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what do i do? i feel so alone and i'm doing stupid things. i feel like i have no friends. and that everyone hates me. i'm so insecure and i relly hate life right now. i hate being me. i hate who i am, and who i have been.
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there has to be a reason why everyone hates you. Something you did dissapointed them or hurt them, try appoligizing i garantee you will get your social life back to gether again. wish you luck. =]
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Everyone goes through this in their life at some point. Sometimes, when you're dealing with these kinds of problems, it's best to figure out what it is thats making you unhappy. If you feel like you have no friends, go meet new people & befriend them! Don't ever hate being you, because everyone is unique in their own way & I'm sure you're a great person that's just going through a hard time right now. I've been this way & I learned that I shouldn't beat myself up inside when half the things I was thinking, wasn't even true. It can take time for you to feel comfortable with yourself, but when you do, it's the greatest feeling in the world. Just remember, even if you don't have a friend in the world you can count on, you'll always have yourself & you should always be happy with who you are! :] ♥
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Its a totally normal feeling. I'm most certain it will eventually pass, but in the mean time, you should try to spend as much time with friends or people you know will acknowledge you. Maybe even tell them how your feeling. Attention and encouragement are great cures for loneliness, especially if your friends want to help you through it. It tends to show whose really there for you and whose not.
Best thing to do is actually tell someone. Face to face. As hard as that might sound, its worth it. It will help you get out that negativity and you will feel slightly if not much better. Maybe you just need to feel like you exist to someone, like you actually have a purpose. Trues friends will always tell you your worth having around and wont point out anything you have done wrong. It could be time you change certain habits and ideas. What those are I couldn't tell you, but you can fix it all by not doing them and finding better, more productive if you can, things to do over those bad habits or ideas.
But know you are never alone in any situation. You have friends that care for you. Life will always suck but its always worth the crap it throws at us in the end. And you should never hate who you are, but forget who you have been. Negative nostalgia can lead to more insecurity. Just be around company you trust and let them help you, because they will care for you and how you feel. You are always important to someone...
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