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Q: my friend told me that there is sperm in a guy's pre-cum and what I want to know if what is pre-cum and when does it come out of a guy's penis?

yes there is..Pre-cum is actually during the whole intercurse or whatever that you are doing that it is intimate.It is sperm that releses from the penis, yes there is sperm in it.hope i helped.

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Q: Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".

How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.

Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.

Thanks.

Well my first time was not as romantic as you may plan it.First off, I will just tell you that birth control and a latex condom will work but you can not always depend on a condom so that birth control is relatively helpful.and i would not just do one.DO BOTH.I BEG THAT YOU DO SO. i di only one.the condom.not so bad..but the condom did pop.and it mad me scared for months now I have been scared of ther result for later...
WEll the condom is too help protect against the STD's and pregnancy.the birth control is just all pregannacy. DO NOT HAVE SEX ON YOUR PERIOD OR SOMEWHERE NEAR CLOSE.YOU COULD STILL GET PREGNANT.
my first time was on his layed out comforters on the floor of his room because he had no bed..then it was too loud rap music..to keep moans from echoing out of the room while his grand mother..his daughter and his cousin was on the other side.then he kept getting me too hide so his grandmother wouldnt be so nosey..I started to eave but then I just wanted it o be over with..you know..i made a mistake and I wish I could take it back but see i respect the guy that is giving you your time and space, so just be careful..alright.hope i helped.

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Q: im kind of scared for sex ed because i think it will be embarassing especially learning about it with guys... and im really not looking forward to it. i think it will be akward. is this normal? and can you please share your experiences?

I mean when they showed the womans vagina and the mans penis we all laughed but everybody kind of tensed up as if one or the other would say something..its not that big of a deal sorta i mean you are learning something you really need to know instead of using the search engines to find out info, sometimes they would give false info so why not learn from the video?
but really all you have to do is find out correct info if this gets any worse then switch from out of the class.and asks your parents or a close friend that could inform you with this matter.

Q: If I have gone to 2nd or 3rd base (hand job, blow job, or if my partner performed oral/manual sex on me) and the doctor asks me if I'm sexually active, do I say yes?

By the way I'm not doing any of these things, but I probably will be in the future.

17, female

I mean I even told my doctor NO.Im the same age as yu are, but if it is going that far without protection then say yes, they only ask you this because they consider birth control..so no BD.But it will be if it something such as just oral, many woman get mouth diseases now a days by just going down on a guy so choose wisely, if you will do that do it with a condom better safe then sorry right, but think of it this way, there are many condoms such as trojan that protects against STD and pregnancy, well...it is LATEX, but I would recommend a flavored condom...but on for oral and still make sure it is latex..this way there will be NO DISEASES in your mouth,as far as intercourse goes...LATEX is the way to go.YOU WILL ALWAYS NEED TO BE PROTECTED..i just answered a question before this one..it meantioned that it was the girls first time and she noticed that she put the condom on wrong then she goes and re-applies it. I mean im not saying she is dumb because this is her first time...but do not do such a thing..if the condom is on wrong..do not re-apply during intercourse..don't even re-apply it before there is a good cahnce that it may be a little rip in it after it was applied AGAIN.so im not saying do not say yes or say yes but if you feel that you need to be way protected then say yes.i hope i helped.

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Q: mostly do girl go on top or bottom?
wat do guys like best?

either way, some guys like it when they can be able to put your legs up on their shoulders giving them better access this happens when they are on top. But when the girl is on top they like for the woman to contract her muscles of her vagina,(ryding a D*ck)this helps both cum faster, even the woman can get an massive orgam this way so you might enjoy this yourself.

Q: I just lost my virginity yesterday and I used a condom but some precum did get in my vagina because I put the condom on the wrong way the first time then I switched it to the right way and reapplied it.

I'm on the 3rd day of my period now and I'm pretty scared that I'll get pregnant.

How long do I have to wait before I can take a pregnancy test that will give accurate results?

Well yoou can still get your period during pregnancy so I feel that you are scared.the best time to take a test is now. Well depending on how you re applied that condom, you could be, not to even scare you but by reapplying that condom you put yourself at a greater risk of pregnancy, STD, or a disease.Not to say that your partner did have tose two. ut you would ever know.But do not re use or reapply a condom. Throw it away and do it the right way.If there is not another condom then dont have sex. wait another time.but it depends really on how long it took you too have your period after you have had sex.because a week or two, the fertilized egg i think they told me enters the uterus.I mean you can google it.because I have been through this same thing except it was not my frist time and I did not put on the condom, he did, but it still popped, which really got me angry.All i can say is either take the test now and see what it says and then take another when your other period comes, and that is if it comes during the next month.hope helped.

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Q: heyy! ok so i was wondering what is the sexiest thing a girl could tell her guy she is wearing? like lingerie, a thong, a bra, nightgown, etc. just want to kno what guys think is extremely hot and sexy ;] thanx

okay in a way i agree with the two and in a nother.I DONT. well. guys do like things tight, so underwear would NOT BE ONE OF THEM.you will catch yourself a mad yeast infection.which by the way is not pretty.[[im pretty sure you knew that lol*but just saying*]]Tight shirts are wearable, but then guys just wants to see females in LACE BRA'S instead of padded.There is something about a lace bra that turns them on, dont ask me, I would not know, all i do know is that fits around your entire breasts, when a guy is palming your breasts with the bra on it feels like he is feelng the breast and it could also just be the material. Underwear wise, always go with boy shorts, i mean i even love them myself. Guys go crazy over something as big as boy shorts, I mean they love thongs or g-strings, but what girl do you know will just walk around with a string up her ass all day?[[i mean unless you are into that*im sorry if i offended you*]].boy shorts, bikini underwear, or hipsters are these three words SEXY YOUNG and FUN.uys like to watch you take them off or see you in them or maybe even take them off themselves, Lengerie wise, I would say get something like the older folks wear.But i will not cause I figure you are young just like me.Just try one of those nice sexy night shirts .. go with a color.not white not black these are the colors that will not set the mood, otherwise guys would want to just screw and get it over with.colors i guess will set the mood more.i hope i helped.

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Q: Hey. So my iPod is being sooooo stupid! I'm so mad right now! please help!! so, I was just listening to it earlier and it was fine! and it was almost fully charged! so i pluged it in to add songs and itunes pulls up and it starts asking me all these weird questions about restarting my iPod, but if I restart it I'll loose all of my songs. So I clicked not right now and it says that it's sinking games. But I didn't want it to do that, so I clicked the x button at the top to stop. But then my iPod didn't say "Do not disconect" the screen just went blank. So I unpluged it,and now all it is doing is nothing. It just has a white screen. I can't do anything. And when I plug it in, it doesn't even say that its pluged in. And when I do the thing where you click the hold button back and forth and then hold down the menu button and the middle button, it makes the weird noise, kinda like a song or something. It's not long though, just about 3-5 seconds. So please! Tell me what to do!!! all i want to do is add songs! does it need some new kind of batteries or something?? and if so, where can i get them? pleaseeeeeee help!! thanks!

Well it is possible that someone has been messing with your itunes. if it wasnt you putting games on the itunes then somebody messed that up for you.When you tried to restart it, I mean it should've restarted. Maybe you need to upgrade it really.Because iPod has only a battery that is rechargable and I believe you can not change batteries but you do have to replace it. If you have a warranty, hjust get a new one. My cousin had the same problem and so did my friend. They went to et uprgrades.and it costs them $$..depending on which updated iPod you will be trying to get.i hope i helped, there is really no other info I can ive you.

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Q: My ex boyfriend (I'll call him L)and I went out for a month last year, and broke up becuz we were just acting like friends (it was our first relationship). Anyway, we are a rare case, because we just got ridiculously closer and its exactly a year today that we were together; we talk everyday, and he is almost like my best friend, only more. Anyway, i never completely got over him. I honestly love him. Not in love, but i do love him so much. We connect in a way that I never have with anyone. And i know he loves me too, we make a cute couple and balance each other well, but two months ago, i told him that i still had feelings for him and he told that we should just be friends. Anyway, my guy best friend's good friend J likes me alot, and I am attracted to him,but I cant see myself with him, because I still like the other guy. So, last night, I asked L for advice on what to do: whether I should give J a chance or not (because he is the only one who could give me a true answer). And he gave the sweetest advice, that if I saw myself with him than I should give him a chance, but if I cant than maybe I shouldnt. I told him that he (L) would be fifth wheel if I went with J (becasue my guybest friend, his girlfriend, me and L...and now J hang out alot). And he told me not to worry about him, and be selfish for once. Then he quietly asked if I liked someone else, why i was so unsure about J...and I didnt want to answer(because of course I like him). There is nothing wrong with J,but I love L, and I want us to have another chance. We are perfect for each other. We are always flirting with each other, and i love the way he talks to me. He said I brighten his day. Should I give J a chance, or try to give it one try with L again (mind you, he might not even want to try it again.) I want L to know that I do love him. I just dont want to get rejected again. But I dont think I can be with J unless..

Okay.well to actually get to tell him you love him without rejection.sit down with him in private.guys sometimes do not feel the need to tell their emotions in public.unless they are really real bout it.my dude would say over the phone in front of his boys like it is nothing.but anyway.ask him hisTRUE FEELINGs.and tell him too tell what is on his mind.how does he really feel bout 'US'?(you all in general...)then if he tells his true feelings and you like it.TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM!.if he does other than that.dont even bring it up.HOPE I HELPED.

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Q: both me and my fiancé have bad knees from old high school sport injuries. they're good some days and horrible other days, both right knees are the worst. what positions for sex are best that put the least amount of pressure on your knees.

thanks

The person under me is right.always a side ways position helps best.and it actually increase pleasure.so the woman most likely will cum as well.

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Q: So I'm pretty much the most good goody you have ever seen. I'm 16/f. I have a 4.0 GPA. I am chosen to be in senior classes even though I am a shophmore. I do everything when I am suppose to do it and how I am supposed to do it. I have never drank, did drugs, or had sex. But I am so sick of being the same old boring me. All of my friends believe in no sex before marrige. Well now I'm starting to think sex before marrige isn't so bad as long as it's with someone you care about. Well I really want to change into someone who has a little more fun. No drugs though. But will I ruin my reputation? Is it worth the risk to ruin something like that? I am really tore. But I know I'm not one of those who wants to go out every night and get wasted. I just want to live some of my high school years in fun. It's not like I'm a dork either. I was prom queen my freshman year. I was homecoming attendant our first year. I'm "popular" I guess you would say. But anyways should I try it? Or should I just stick to the goody goody I am?

Well. For one.just let loose. a little.tad bit. you shuldnt stay locked away in your good ole days all the time.have a little fun. And im not saying. go out and have sex either.or get wasted.or stoned/high.Just do some parties.every once in a while.hang with your friends more often.and try to find a guy to hang with for time being.guys are alot of fun.and im not talking just friend.hi.bye.im saying.more like.wanna be my boyfriend.maybe sex would come up.but keep your stance.remember.the guy wears the pants in the relationship.but u most certainly CONTROL THE zipper.feel me?
And yes to your question. its okay to have sex wth some one you feel you care about. ust as long as you are protected.you will be fine.and i really doubt that this will ruin your reputation.only you can ruin it if you decide to over due FUN.try not to pu all the partyng and friend and boyfriend in front of your reputation. because who knows could go wrong. and please i beg u to not rush into sex like i did.hope i helpes.

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Q: is masturbation different from fingering someone?
or they both the same?

completely the same.

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Q: 17/m

okay, long story short my girlfriend and i want to start having sex again, but the problem is we have absolutely nowhere to go, the car is okay, but its cold outside, (freezing!!) and both our parents are always home. Is there anyone who could think of somewhere we could go, aside from like a hotel or something???? Thank you so much!!

okay, sometimes(it may seem weird)you could ask a friend. And not just any old friend. But some one you really connect too.ask them is there a room you could use. Hang out. you know..really that is all i could tell you.cause your parents are home and the car is just not doing it.hope i helped.

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Q: what's STD and how do you get it?? please don't give me a website about it, but actually tell me about it =p

thanks!!

STD stands for(sexually transmitted diseases)
basically you are having unproteceted sex with some one and they give you a disease.and it passes on to whoever else you have sex with also(unprotected)some can get cured and some cant.and believe me.these diseases are nasty.so be careful when you have sex.the worst i seen so far was syphilis. i mean it is mean. it looks like it is eating up your skin.terribly.i dont know if i spelled it right.but if you really want too.go to google.com type STD's and click images.you will see for yourself.hope i helped.

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Q: having alot hair around vaginal mean can't get climax? and also while i am pregant still can get climax?

well both are no.hair has nothing to do with your climax.and more than likely.alot of pregnant woman will climax more than the average non-pregnant woman.becuase their hormones are going wild.hope i helped.

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Q: 15/f

alright so me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on nov30 and i was suppose to get my period dec4 and i didnt.. and so i took a pregnancy test on new years day and it came out positive.. and then on jan4 i got my period and i had it for 6 days so i know it was my period and so my boyfriend told me to take another one today and i did and it said negative.. so how is that possible do you think the first one i took was just wrong? or do you think i really was pregnant and it just died? but i dont drink or smoke so i dont know how it would die? im just so confused. help? any advice is great

okay well.you say you took a PT before your period.well.you were not supposed too.you supposed to wait and see if u get your period.because if you are in a hurry to take one before your period. there is a big chance you will get a false statement.you need all the hormones and stuff in your period to predict whether you are pregnant.truth be told.you were never pregnant.sometimes it will come out positive.but the second test was right because you actually had your period.hope i helped.and if your not to sure about my info.ask a doctor.or search on google with the wuestion.HOW LONG DO I HAVE TO WAIT IN ORDER TO TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST?.this question also works good on wikianswers.com

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aight girl...i aint trippin off no damn ratings.dont act shitty.you are 15.dont know shit about pregnancy better yet sex at all.if u wanted real info.u needed to see a doctor.bitch i can read.believe me i know exactly what im talking about.feel me?.get your game right.ask a doctor.YOU DONT NEED ADVICE IF U GOIN GIVE A CRUMY ASS FEEDBACK LIKE THAT TO SOME ONE TRYING TO HELP YOUR SILLY ASS...peace.

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Q: What is it called when:

-the guy is completely naked.
-the girls only has her underwear on.
-the guy is on top of the girl.
-the guy's penis is on the girl's vagina.
-the guy really treats it like it were real sex. (he fingers, lick, etc.)

is this really sex? if, so is there a specific name? thanks in advance.

foreplay.something you do before sex.its sex.but not intercourse.feel me?

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Q: Okay, so you know know how Angelina had that whole vial of blood thing? What's the psychology behind it? And why do some people like to physically hurt their lovers, like scratch them, not like beat them or something, like during sex. It's a weird question, I know. But I was just wondering what is the psychology behind it?

Well.truthfully.guys like it.some might tell you to stop.and girls only do it because she is being pleasured the right way and she couldnt help but to dig her nails into him.hope i helped.

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Q: My boyfriend and I have been having terrible sex. When we first started it was amazing...now it sucks. Well do you have any advice to get things a little more interesting? What types of roleplay do you suggest? How is the best way to play out those roleplays? Any other kinky ideas? Please explain the roleplays and other things. Not like complete details, but what I will need and how to start it. Also is there something we can do before sex and roleplaying to know each others bodies better that might help when actually having sex?

well.depending on how you alls body's like to be touched...try for say..kissing around the areas you are most ticklish.it works for me.I get wet every time and aroused like all hell.It will defenitely bring pleasure.If u haven't been bitten before.try it.[ticklish area].it turns u on.have him slap you on your ass, thighs.sometimes, weak sex comes from the lack of how good or badly you actually like your partner.cause sometimes.you will never get aroused.
Roleplay.Might not always work out.But try listening to his fantasies.And act it out.Give it your all.Hope I helped.

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Q: if you are masturbating with your shower head (not like sticking it in there but like using the water and having high pressure) , can that be bad for you?

No.your just pleasuring yourself with water.no harm in that.hope i helped.

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