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Friendship Square....
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ok. I have this friend named Lauren, who has been my friend since she was 1 (and i was 2) she a grade below me. This other girl, Caitlyn, has been my friend for about two years now. Not very long, i know. They have this other friend, Amanda, who i just met this year, and we aren't really friends, but we get along and stuff when we meet.
One day Caitlyn, who walks home, asked me to "miss" my bus, and call my mom and ask her if i can walk to caitlny's house with caitlny, lauren, and amanda (amanda's house is nearby, so she just goes there, but lauren and I go to caitlyn's house)
Well, that was fun. Now this week (the first time was last week)i asked if i could walk home with them again, and before caitlyn had a chance to answer, Lauren was just like "NO just me, caitlyn, and 'Manda." Then lauren and caitlyn walked off, and lauren and her arm around Amanda. They didn't even look back or wave or anything. They didn't even say bye.
Sorry this is so long...but what should i do??? i feel like im losing my best friends to amanda...i like amanda and all but i want to stay good friends with lauren and caitlyn. I need some advice, please help!!!!
I RATE!
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Tell them how you feel if there truley your friends they would understand and they wouldnt exclude you like that!
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I think you should talk to them about how you felt when they did that. If they are really your friends, they will understand. If they don't, in my opinion, they aren't really good friends. You can also try to invite all three of them to your house or to the mall or somewhere else so all of you can have fun together. Hope everything works out for you.
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Hey if I were you I'd tell her the way you feel. Try talking to the girls about the situation and see if that works. Good Luck.
Jen
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This one is hard... but in my opinion I say talk to them. Talk to them individually. Talk to them and tell them how you are feeling. That you're feeling left out and you really dont like Amanda. If their response is really bad ((like they say 'whatever' and walk away)) dont hang out with them anymore. True friends would never do that. Talk to them first and see if they are really not interested in you anymore, if they are, just go find new friends that will actually respect you. Talk to amanda and say "I'm happy that my friends ((caitlyn and lauren)) are hanging out with you, but however I'm a little upset on how you aren't really including me in some things." talk to her and see what's up.... If they still ingore you, find a new crowd do hang out with.
I hope I helped and all goes well!
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