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Long-distance
heyy i have a long distance relationship with my bf and im 13 n hes 16....we talk on msn n thts about it....but i really like him n he really likes me..its just tht im not shure if i shud keep this relationship because it's long distance and they next time we see eachother will probably be in 3 years..so shud i keep this or move on?
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I honestly think you should move on. I mean while having a boyfriend you guys are suppose to hangout, be able to kiss and hug, go out for supper and to the movies, etc. You are suppose to do things couples do. Since he is so far away and you won't see him for another 3 years, really doesn't seem like the best idea. You should have a boyfriend who you can see whenever you want. Not one you'll only get to see in another 3 years. You have all the time in the world for a boyfriend. You're only 13, so I'm sure you'll be able to find that perfect guy. Just know that he isn't the one for you. But there is one out there. You just have to give it time and move on. ♥
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If you truly like him then you should stay with him.
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i never though long distance relationships were very healthy becuase of the fact tht theyre almost like holding on to someone thats not there. but i guess this is something you have to dig deep in your heart to findd out.
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my advice to you is to just tell him you want to be friends.. because since your only 13 i don't think your rady for a long distance relationship it's just to hard on you your school work... and on him... and i know its hard to understand but if you keep this relationship... and you have to wait three years just to see him again... then he's holding you back. you want somebody who will... see you everday... call you when they didn't see you... somebody close... well i stilll think you should be friends with him but a real relationship might be too dificult...
well i hope i helped...
good luck,
Ask_Beth
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girl, i've been there and done that. you're 13 and have so much to look forward to. you don't want to stay connected to a guy who lives far away and miss out on great guys who are right there with you. especially if you KNOW that you won't see eachother for a while. nothing says you can't stay friends and the next time you see eachother if you're both single it can turn into more again.
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Personally i think you should probally let go now before you get too attached..it will be hard but in the end you'll have your heart broken and long distance relationships dont work out to well from personal experience. hold on there you'll meet someone else im sure you will!
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Gurl this might sound a little harsh but move on.
he's not worth it he's 16 and he has a lot more on his mind than msn if you know what i mean.
be friends but i don't think you should take it any farther or you might get hurt.
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In my opinion, I think you two should just be friends for now and you should date other guys near you. Trust me, I have a bf who I only talk to on msn and have only seen him once, and it really sucks. The only reason we don't break up is because we love each other....so, if you love each other, and I mean really really love each other, stay together, but from the sounds of it, you're unsure in the relationship, so, yea...the waiting isn't worth it in the end. Good luck on what you decide to do.
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If I were you I'd just be friends with him and just try and find someone near you. Just tell him it's not gonna work and that you should be friends. Like they all say friendships are more important then relationships. Good Luck.
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Well you gotta think to yourself, Would I rather wait for him for 3 YEARS and ONLY talk to him on msn?????? or would I dump him and find a guy that my age, where I live, and actually get to see him... honestly, its your choice... but in my opinion I say dump him. He's not worth waiting for 3 years if it long distance and 3 years age difference and also only talking on msn. sorry but thats how I feel. its up to you.
I hope I helped!
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