I'm Jen, I'm really fun and I love to help people. I'll answer questions about sports, friendships, health, family issues or relationship problems. Hopfully I'll be able to help.
Gender: Female
Location: Westminster, Maryland
Occupation: Student
Age: 18
AIM: SpoiledAngel1920
Member Since: September 15, 2006
Answers: 9
Last Update: September 16, 2006
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Hi. My name is Amanda. I'm 15 years old. I recently started doing self harm, when I found out that my cousin died. I tried to stop but then I became addictive, the thing that scares me is I can't sleep at night. My arm is still bleeding at times and sometimes it gets so bad to the point that I cant'f feel anything. I need help really bad please!!! Thanks (link)
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Amanda ok you really need to see a doctor alright, from what I've read it sounds like you either got blood poisioing or somethings wrong. I hope everythings ok if you need to talk my AIM screen name is SpoiledAngel1920! Your in my prayers.
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yo im josh. im 12 years old. mii girlfriend is 15 and the thing that im having trouble wit is, shes always with my best friend who ive been friends wit since we were kids. i luv mii girlfriend but i dunno wut to do! can you please help me? thanks (link)
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Hey Josh, I'm not trying to sound rude but I kinda think that your girlfriend seems a little to old for you. I know age is just a number but still. But if you really like her then just talk to your friend and then talk to your girlfriend. I hope everything works out. Good luck.
Jen
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hi snapitsjen. i gotz a friend named jessi shes 16 and im 15. well we both like this guy named jordan whos 16...the thing is jordan flirts with me and holds my hand and i really dont wanna lose my friendship with her. what can i do? please help. thanks
julia (link)
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Okay first of all I would tell your friend about Jordan and second of all I wouldn't wanna loose my friendship over a guy...So either tell her how you feel about the guy...or um just tell him that you don't wanna mess up your friendship with Jess. Good Luck.
Jen
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I like this girl soooooo much. All these other girls tell me that the girl that i like also likes me back. But one time when i confronted her about this she said the whole i just want to stay friends thing. I decided im not giving up. I like her so much but it killed me when she said i just want to stay friends. how do i get around to her and show her how great of a boy friend i could be? I really dont want to just stay friends, so is there anything to help me get out of the friends zone and get her to love me the way i love her without showing it too much?
Shes well worth it
Thanks, (14,m) (link)
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Hey hun, if I were you I'd sit her down and just talk to her. If she means that much to you invite her over and talk to her. Always express your feelings for a girl and what they love the most is roses and teddy bears. Good luck.
Jen
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Homecoming is coming up, and I don't have a date, nor do I think I will get one. My friends Alex and Kim (both girls)say I should go with them since they don't have dates either. I really want to go, so what I was thinking is I would bribe my friend Ty (boy) into taking me, and we would still go with Alex and Kim. Before I knew them, Alex had a crush on Ty, and he found out and started teasing her and flirting really bad with her, so now she kind of hates him, but he is an assistant coach on her swim team so she tolerates him. The other problem is he is 19 and I am 16. My parents don't have a problem with me asking Ty, so I was wondering if I should ask Ty to take me knowing the history with him and Alex. (link)
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Girl do what you want it's your life, I mean not anything stupid of course. Ask Ty to the dance I mean if I were you I'd go just friends so nothing happens. But I hope everything goes well for ya! Take care
Jen
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heyy i have a long distance relationship with my bf and im 13 n hes 16....we talk on msn n thts about it....but i really like him n he really likes me..its just tht im not shure if i shud keep this relationship because it's long distance and they next time we see eachother will probably be in 3 years..so shud i keep this or move on? (link)
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If I were you I'd just be friends with him and just try and find someone near you. Just tell him it's not gonna work and that you should be friends. Like they all say friendships are more important then relationships. Good Luck.
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Please answer honestly....
ok. I have this friend named Lauren, who has been my friend since she was 1 (and i was 2) she a grade below me. This other girl, Caitlyn, has been my friend for about two years now. Not very long, i know. They have this other friend, Amanda, who i just met this year, and we aren't really friends, but we get along and stuff when we meet.
One day Caitlyn, who walks home, asked me to "miss" my bus, and call my mom and ask her if i can walk to caitlny's house with caitlny, lauren, and amanda (amanda's house is nearby, so she just goes there, but lauren and I go to caitlyn's house)
Well, that was fun. Now this week (the first time was last week)i asked if i could walk home with them again, and before caitlyn had a chance to answer, Lauren was just like "NO just me, caitlyn, and 'Manda." Then lauren and caitlyn walked off, and lauren and her arm around Amanda. They didn't even look back or wave or anything. They didn't even say bye.
Sorry this is so long...but what should i do??? i feel like im losing my best friends to amanda...i like amanda and all but i want to stay good friends with lauren and caitlyn. I need some advice, please help!!!!
I RATE! (link)
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Hey if I were you I'd tell her the way you feel. Try talking to the girls about the situation and see if that works. Good Luck.
Jen
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hey iam 17 years old and iam in the 11th grade my ex boyfriend is also 17,but he's a senior his mom won't let us date becouse she thinks we might be kinned to each other,but that's not possible anyway so we broke up and we both still have feelings for each other and I wanted to know how can I convince jese's mom to let us get back together thankyou. (link)
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First of all does she know how you feel about this guy? If not let her know that you truely care about this guy you like. If you can at all sit her down with Jese and both of you tell his mom the way you both feel about eachother. I hope everything works out ok. Take care and God Bless.
Jen
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Um. Well. I'm a 15 year old girl and I just started high school. And I met this fabulous guy in my english class. He's really great. He's adorable, funny, shares my political views, and nearly perfect. Nearly. He has a girlfriend. She doesn't go to our school, so I don't really know her or anything. It's really frustrating because I'm really ecstatic that I found a guy who's not a complete idiot. And I feel guilty because he belongs to another girl, and I feel that I shouldn't even look at him or else I'm somehow intruding. I am NOT looking to break them up. No matter how much it hurts, I would never sink that low. I really think I should get over him. But...I can't. Everytime I make a vow to get over him, I see him and I'm instantly enamoured again. ...He has the most beautiful smile. The heartmelting kind. None of my friends think he's cute because he's a little on the chubby side. He's not totally fat, mind you. NOT THAT THERE'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT. He's just a bit chubbier than the skinny emo guys that go to our school, ya know what I mean? And he has low self-esteem, which is weird because he is just so wonderful...But I really feel as if I have no chance. I don't know what his relationship is like with his girlfriend. For all I know, they could be happy and in love or they could be on the brink of a break-up. What should I do? Wait for them to break up? Move on, no matter how hard it will be?
I know this is horrible, but I'm secretly hoping for them to break up by the end of this month. You know, so I could make my moves on him in time for homecoming. I'm a horrible person, I know. But I need your advice. My friends don't understand. Thanks a bunch! (link)
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Hey if I were you I'd tell the guy how you feel, I mean don't keep to yourself. It's better to let your feelings out before something else happens. Good luck and I hope everything goes well.
Jen
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