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Boyfriend
So I'm going to be a junior this year.
I really am lonely. I like who I am,
I'm comfortable with myself to an extent, I mean I think I'm a pretty decent girl. But I've never had a boyfriend, I try flirting with boys. I dont know what I'm doing wrong, should I focus on school more, and then focus on boys?
Its just one of my biggest fears is being alone forever, I just guess I need reassurance on that I wont be. But it does seem evveryone around me has a boyfriend, so I dont know what I keep doing wrong :(
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You too? I'm in junior year and there are no signs of a girlfriend. What I am doing is going on google and reading things on how to be a better speaker. It really helps, everyone likes to talk(especially about themselves). Strike up a conversation with everybody and anybody you like. Pick up on any words they say, you really have to listen. Don't let there be more than a one minute pause(if there is more it kind of kills the conversation). Once everything is said, get the phone number(if he doesn't ask first). Ask him if you can talk to him later. Getting a phone number(to me) is the first step to pretty much all relationships. Hope I helped, google, really has a lot of good things to help out though, don't hesitate to use them. Good luck! :)
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You're not doing anything wrong. The right opportunity just hasn't presented itself yet. Keep in mind that not everyone has, or has had, a boyfriend. Most have sure, but there are a ton of people out there in your same situation. You're far from alone. I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 18 and a half. Now I'm engaged and the girls that I was jealous of in high school are brokenhearted and single. Your chance will come. Try not to focus on it so much. :)
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you shouldn't be wanting a boyfriend, you should be wanting a boy. what i mean is, don't fall in a love with an idea, fall in love with someone. when you find yourself extremely attracted to a guy, work on it. become his close friend. make an effort. never give up. eventually tell him you like him. if he rejects you, move on, but never give up. there is someone for everyone out there. :)
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i feel impathetic for you all my friends have boyfriends and im still single my crush notices me but weve never talked befor scince he is an upperclassmen do have somebody you maybe like get to know them better and see if the act nervous or really nice then once you become good friends maybe you cant ask him out
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