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why won't he come over??
okay
so there's this guy and i don't know who he is or any thing
but everytime there's a program i see him
he's always looking at me and smilling and following me kinda
i know he's intrested but he won't come and talk...how can i get him to come over and talk with out me doing it first??
and if i have to do it first i don't wanna say anything like "i saw you noticing me"
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Wow, sounds like you got this guy intrigued. Usually I would say to go on, make the first move, but in your case, it seems like he's about to, anyway. Simply smile a little and look at him, then quickly look away as if you are slightly embarrassed and really like him, and walk away a little to see if he follows, or to get him to follow ( a little being a few steps). Pretend to be reading something on the wall, or studying a cell phone, or reading, and look up a lot to look at him and smile. This is very flirtatious and he'll be walking over in no time.
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Smile and make eye contact. Look friendly. This will show him you are easy to approach.
If he still doesn't approach you, you go and approach him. Start with a simple "hello" and ask him his name. Ask him open ended questions to get him talking. Be the one to end the conversation too. It'll keep him wanting more ;].
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You should definitely approach him. If you do approach him however, do it with confidence. Guys love it when girls have enough confidence to do so. You could honestly make it as simple as to introducing yourself, and asking his name. I'm sure a flash of the smile "Hey I'm ____, and you are?" would be sufficient. Then possibly a move onto asking him what or why he's there, and if the conversation progresses you could ask him if he was checking you out. If this seems too forward, maybe you could try just flashing a smile, and giving a simple wave. I wish you the best of luck, I hope you reel him in! :) Hope I could help!
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Ok well you can try to start smiling back at him and looking at him and maybe it will draw his attention, but most guys are somewhat stubborn and they won't make that kind of a move first, but your best bet is to just go up to him and try talking to him like you would any ordinary friend.
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