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4th chances?
He broke up with me 3 times, first he broke up with me because he HEARD a rumor that i wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that i wanted to brake up with him so wegot back together and 2nd time was he broke up with me again because he doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else when we were going out but he didnt wanna tell me because he was scared that im gonna hate him, but after that we still talk to each other a lot and he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said yes and he did too and he asked me out after that but then he said he wants to keep the relationship a secret because he didnt want people to know and its annoying when people asks about it so we went out AGAIN for 4 DAYS and he broke up with me again because he was confused and didnt know what to do and i told him not to talk to me for a while but he still does and after that he asked me to move on and stuff he gave me advice about moving on but then he asked me to call me and i told him no because im gonna fall in love with him again and he says"who knows maybe we could start over again" and im confused because hes the one told me to move on but now hes saying this, this is his 4th chance and my friend told me not to because she doesnt want me to get hurt and stuff but i really dont know what to do what do you guys think?
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this guy is annoying. he sounds like he just wants attention. hes just playing with your head bc he likes knowing that even after he breaks up with you.. you will always come crawling back to him. if you really have feelings for him then stop talking to him for a little while. cut him off from your life. that will show him that if he keeps doing this youre not coming back. if he really cares he will try to get you back.
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Make him stop talking to you by blocking him, ignoring him and not picking up his calls.
He might just be amazingly confused, or he might be a complete asshole who is sitting there smiling about how hooked he has you. Either way, you shouldn't be sitting around eagerly waiting for him to hurt you yet again.
Don't take his advice on how to 'move on'. The only way you are going to move on is to stop talking to him! He is not your friend. He doesn't even sound like a very nice person. Talking to him only makes you confused, worried and hurt. So cut him out of your life already.
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This kids DESPERATE don't fall for his little games hunn he's only doing it because he sees that everytime he asks you out u gladly run to his arms ...since he can't any other girl he goes to you to feel loved when in reality he's just desperate and wanting attention when that's exactly what your doing
So the next time he asks you say NO I'VE MOVED ON show him that you don't need him nor want him this will teach him how to not toy around with you anymore.
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My opinion... If he dumps you "he's just not that into you." When someone cares about you and wants to be with you... They do NOT break up with you and hurt you... Over, and over again. Do yourself a favor and tell this guy that it's over... for good.
I know it will be hard and you will hurt. But I promise that you will get over him and move on. You will love SOMEONE ELSE. You don't deserve this sort of treatment.
And please run to the nearest bookstore and buy the book, "He's Just Not That Into You," by Greg and Liz. It is the dating bible.
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ok well this guy sounds like an ass if he keeps on breakin up with you or wants to keep your relationship a secret but dont get hurt by it and i would start over with him but NOT as a secret and this should be his last chance
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