Hello my Name is Beth and my dream is to become an advice columnist for a newspaper or magazine. So please ask me any question and i will answer no matter the how weird.
thanx,
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Gender: Female
Location: Eureka
Age: 13
Yahoo: askbeth92@yahoo.com
Member Since: August 23, 2006
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I'm a teenage girl and I'm always alone- i'm not kidding. I'm homeschooled so that's why.(and i'm the only dependent minor in my family) I used to go to a prep school where I was around annoying people 24/7, and i hated that. But this makes me depressed too. Never being around anyone. my problem is this:
Whenever I get tired of being completely alone and I go out in public for a rehearsal or something (i do theater), I can't stand being around unintelligent sluts who don't understand me and just ask me why i look so sad and things like that. I get panic attacks whenever I try to talk to someone (unless it's one of my 2 best friends in the whole world) and i start sweating and I turn red and my heart starts pounding. and it gets too awkward and i have to make an escape.
I'm very well-spoken and i couldn't call myself "shy" but i still feel reclusive because i just don't really get along with other people. I've thought it was because of my intelligence being significantly above average. (been professionally tested) So I "notice things that no one notices" which makes me "unusual". (that was something stated word for word in my testing document thing)
It's like everyone else is a bunch of cows in a heard that looks exactly the same and does the same thing, and I'm a completely different species, who doesn't see the need to be in that heard. (if that makes sense)
I also battle depression- and I always have. It's not from any particular event- it's just always sort of been there. and i can't change it.
What is wrong with me? (link)
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hey girl i know how you r feeling . i feel the same ways . i\'m not part of that how you delicately put it \"everyone else is a bunch of cows in a heard that looks exactly the same and does the same thing\" well lets just say i\'m not part of that heard.how i deal with that is i do the things that interest me and do activities that represent me and just be myself. well when i try to talk to people i start coughing and my eyes start to water. what i do is when i\'m doing those activities like drama (i\'m interested in theater as well)the conversation just finds me . i like to talk to the people that like what i like and its more interesting and easty to speak when your talking your talking to the same species there is nothing wrong with you just be who you r . and get out to the world and show yourself off. buy things for yourself. eat what u like to eat. keep up with the theater. and don\'t think so much on the bad things and what is depressing or the *wrong* things about you. thin \\k about the things that represent you
well i think that i should eat my lunch
so if you have ne more questions please send me one i\'ll do my best to answer them
well i hope i helped.
love your drama ^buddy
respectfully,
ask_beth
p.s i like to read or watch movies to and eat lol to get my mind off depression
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how do i look my boobs look bigger? without plastic surgery, or anything like that. How do you stuff your bra without making it look obvious. Thanks. (link)
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well this is my opinion but i think that you shouldn't stuff your bra or anything like that to make your breasts look bigger i know your probably thinking that what does she know. Well i know because i'm not one of those girls that is well .....developed and i have thought many times of stuffing or going up a size in the bra area but in the end you just feel really wierd when you have tissues in your bra or a bra that is to big . and when you have a bra that doesn't really fit your chest people notice anyways . so just give it time . people develop and grow differently from others. so don't feel your ugly or not cool if you don't have a size b or c in bra size when your a teenager.
I hope that i've helped your decision a little
and remember your beautiful no matter what your bra size is lol
respectfully,
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the last song that the punk girl GINA sang on American idol. the one called smile. who sings it? (link)
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The Song Smile is by Lilly Allen
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heyy im the same 13 year old in tht other question..i no your probably thinking im only 13 and i should keep my mind on other things...but i am alot...im getting almost stright A's and im doing really good with him.....and if their were someone in my area that i liked, i would go out with them...im just wondering do U think its worth it, if i keep this relationship? I really like him and from the looks of it he really likes me...and i know him pretty well and hes not the player type....im just wondering, im doing really good with him so should i keep it then? (link)
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well.. you sound really confident.. and thats a good sign.. and yes i would be a shame... to lose something like what you two have... so my advice to you is to stay with what your doin for awhile... test things out... see if he could may be see you sooner...and try to talk to him eveeryday..... and if you do that your long distance relationship will hopefully progress... well i wish you the best of luck.... and i hope i helped
sincerely,
Ask_Beth
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heyy i have a long distance relationship with my bf and im 13 n hes 16....we talk on msn n thts about it....but i really like him n he really likes me..its just tht im not shure if i shud keep this relationship because it's long distance and they next time we see eachother will probably be in 3 years..so shud i keep this or move on? (link)
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my advice to you is to just tell him you want to be friends.. because since your only 13 i don't think your rady for a long distance relationship it's just to hard on you your school work... and on him... and i know its hard to understand but if you keep this relationship... and you have to wait three years just to see him again... then he's holding you back. you want somebody who will... see you everday... call you when they didn't see you... somebody close... well i stilll think you should be friends with him but a real relationship might be too dificult...
well i hope i helped...
good luck,
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Ok so I JUST turned 13 and I want to wear makeup. But I was wondering how can I put on makeup so it actually looks pretty, not slutty or trashy lol? I want to wear makeup for back to school. What kind of makeup should I wear and how should I wear it? I have light brown medium length hair with highlights in it from going in the sun, I have gray-ish blue eyes, and pale skin. Please tell me good makeup ideas! (link)
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o.k well i have the same type of eyes and i have dyed black hair but kinda the same concept so how i put my make up is.. i wear really kind of little bit darlker tone of skin color eyeshadow... and how you apply it is you put the tool you use do spread it in the eyeshadow then you put it on your eyelid and just a LITTLE bit above the eyelid.. i think you should wear some sort of pink lipstick... um.. but NOOO mascera.. not until you have a little more experiance .. well i hope i helped..
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picture day is coming up. what kind of shirt should i wear. i have light skin dark hair and dark eyes. how should i do my makeup also? thank you for any help. (link)
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i think you should wear some type of black tee shirt.. with a pair of your favorite plain jeans, i think you should wear some sort of light pink/red lipstick... um ... some light tan eyeshadow.. but no... mascera.. and i think you should put your hair to the side.. well i hope i helped..
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Right heres the deal.. i am in love with my best friend and i dont quite know how to handle it! I havent told him how i feel and i dont know if i want to. he has just split with his gf (that is what made me realise i liked him) i think i have always liked him, but just never realised it! I think he will be on the rebound so there is no way am i going to tell him how i feel, because i dont want to be his rebound girl! Everyone says that we make a great couple and i think we do too! Do you think i should tell him? and if so how long do you think i should wait? (link)
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well , i think you should tell him definately because if you keep that bottle up and wait till the last minute then he might have another girlfriend by then... to answer your second question i think you should wait awhile about 2 weeks 3 tops..then tell him how you feel.. don't be nervous.. just ask him.. well i hope i helped..
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Well, tonight was my fourth time having sex. It hurt a little at first but then it kinda felt pretty good. It hurt very bad the first 3 times.
It felt like i wanted to like scream [in a good way]
I was wondering if this is normal? cuz i always heard it hurts until the 10th time. But, maybe a myth? hah.
Well, thanks =] (link)
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ya thats only a myth ...i heard it usually hurts the first time (but i wouldn't know havn't done it yet)and about the 3 times well some people are a little different...and remember to always use protection! hope i helped
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i have had them for like an hour.
tips on getting them to leave?
duude pleasee help, it hurts. thanksss. (link)
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o.k well how i get my hicups to leave is i get a cup fill it halfway up with water then i put a papertowel over it then i take seven small sips it always works for me...
hope i helped..
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ok i need help i cant decide between 2 parties, both are this saturday & i know its my decision & all but i just need input
ok so Party A:: the girls whos throwin it i mean we both know each other but weve never talked to each other but shes 2 of my other friend's friend too. i kno a buncha people that are going to this, its gonna be like one of those big blow out my-super-sweet-16 kinda deals. i got invited to this one first. the down side is i need a semi-formal dress haha
Party B:: one of my friends from last semester is havin it. its a pool party and i only kno like 3 people that are goin. i wasnt invited to this one till i had pretty much already decided i was goin to the 1st one [although i hadnt RSVP'd or told anyone i was goin]. but the thing is this girl is actually one of my friends from last yr although i havent seen her at all this yr. i dont wanna upset them by goin to the 1st party esp. since a lotta ppl dont like the girl whos havin the 1st party [personally i dont have anything against her i dont see why a lotta ppl are like 'dont go to hers' and stuff]
so basically id kinda rather go to the 1st party but the thing is i dont wanna let my friends down, + id have to go buy a dress anyway.
what should i do? (link)
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well... my opionion is that you should go to the party A because you were asked to it first. and you say you know most of the people that are going to it.. so thats a pro.. the con is that you have to where a semi formal dress. lol just kidding... now about party B you say that you've known her since last year but havn't seen her since then..and then now she's asking you to her party.. well the pro to that is you know her and you don't know the girl who's inviting you to party A the con. is that you don't want to go to party B then don't.. just tell her you've already made plans with someone else good friends should undestand... but you should still her her a birthday present to show her that you care.. well i hope i helped with your decision
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Ok well, here is the deal... I started talking to this girl online, we talked every day, and night, we eventually became liking eachother, so after a few weeks of joking around, I decided to ask if it could be 'for real' as a relationship, She is 14, and I am 24. I know it's a bit of a age different, and no, I am not a pedophile, I never usually like people younger than me, just it's.. She acts more mature and it's really easy to talk to her, and listen to her. We have really great conversations, but we never met, but then one day, we decided to meet, and she brought a few friends with her... the whole time she avoided me, yeah I was shy also, but I would've talked to her if she wasn't avoiding me, cause I could tell she didn't want to be there with me, I mean, she did, but she didn't... and I know she's had past relationship problems, but I guess, maybe I was just another problem in a relationship, and I really fell in love with her, before we even met and she means the world to me, I just don't know what to think, she only lets me talk to her, if I ask her on this, but she speaks as if she don't know me, and I don't know what to think, any advice? P.S. She talks to me still, but don't tell me her true feelings, and acts like nothing happened, but she don't talk as much or act the same. (link)
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okay.. well the big issue in everone elses advice is that 10 years of age differance considers you a pedophile and i'm not goin to lie to you it is a bit much... but then again age is only a number.. you say that when you talk to her online she sounds more mature than her own age... but when you met her she completely ignored you .. now to me thats not very mature... so my advice to you is to just be friends with her.. after all she is still a minor.. and she is just now maturing into womanhood.. so keep your options open go to a single's night.. meet a woman over 18. but keep writing to her but don't give her the idea you want relationship with her because a 24 year old talking about a relationship to a 14 year old could scare her away so stick with just being friends ... well i hope i helped
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does anyone know a workout that would effectively reduce the size of a stubborn lower belly? there is muscle underneath but i feel like building the muscle up with push out the rest of the bulge and make it worse. any ideas? thank you :) (link)
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well theres' this really good workout that i heard about called TURBO JAM it is basciall kickboxing,dancing,great work out... all in one.. lol well i hope i helped
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What is a Tablet Laptop? (link)
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a tablet laptop is a laptop with a moveable moniter.. so you could turn it all the way around .. to the side.. and any other way you could think of... they are usually around $700.00 dolars.. um... if you want some pics.. go to www.google.com click images. then type in tablet laptop... well i hope i helped...
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What are some good ideas to get your 15 almost 16 year old boyfriend for christmas && his birthday...?
he likes video games..
basketball
seahawks&browns
green
...thx.
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well.. if he likes video games then definately get some.. but you say he likes basketball. so maybe you could get tickets for a college game... or you could get him something with the seahawks name on it.. lol... well... i hope i helped.
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I'm 13 years old going on 14 this December. I currently have my first hole pierced in my ear. I got it done in the first grade and wore earrings for a while. Then, a few years ago, I kinda just stopped, but last week, I started up again because yet again, I'm interested in wearing earrings. I really like the idea of piercings, and I would love to get the cartilage at the top of both of my ears pierced. (how much is it? will it hurt?) I asked my mother and she said that "I don't need it there".
I tried saying things like:
"Well I know, but I didn't need my first hole either."
and she says how I don't wear earring anymore, and I tell her the truth:
"I only have a few pairs and they're bent anyway."
my sister has both her first, second, and third hole pierced, so I kinda hint in how it isn't too fair how she has 3 piercings and I only have one.
I even offer to pay for it, and clean it, and do that on my own so she doesn't have to remind me.
it's kind of convincing her .. but I really want to get it done before my birthday (December 18) and I want to get it done before school starts.
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well first of all i would like to say happy birthday.. and second that.. i want to get my cartilage pierced to... so i asked some people i know with piercing the same kinda of questions.. most of the time if you go to a claire's its free but the earing's cost something.. and i have heard that it doesn't hurt as much as the eir lobe piercing but i have to warn you if it is done wrong it could paralize you.. because of some of the nerves in you ear . and i'm not trying to scare you but thats the truth.. but many people get the cartilage pierced so its pretty normal.. well i hope i helped and i hope it all works out for you!
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i kinda want sex now but i want to wait till marige. and i want to not be a freakin virgin
should i have sex or wait till marrage? (link)
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Well...many young woman want to have sex and 75% of them go through with it.. but my advice to is is to WAIT...i say this because you should wait until you find the one you love and want to spend the rest of your life with them and be the mother of his children...and you shouldn't have sex because you HAVE to do it.. or because you'll be known as FREAKIN VIRGIN. lol.. so you shouldn't rush... just wait...
good luck with your decision,
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Hey. I was looking at someone else's question about shaving "down there" and I was wondering about shaving. A few questions like do guys expect hair or no hair? If you are a guy what do you think/ would want?
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well...many woman shave "down there" and thats there decision but if your thinking about shaving i wouldn't ...because once you shave down there you start to get these "little bumps" that really itch... and the hair just grows back anyway and it could get thicker.. so my advice to you is not to shave,it's natural...and yes guys do know about"down there" lol
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hey...well my problem is that i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for a year now and i do love him..but the thing is that we're only in high school and i think i'll regret it if i dont go to dances and stuff with just my friends and not have to worry about a guy. but hes so sweet and we're perfect for each other. idk wut to do!!! (link)
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o.k my opinion is that you shouldn't break up with him just to go to dances with friends... you don't have to bring your boyfriend to all the dances i'm sure he'll understand.. just make plans with the girls and if he asks you to go then just say i've already made plans with my friends.. but we could hang out later..and i'm a highschool guy has something to do for a couple of hours.. lol...
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im looking for a black layout on myspace with the chanel symbol? websites would help. thanks a ton. (link)
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well. you could look under the website... www.hotfreelayouts.com or www.myspacelayouts.com or theres one more site thats really good and were i get my layouts.. it is elusivemoon.com
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