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4th time.


Question Posted Tuesday August 22 2006, 5:05 am

Well, tonight was my fourth time having sex. It hurt a little at first but then it kinda felt pretty good. It hurt very bad the first 3 times.
It felt like i wanted to like scream [in a good way]

I was wondering if this is normal? cuz i always heard it hurts until the 10th time. But, maybe a myth? hah.

Well, thanks =]


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Ask_Beth answered Thursday August 24 2006, 6:37 pm:
ya thats only a myth ...i heard it usually hurts the first time (but i wouldn't know havn't done it yet)and about the 3 times well some people are a little different...and remember to always use protection! hope i helped

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grape answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 5:32 pm:
Well only your body will tell ya that but uh
yeah it hurts 4 a good while and its normal cause your just getting used 2 sex.




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One_Fine_Day answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 9:36 pm:
Yeah, thats deffinetly a myth. It varies from person to person and the circumstance. if your nervous the vagina can become tight and so it will hurt more, or if the boy's penis is quite big. it can also hurt if you have sex in water as the vagina naturally tries to close so this can make it painful. If its stopped hurting for you then thats a good thing, dont worry that it has.

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naturally_sadie answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 6:45 pm:
That's deffinitatly a myth so it's not always true. It varies from person to person. If you've already broke your hymen from sports or something, sex might barely hurt at all or for some people it hurts all the time. It depends how much pain you can take and if your hymen is already broken and how big the guy is. Its very normal to feel good the 4th time. On average, it starts to be less painful on the 3rd to 7th time. There's nothing wrong with you so you don't have to worry haha. You're lucky it doesn't hurt anymore because for one of my friends it didn't stop hurting until like the 12th time!

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xAskkMechaBeccax answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 5:20 pm:
for me, it hurt alot the first time, and at the very beginning of the second time.

your situation is normal. mainly cuz everyone is different. there is no certain amount of time that it is supposed to hurt for.

and screaming is good. noise is good. my boyfriend loves it when im noisy. he says it makes him feel like a man. you might've orgasmed.

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Vikki27 answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 5:11 pm:
It isn't necessarily correct that it only hurts until the 10th time. Everybody is different. For some, it never feels painful and for some, it always hurts because they can suffer from a condition where the womb is in the wrong place or something called Vaginismus.

That being said, it really isn't common for it to hurt every time and after a while, it should start to only feel good.

If, however, you find it still hurts after you have had sex 20 or so times, you might want to speak to your Doctor, just to investigate the cause and see if there is anything you can do about it.

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trailer_trash_girl_XXX answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 5:04 pm:
hey.. that is so a myth.. because...

SEX FEELS GOOD EVERY TIME... and YOU SHOULD SCREAM YOUR HEART OUT!!!!

yeah..!!!

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Melody answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 3:24 pm:
Haha, you can't actually say how long it will take for it to start hurting, because it varies from person to person. I've been having sex for about a year, and it still hurts in the beginning. Especially if I go a long time without having sex.

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imxbossy answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 1:10 pm:
well depeneding on it your body will get ussed to its will feel better between the 5-7 time usually hope i helped <3

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trishieloo answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 8:00 am:
It's a total myth that it turns until the 10th time. I started enjoying it by the 3rd time. The most important thing to enjoying sex is that you are connected mentally with the person you are having it with, its so much better that way.

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