it and it satyed in her system for atleast a month but if hes not sick from it then i dont think youll get it


ok so i know this is probably a stupid question or whatever but i kinda want more guy friends just friends cause well girls are just well yeah i just want a few guy friends is there nayway i can go about doing this?? (link)
of course ! most of myu friends are guys just talk to them about things you think you both would like they can be alot better than girls sometimes just be yourself but dont try to talk to them about girl stuff i guess its easy for me cuz im sort of a tomboy but talk to them about music sports you both like peopkles behavior t.v. shows anything guys are people too and just cuz you guys talk doesn't mean theres anything going on in the love department


ok so it's my first year of high school tuesday and well the school i was at last year i guess people judged me alot on the way i look and stuff and made fun of me and i'm kinda scared it will either be the same or worse in high school so any suggestions on what i should do i mean i'm trying to change some of the things people made fun of me about cause i dont like them and i feel i will be happier if i do but that might take a while any ways to just make friends and be happy while i'm trying to change if that makes sense (link)
ok dont change who you are they make fun of you to feel better about themselves you are a beutiful person and if they dont like you the way they are to hell with them besides you dont want them as friends anyway just be yourself be nice and start a convo with people less mean try to make a good impression and your results should trurn out well


17/f

i babysit a 6 year old girl and her 12 year old brother. the boy doesn't need much attention he pretty much stays to himself while i play with the 6 year old. one day i went to the boy's room and walked in and saw him masturbating. i was shocked and said sorry and he looked absolutly scared beyond belief but now whenever i'm babysitting i can hear him in his room doing it. i don't know if i should say something or try to ignore it. (link)
well i can say i walked in and saw my 12 year old cousin do that i just left it alone but when my aunt caught him sometime later it was hell so you can either ignore it or tell his parent or you can just ask him if he would please not do that when your there


So I'm going to be a junior this year.
I really am lonely. I like who I am,
I'm comfortable with myself to an extent, I mean I think I'm a pretty decent girl. But I've never had a boyfriend, I try flirting with boys. I dont know what I'm doing wrong, should I focus on school more, and then focus on boys?
Its just one of my biggest fears is being alone forever, I just guess I need reassurance on that I wont be. But it does seem evveryone around me has a boyfriend, so I dont know what I keep doing wrong :( (link)
i feel impathetic for you all my friends have boyfriends and im still single my crush notices me but weve never talked befor scince he is an upperclassmen do have somebody you maybe like get to know them better and see if the act nervous or really nice then once you become good friends maybe you cant ask him out


I really want a cute bathing suit. I love those tube top bikini tops.. but every time i try those on.. they never fit [slips off]. I'm a 36C cup and I see all these other girls who have smaller breasts.. and their tops fit.. We have the same height and same body shape. We are both short and skinny, but I can't ever hold those tops up! HELP!

Where can I get a good top? I don't know what's wrong with me. (link)
nothing is wrong with you and bikinis are hard to find for women with large breasts i wear a 32b and im 13 i dont wear bikinis so i dont know what thats like however all the women on my side of the family have very large breats like d's and dd's but heres what i think since you are so thin they dont expect to woemen to have larger breasts and they wont stay in but if you look at some places i think its like macy's or dillards or somewhere they have bikinis with biult in bras to keep your breasts in place my aunt bought one and it seems to work for her


every once in a while (its only happened about four times) when i get wet/turned on it hurts in that area. not a lot and it usually goes away fairly quickly. Do you suppose it could just be because i havent masturbated in a while? or something more? does this ever happen to u? ..thanks. (link)
ok hun i dont know wat to tell you its not supposed to hurt maybe you do need to satisfy your urges but if it doesn't hurt that bad than i dont think its a problem its never happened to me but it does not sound serious


So I am 16/F. I have always liked older guys.
I know this is probably a stupid question, but is that wrong/bad? I mean the guys in my grade are o-k, but they seem so imature to me, and so un aware of how girls wan't to be treated you know? Its probably because they are young, and most of them haven't been jaded yet. But what my main point is, do I even stand a chance with older guys? Or do they think of me like I think of the guys in my grade? (link)
ok you like older guys so what?the reason is becuase guys mature slower than girls so older guys are at your maturaty level but not mature enough for the girls in there grade its not a bad thing i for one have a crush on a guy 2 grades higher than me and im thinkin chances between us arent good but it doesn't mean it wont be for you some guys will date younger girls and some wont but you can always try


He broke up with me 3 times, first he broke up with me because he HEARD a rumor that i wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that i wanted to brake up with him so wegot back together and 2nd time was he broke up with me again because he doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else when we were going out but he didnt wanna tell me because he was scared that im gonna hate him, but after that we still talk to each other a lot and he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said yes and he did too and he asked me out after that but then he said he wants to keep the relationship a secret because he didnt want people to know and its annoying when people asks about it so we went out AGAIN for 4 DAYS and he broke up with me again because he was confused and didnt know what to do and i told him not to talk to me for a while but he still does and after that he asked me to move on and stuff he gave me advice about moving on but then he asked me to call me and i told him no because im gonna fall in love with him again and he says"who knows maybe we could start over again" and im confused because hes the one told me to move on but now hes saying this, this is his 4th chance and my friend told me not to because she doesnt want me to get hurt and stuff but i really dont know what to do what do you guys think? (link)
ok well this guy sounds like an ass if he keeps on breakin up with you or wants to keep your relationship a secret but dont get hurt by it and i would start over with him but NOT as a secret and this should be his last chance


Hi, i'm 18/f i'm a senior at a high school and well last year i had no trouble at all when it comes to sleeping like this year i want to try to sleep early i know that you can sleep what ever time the hell you want. but like for me whenever i sleep late like late late and wake up at six to go to school i get like soo tired and hate it. and when i come home i take a nap like 3hrs.

because i dont sleep early enough and all. and i hear and my brother told me that sleeping late is bad for you. and that it's not good for your health i hear that you maybe/can gain weight from sleeping late. and i hate sleeping late i try everything to sleep early.

here is my question. if you want to so badly sleep early how do you actually sleep early even if your tired or not but need to sleep early. what do you do to try i want to know so when school starts in two weeks i want to be able to sleep early and wake up early without being so tired in the morning. is there any way that i wont get trouble of sleeping early?

and yes i did try closing my eyes about 10 or more minutes to sleep early but it's not working. is there any any other way besides that.


thanks i would like to know sooner as possible asap please it would be nice to know ! (link)
i would go with wat the person ahead of me said but i also have trouble sleepin what i do is go to bed earlier than i want to so that way i can think alot and eventually fall asleep i always think untill it leads into a dream or you can also do like i do ive you hve like a cd player mp3 player or and ipod you can listen to music for a while whil lying there that always makes me tired then i do the thinking thing


So, our family have been going back and forth between the Honda Pilot and Honda Odyssey. We really don't know which one to buy. Could someone list the pros and cons of each & which one you guys would buy and why?

We need a lot of cargo room since we do mass shopping type thing and since I have a sister in college that brings half the house with her to her dorms. And I'll be going to college in 3 years. And which one has a higher safety rating? They both seem similar to us when we checked the sites & googled it & etc. Uh, which one would be better in the future, also, to like sell I guess? Or keep?

I don't know. I prefer the van...but my mom says it looks like a Mom car [ironic, I know] and she likes the Pilot more because it makes her feel younger? Haha. I don't know. (link)
well i know it makes your mom feel young to have the car but it sounds like you really need the van so i would go with that then agian if its your mom that decides youll probably end up with the car




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