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Relationship falling apart?
Okay, I need help. I've been with my current boyfriend for a year & 7 months. Everything used to seem so "perfect", but for the past few months, it has all went downhill. He hardly ever calls as much as he used to, he seems to prefer texting rather than talking on the phone. We see less and less of each other. He never attempts to cheer me up when he knows that I'm upset or have had a bad day. If I disagree with him or express my opinion, it's like he always has to start an argument with me about it. When I'm around him, it seems like everything he does complety annoys me. I have had several talks with him telling him how he has changed and does not act like the same person he used too and that he doesnt treat me the same. All he can ever say to those things is that he is sorry and that he will change. But, nothing ever changes. It's always the same over and over.. and he tells me that he is just human and makes mistakes. But, I don't really agree with that. I know humans make mistakes, but you don't keep making the same mistake over and over when you KNOW that it's wrong. I don't see how he thinks we are going to keep a relationship if we hardly talk and he can't attempt to make me smile when I'm upset, etc. What does this mean? Does this mean we were never really in love or does it mean that we are falling out of love? I'm so confused and I really need some advice.
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ok, there is a possible chance that you both may be falling out of love, maybe you just need to give him some space because i have a friend who was in this same situation and her boyfriend broke up with her because she started to annoy him. So i think maybe you shouldnt try to talk to him 24/7, maybe try letting him going to you first instead of you going to him, it may be hard at first but trust me it will be worth it.
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well there are so many answeres about this question ill give you some answeres...
1= yea you might be falling out of your love you guys have been together for almost 2 years thats a long time and mabby it just got boring for him ...and mabby for you too
2= mabby its a just a phase his going thourough mabby something is bothering him ..thats he doesnt wanan tell you
3=or mabby he doesnt alwasy want him to call you mabby he wants you to call him and talk to him or to come over his house and just hnag out and watcha a movie
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some solutions
1: start to call himan dhnag out with him tell him you love him ...and see whst happens..take one day to do that and see what are his reactions
2=you guys can take some time to see other poeple for a while take a break ....
3= and sometimes usually people start to love and miss someone more when there in a fight .....
4= just break up for good ....its gonna hurt alot but eventually ull get over it
5- have another serious talk not about whats bothering you about him..try to say whats going on where is this realitonship going whats happening ask him how he feel sabout it ...
Y&B hope i helped =D
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when people are growing they also grow out of love! its verys sad to say but when your young and have been going out as long as you two are now that one of you are just thinking that they should get out there and search for new people! it would break my heart if me and my bf broke up! tell him you guys should see other people if you seem not to be happy without him and he feels the same way you can always get back together but remember someone only gets 2 chances other wise it deff. wont work!!!
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