ok i live with my boyfreind and after i work a long shift all day and have an even longer shift tomorrow...i find out he invited his 7 year old nephew to stay the night, knowing i need to get up in the morning and knowing tonight is the first and only night for a week that we will be able spend the night together (if you catch my drift). I even mentioned that to him today and he still did it with out asking me. Am i in the wrong to be upset? Am i in the wrong to tell him no even tho he doesnt get to see his nephew very much? I feel like the bad guy...should i?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MommaTina answered Monday September 3 2007, 1:11 pm: Well, I'm the kind of girl that gets mad easy, so I'd be mad over that.My husband always buys shit without asking me, knowing that we need that money for teh baby.I threaten to leave him to get my way,hehe!! Anyways, just tell him how u feel, that you don't like him doing things without asking you.I feel as if someone doesn't ask you things, then they don't respect you.That's just me though.When it comes to guys. I don't trust them very much.I have been burnt before is why I'm this way.Just be nice about it when you explain to him about how you feel.Good luck ,hun!! [ MommaTina's advice column | Ask MommaTina A Question ]
LondonAndParis answered Monday September 3 2007, 1:31 am: Dear upset,
You should just tell your boyfriend how you feel about him inviting his 7 year old nephew over and that it made you upset that you and him couldnt spend the night together, im sure he will understand.
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