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I dated this guy for a year we met at collage we were really close and all. About a month ago he dumped me and he said he couldnt go out with me as me being mixed raced confuses things too much for him. And when it comes to relationships he wants to stick to his own race and date white girls. I dont know why as he dated me and we never even spoke about race should I confront him? As i love him loads. thanx sophie (link)
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well if hes stupid enought to leave you over something like this..well im sorry to say but why were you dating him.
I get the feeling theres more behind this, this cant be the real reason. Try to discuss that with him, why it was never an issue and suddenly he wants to change up on you. If he persists with this response, I guess the only thing you can do is respect his wishes...hopefully he will come back to sences. hope this helped at all, take care & hope things work out for the best =]
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People say revenge is never the answer, and you might be one of them, but I don't care. So don't scold me or try to reason with me just answer my question and get over it. I want revenge on him. There is this boy ((we'll call him Dave)) and he broke my heart. I know we are young and I am not going to try and say we are in love but I think its stupid that people say you can't get your heart broken even though they know they felt this exact pain at your age. Anyway, if Dave thinks he can just mess around with my emotions, tell me he likes but that he's "not interested in dating" but still expect me to treat him like a boyfriend, he's wrong. If he thinks he can lead me on when he gets bored but then ignore me whenever he feels like it, he's wrong. Its not like he flirts with other girl's (I'm really the only girl he ever talks to) and he's not a player AT ALL I think he just gets a laugh out of messing with me and it makes me so mad! I still like him SO MUCH (i know i know!! But i cant control who i like!!) but I just want to get back at him. It hurts me... A lot and I know its absolutely horrible, but I want to hurt him too. I don't care if he is "confused with his feelings about me" or any other bull crap he gives, he can't mess with me like that!! Jelousy could do something but I need MORE ideas. So please, skip the criticism and sense, and just help me. How can I get revenge?? (link)
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Im sorry to tell you but you clearly said he gets a laugh at the things you do..meaning that you cant actually hurt him because he doesnt care enough about you. Trying to be revengeful will only hurt YOU in the longrun because you keep stressing the situation. Dont get me wrong i know exactly how you feel, ive been in this possition many times before..but dont waste your time it makes you seem immature & on top of that it makes him feel good your still care about what he does. I advise you to cut off all contact with him and try to ignore the fact you know him. If its meant to be he'll realize he does want you as a girlfriend, if he doesnt then he never appreciated what you did for him. Pleasee dont go after the revenge thing it doesnt work..you only waste your time, dont comit the same mistake i made when i was about your age.
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I'm sixteen years old and I really would like to look older. My boyfriend is nineteen years old and 6'5". When I'm with him I feel as if I look like his little sister not his girlfriend. I'm only 5'4" and a b cup, so I don't look very old. In fact, I feel like I look like a little girl. Is there any way I can look a few years older through clothes or makeup or anything like that? Any help is greatly appreciated :) (link)
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uhmm makeups does the trick. also wearing heels and stuff should make you feel better..hope i helped. = ]
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i'm supposed to make a spanish love poem for valentines day and present it. it's supposed to rhyme. i can't really think of anything, even when i try.. it doesn't really make any sense after wards, lets just say that i'm bad at spanish and at poems.. and those two together doesn't mix very well... it could be any length, so it could be a short poem.
all i'm asking is that, please help me write a spanish love poem. it can even be funny! please and thank you, and please.. ASAP! i would love you foreverrr! (link)
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mi amor por ti, no tiene fin
si no estubieras es como no vivir
al fin del mundo por ti llegare
todo lo que quieras mi amor, te lo dare
en este dia de san valentin
todo lo que siento te lo entrego a ti
en un futuro me veo junto tu lado
somos tal para cual nuestro amor es envidiado
pero no es razon para separarnos..
algun dia ellos algo paresido habran encontrado
te pido mi amor nunca me dejes
podria aogarme llorando..
con tan solo estas cuatro paredes.
idk i tried lol atleast it rhymes..im good at poems, not so much at spanish ones..but thats what i could come up with. hope you like. =]
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what website can i go to to 3ATCH MOVIES ONLINE FREEEE (link)
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watch-movies.net
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For my History project, I wrote this letter as if I'm a soldier writing home and I made it look so real by crumpling it and dipping it into tea.
For the project, we must include one picture. i have this perfect one that's already black/brown and white but it won't look that old if I print it out. Will it end up okay if I crumple it up and dip that into tea too?
Or is there something else you can suggest? (link)
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i had to do something like this also a few years back. I put coffee on the paper let it dry then burnt the edges. the coffee makes the paper get yellowish like u know old..just incase if your wondering. hope i could help =]
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Umm... I'm a really shy person and I was wondering if anybody can help me become more talkative and less shy. Maybe even some reasons why I'm quiet. Well thanks to those that can help.
With love,
~!MysteriousGirl!~ (link)
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seems as if you dont have confidence. Im order to be less shy you have to be comfortable in your own skin. Is there anything that makes you feel comfortable, idk like with me i feel really comfortable in heels it instantly gives me a whole different level of confidence. Try to talk to people who you dont normally talk to, dont think about what they might say. If you appear confident it will in time get rid of your shyness. =] hope i helped.
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okay so a commercial came up about gynocologists and my boyfriend asked me if i had one and i said i didn't think i did. i'm not sexually active so is it really necessary to have one?
16/f (link)
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as far as im concerned i dont think so. I mean im the same as you 16 and not sexually active, i think if i needed one my mom would have booked an appointment lol. =]
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kayy i like this guy but he has a girlfriend and i dont want peoople answering this like dont tell him because he has a girl friend becuase si have to tell him.....how do i tell him i like him?
thanks (link)
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you have to be realistic. Once you do tell him do you expect to dump her and run into your arms? ..Unless you guys really have a connection and your sure hes into you dont do it. It will only hurt you in the end because he will know you like him, but you guys wont be able to move on because of the fact he has a girlfriend...well i mean unless your the type of girl who doesnt care to be the other woman.
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I'm 16/f 11th grade, and I met this guy in 9th grade and ever since we've been friends. I'm being honest when I say that there was no tension, we both liked different people, we were friends. But, the last day of school before this summer I asked if he wanted to come over and swim at my house. The day before he was going to come over we were talking on the phone and he said he'd call me and tell me when he was comming over. So the next day he didn't show, or even call to say he couldn't make it. We haven't even talked for the rest of the summer, and I was afraid to call him or text him because I thought I did something wrong. Did he think I liked him because I asked him over? He's a good friend and I don't want to lose him over something stupid I said or did.
Thanks,
JustAsking (link)
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its crazy how much your story matches whats happening to me but im in the opposite position ..lol i would be the one that didnt show, and now i feel like everything is soo akward because we dont talk anymore like we used to. Well i would say just talk to them and let them know how you feel. I had a reason why i didnt show, and im sure the guy you asked over has a reason also. =] hope i helped.
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I met a guy at the beginning of the summer and we've been spending a lot of time together... almost every day. I'm a virgin but I'm ready to have sex (save the sex speeches please, im 17 and i can make my own decisions) and I really want to with him.... i like him a lot and he likes me a lot. The other night we were getting pretty close... and he said "its up to you". After hearing him say this and knowing that it could really happen made me think... and kind of nervous. He's leaving in less than a month and he goes to school thousands of miles away. There's a chance I may never see him again... and if i did it wouldn't be for, like, a year. It makes me sad to think he's leaving and we can't be anything more than we are... and I'm wondering if sex would just make me even more emotional about it. Can I hear your thoughts and/or stories? Thanks! (link)
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personally i think you shouldnt. He could meet someone new while hes overe there and you would have just gave up your virginity to someone who isnt going to be with you. It will make him gone so much more worse. I think you should wait some time, maybe he'll come back you never know. Idk i just feel if your going to give yourself up to someone you should atleast have the security that they will be with you afterward. But then again its all up to you. hope you the best of luck on what you decide. =]
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what do i do? i feel so alone and i'm doing stupid things. i feel like i have no friends. and that everyone hates me. i'm so insecure and i relly hate life right now. i hate being me. i hate who i am, and who i have been.
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there has to be a reason why everyone hates you. Something you did dissapointed them or hurt them, try appoligizing i garantee you will get your social life back to gether again. wish you luck. =]
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heyy my name is skylar and i really want a new screenname; maybe you could help?
i want something with skyLar in it.
thanks =] (link)
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SimplySkyLar*
xSkyLarx
idk thats what i would put. lol
hope i helped. =]
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ok this could be embarrassing but i live in an apartment and we live down and the neighbors upstairs dog is annoying me and really scaring me. what am i going to do if i had to come out there again. its so annoying the dog senses everything and even if i tried not to be scared it seems like its barking at me still and i am scared of getting bitten or attacked by it. what if it chases me around. i cant stand dogs they really scared me and i dont think i could stop being scared. the dog senses me strongly. i would be happy if it just leaves me alone. and i also feel kind of spied on and disrepected by the neighbor upstairs. so what do i do? and i am not a dog lover and i dont like going to pets and petting them it just annoys me. (link)
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hey i have the same problem. =] One of my friends told me if i hold my breath when im a round them unless you really have to breathe it helps, they really wont notice you. you should try it.
hope i helped. =]
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ok so i dont know if im the only person who gets this but sometimes i could be doing something and some little thing comes up my throat. One day i was curious on what was it so i smelled and it really smelled bad. I dont know what this is, if anybody knows how can i prevent this? (link)
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my friend, that is a Tonsil stone.
I asked my doctor one time about it because it was freaking me out. He said it is nothing to worry about. He said it is when food gets trapped in holes back in your tonsils bacteria forms around it creating the little yellowy white stones. Gross, huh? theres pretty much nothing you can do about it except remove your tonsils. I suggest you just try to chew your food more, most people get them anyways.
hope i helped. =]
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I'm 18. Should I go out with a 26 year old guy? (link)
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your 18. most of the time people think its wrong to go out with older people because they might think its peer presure. I think you are able to make decisions for yourself, if you like him go for it.
hope i helped. =]
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I'm 15/f. So my mom assures me that my knees are dark because I crawled on the floor a lot as a baby, which would make sense, if it weren't for the fact that my elbows are also dark. I mean, these two areas of my body are REALLY dark. It's as if they stitched parts of another person onto me. I never show my legs because of this, and it's very rare for me to wear short sleeves, even in the summer. I spent 60 bucks on this cream called Meladerm, which you're supposed to use twice a day. I forget sometimes, but I put it on some dark spots on my face and I haven't really seen any difference, despite its guarantee of results after just 2 weeks. Does anyone know anything at all that might help lighten these areas? (link)
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actually crawling does make your knees darker, and most of the time peoples elbows are dark because the person leans on things with them. Like some people put their elbows on the table while eating. I think you should see a dermatologist since they are experts on skin, they would probably give you a cream that will be effective to you. I suggest you dont go out and buy creams on your own, get someone who knows what the cream is good at and what types of skin it is effective on. hope i helped. =]
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I have known my ex boyfriend since we were 13 years old (I'm now 22). We dated for 5 years off and on and we were very much in love. We broke up due to the fact that we have always lived very far from each other. Throughout college we kept in touch. I recently just graduated and he came to my graduation (his cousin graduated from the same college as me so he was there really for him). After seeing me at graduation he started to come back in my life more and more. He has been calling me and speaking to me everyday. He just got out of a serious relationship so he would mainly be calling me for advice on his recent ex girlfriend. I am currently in a serious relationship and although I am extermely happy I still have feelings for my ex. He claims he still has feelings for me too but he keeps going back and forth on whether or not to get back with his ex or not. I feel lost and I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend. I recently told my ex that I couldn't talk to him about his ex anymore because I knew I wouldn't be able to give him advice when I feel like my own feelings for him would get in the way. He said he wouldn't bother me about it anymore. What should I do? Should I stop talking to him altogether? I have already told him how I feel but I feel like it hasn't accomplished anything. My current boyfriend and I are very close and I try to be as honest with him as possible. Lately I know I have been distant with him and that I run the risk of losing my current relationship for someone who might not even want to be in a relationship with me.
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From what i know it seems you havent been able to forget about your ex. I suggest you let him know exactly how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same for you. If the answer is yes you should tell him what does he plan to do about it. If you feel like you two will get anywhere i think you should tell your boyfriend in on what is going on seems like you too have an open relationship and its better to let him in now on what you are feeling that wait more time and hurt him more.
-hope i helped. =]
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i'll give you some background information .. ok so my bestfriend of the opposite sex lives in massachusetts and i live in newyork. we're both 16. we met three years ago at our grandparent's retirement development in florida while we were both there visiting. we obviousily became really good friends. neither of our grandparents live in florida anymore as of last year. last summer we really wanted to see eachother so we both convinced out parents to let me go to massachusetts to see him .. and i did and we had an amazing time. so i went back this past april for a week and you can totally say we became more than friends in april. it was the first time we had hooked up.
it doesnt seem that he has any sort of interest in coming here to newyork to visit me which i really dont mind because i'd rather go there anyway because i became really close with his family too. and i was thinking about going back again this summer. and his confirmation is the 27th. and with the job i have if i plan on going anywhere i need to let my boss know so she can make other arrangements without being stressed out. so i was thinking since that is a set day that i would leave to go to massachusetts on the 26th. and then i had another brilliant idea of not telling him im coming and surprise him. i was text messaging his mom on saturday and asked her if i could come back and visit within the next month and she told me of course i could whenever and however long. and i told her if we could keep it a secret from john and she said of course. i had told his bestfriend that i was gonna try to make plans to come for john's confirmation. me and eric got into a fight so to get back at me i guess, eric told john that i was planning on coming and surprising him and that i was using going to california as a coverup. which was the plan. and in my AIM profile i had "july 26th-august 3rd california" in my profile. so john IMed me and ill paste the convo ..
john: since when are you goin to cali?
me: uhm the other day
me: im going to see my uncle.
john: mhm...........questionable
me: what do you mean questionable?
john: eric told me that is a cover up bc your comign here for my confirmation on the 27th
me: erics a dick
john: is that true?
me: it was
me: but then i knew he told you
me: and thats the week i can get off of work
me: and my uncle had asked me if i did want to go to california
me: so i decided to gooooo cos ive only been there once and it was for his wedding
john: u might as well go to cali bc imhave work everyday that week besides that
me: ok
john: sorry
me: w/e
so after that conversation i was very questionable able still wanting to go to massachusetts. cos i dont know if john's basically telling me that he doesnt want to see me and doesnt want me to come. i was gonna call john's mom this week anyway to set everything up for me going. and i was gonna ask her what she thought about me coming if she thought it was ok or not the best time. because when im there i dont just sit around with john the whole time, i spend time with his mom and brothers and his grandparents also. when i was there in april he had baseball practice for three hours everyday and i was fine while he was gone. so i dontknow i'm still gonna ask john's mom but i do need some other advice .. soo this is so long! thanks in advanced:) (link)
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i think you should go. It seems as if he wanted you to go at first, but since you blew him off and made it seem like your other plans were more important that him he got mad. Just go, if he really doesnt want to see you so what?! spend time with his family, Its seems like you have a good time anyways.
good luck, hope things turn out good. =]
hope i helped. =]
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I saw a question that you answered about giving people a blowjob, and i was wondering, when you stick it in your mouth, does it normally have a funky taste to it? (link)
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yeah it really does..=/
- hope i helped. =]
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