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this is going to be long and i will need serious answers. okay, so i like these 2 boys. like, i realllyy like them. so anyway. lets call them m and p. so i went out with m before and i really liked him and then it ended , but that was a year ago. and we have classes together and we see eachother and we sometimes hangout and i like him. but i kinda don't really wanna go back to him because i feel that would be a mistake..but i really like him. and then theres p. we've talked all of twice but i get this crazy feeling that i like him so much. and i mean before school i stand with people in which he stands too and i just completely fell for him and i dont understand why. so basically i'm asking two questions:
1. if you were me, who would you choose?
2. if i were not to choose m, the one i dont really wanna go back to, and i chose p, how could i start to talk to him online or kinda build up a friendship. oh, and like how to make it completely unawkward if i just randomly imed him online.
P.S. They are both on the same basketball team? if that helps. could i start a conversation with p about basketball? or would that be weird? (link)
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heyy you said you wanted serious answers so ima be honest..
1. i cant choose for you because its not for me.. and i dont kno what your heart is telling you.. this is your choice.. im just here to help..
2. i think before you make any desions you should get to kno p.. i kno you might want a boyfriend but you dont have to choose either of them.. maybe neither of them are for you..
be true to yourself!if something is telling you that being with m would be a mistake then maybe you shouldnt! just let it be.. dont stress it so much and just let things happen!! let me kno how it goes!
xoxo an
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Ok,...well, There's this kid Ryan, he's like my best guy friend and my ex. He broke up with me because he was busy with baseball and could never see me. Well, when school started, I found out that he was in 3 of my classes.That half of my classes and I go to lunch with him. Anyway a couple of months later, I hooked him up with my 'best friend'. We're just friends now, but we used to be really close. I hooked him up with her, I don't know why. I'm gonna get off track for a sec, but it kind of leads up in a little while. I've always been jealous of Katie, my friend. She's alot prettier and skinner than I am, and guys always like her instead of me. And the guys that I do get, when they break up with me, their next girlfriend is Katie. So I went out with Ryan before Katie did. And this past month, I've relized how much I'm in love with him. I remember all the things we used to do whenever we were little and they're so cute. I told him how I feel and I just wound up getting hurt. He said he didn't feel anything for me, he had this weird feelings for Katie. I asked him why I had this weird feeling for him...I just cried, and I don't know why I love him, I don't want to but I just do! Anything that will help me I'll rate!!!
Sorry it's so long!!!
Thanks in advance
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heyy.. this reminds me soo much of middle school and my old best friend..
i useto be jealous of her but she never knew.. no one did.. but what i later figured out was that i am so much better than her and that there was no reason to be jealous...
plenly of times i tried to set my x with friends..
you kno why.. because i still liked him and i was trying to deny it by showing tat i can set him up with a friend.. but what i thought was that by setting him and my friend up i would forget about him.. the thing is, is that instead it drve me insane.. i was only getting myself stressed and hurt and sad...
look the point is that u still like him and by doing what you did..know ur just hurting urself and it will take time to get over it.. and ull probably make this mistake again.. but the thing is that sometimes it doesnt hurt to think about urself and not others... i bet your friend liked him and told you to hook them up.. right or maybe he asked you.. that right there is showing that they are thinking about themseleves and not you.. so do the same!! i hope i helped a lil.. let me kno how it goes...
xoxo an
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Well here's the thing, my best friend(23) has just recently gotten engaged. She has asked me(19) to be her maid of honor and I have said yes. But come to find out she has been lying to this guy(20) the whole time they've been together. I didn't realize what she's been doing until all of us started to hang out with each other. He's really nice and really loves her. But I don't believe she feels the same about him. She is what you would call a user. If you have something that she could benefit from she attaches to you and try's to get you for all you have. She has cancer and is getting a divorce from her present husband now, there goes her medical, this new guy is in the airforce and is form a family with money, (lots of benefits and can take care of her). My question is, should I tell him about all of her lies, cheating and sneaky ways or just leave the whole thing alone and let him find out for himself. (link)
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i understand you want to help a friend but really this is thier issue and you should stay out of it. sometimes friends wont believe you and just think your trying to get into the middle if thier relationship so just let it go. but i can tell your a great friend and thats really good. xoxo angie
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My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him? (link)
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look if he really respects you he'll let it go if you say no.. he should really understand. i mean would he let you have a threesome with you and another guy..probably not. and if you guys do it and he like it then there will probably be a second time or he would want a second time. but don't feel bad about saying no because your man is suppose to make you feel special and comfortable and he isn't doing that rite now.. well good luck and follow your heart. angie
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Ok.. this guy... i like him so much, hes the reason i wanna get up for school everyday. I want to show him i like him, but im not sure he likes me. He did at the begining of the year but then he said he stopped. I dont wanna ruin our friendship over this, but i dont know if it could turn into something better by somehow showing him i like him a bunch. He always looks at me in class and smiles FORever and we flirt alot but what guy dosnt do that? what do you think? (link)
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hey.. i really think u should step it up.. if u lyk him let him noe.. not just by words but by ur actions.. cuz then lyk u said ull never noe wat could have happened.. n dnt wry about u not being friends.. if u ppl r truly friends ull stay friends n if not then it wasnt meant to be.. but take it slow dnt rush n e thing gud luck xoxo angie
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I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you. (link)
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look honestly u have a problem and u noe u have a problem.. u really need to stop becuz if u think tat cutting urself takes ur problems away ur rong.. it just makes them bigger.. i really think tat the one way u could really stop is to talk to someone get real help to stop u.. n if tat means telling ur parents then tats wat it takes.. im sure u think tat its crazy but im pretty sure ur parents would be happier if u told them and u wanted help rather than see u die.. i hope everything works out 4 u.. xoxo angie
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my boyfriend wont look at me straight when i talk ta him or he will just leave me on hold for a long time when eva im talkn' ta him on tha phone.1 day he asked me was i cheating on him and i told him NO WAY bcuz i would neva eva do a such thing like that but i neva asked him was he cheating on me.cause when i call him he hangs up on me on purpose but when he calls me i do tha same u kno. i kno its wrong but if any1 kno's if thats actually a sign of him cheating, bcuz he makes me cry and wanna hang up on him just pleaze HELP and i will really appreciate if u dont delete this and only gurls will answer this question thanxxxxx
noh hatas
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hey.. u noe wat.. u have to stop assuming and just ask him str8 up wats up wit him.. ask him if hes cheating ask him if he still lyks u and tell him how much he is hurting u.. let him noe.. and if i were u i wouldnt do the same childish things hes doing lyk hangin up the fone.. sho uhim u a grown gurl and tat u can easily drop him for someone tat will treat u better gud luk lemme noe wat happens.. xoxo angie
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Okay so I have this friend and she has a boyfriend and I am his friend a little bit like he talks to me and stuff and he gives me money but I asked him if I could have a sip of his Powerade and he said yes so I took a sip and my friend saw me and she got all mad at me and said that I have been flirting with her boyfriend, and that I like him even though I have my own boyfriend....I sent her a text message saying sorry and I even tried calling her but she won't answer. I need help what should I do (link)
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heyy.. u noe wat i really think tat u should tell her bf to talk to her and tell her tat it really didnt mean n e thing.. n the 1st chance u get tell her tat u werent and y would u do tat if u had a bf.. and she should trust u becuz u wouldnt do tat to her.. gud luk.. xoxo angie
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ok. me and my friend like the same guy and she went out with him last year and like she really likes him that she loves him. and now hes over her and he likes me and wants to go out with me and i kinda like him a little bit but he calls me and like my friend isn't over him yet. so should i go out with him??? 13/f
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first of all sry i didnt answer sooner.. but if u still need the advice.. this is kind of a hard situation.. let me give u an example..
i had 2 best friends S n G ok..G lyked this guy A and he wasnt really sure if he lyked her but she really lyked him alot... then my other friend S saw him and she started lyking him and she told me and i told her tat she couldnt do tat to her because tat was her best friend.. and she was lyk i noe but i lyk him soo much.. and normally she wouldnt have done it but this time she did.. and G didnt really matter becuz if nothing was gonna work out wit A n her then why not?.. and A and S have been together for 2 years now.. but i really think tat u should talk about it to ur friend becuz she should understand.. but remember some friends arent wat they seem to be and they will stab u in the bak when it comes to them making themselves happy.. so sometimes its ok to just think about urself and what u want.. hope everything goes well lemme noe wat happened.. xox angie
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I recently met a guy at school. EVERY SINGLE TIME I see him in the hallway he says hi. And today, he walked me to my bus. Those are the good signals I'm getting from him. But today, he said hi but walked right past me in the hallway-and he wasn't really in a hurry. I would think if he liked me he would talk to me. And today, he didn't sit near me at lunch. I am getting mixed signals! What do you think? (link)
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look u r thinking tooooo much about this.. let it be.. if he says hi and walks u to the bus then yea its possible tat he lyks u.. just becuz hes not in a hurry n doesnt say hi n doesnt sit next to u at lunch doesnt mean he dont lyk u.. maybe it means tat he just wants to hang out wit other ppl.. y dont u just talk to him or write him a note or sumthing n let him noe tat u lyk him n u wanna noe how u feel.. but dnt stress over it cuz ur makin it worse 4 u. gud luk xoxo angie
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I went out with this guy for 9 months, and I was in love. His family had to move so we broke up:( It was really hard but now were good friends and we talk on the phone and on IM. When we were going out, he was really over protective of me and he always kept me safe and all. Now that its over, I flirt with guys a lot and my "friend" told him that. Hes soooo mad at me and I dont know why. He shouldent even be mad because its over!! I just wanna tell him to shut up..but I wont..so what do I say to make him understand that were not going out and he doesnt have to be over protective and all? He even has a gurl-friend and he doesnt see me getting all mad..ugh!! (link)
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the reason hes actin lyk tat becuz its obvious tat he still has feelings for u.. he mite lyk u in the way he useto or he just cares about u.. its a gud thing n u should be happy tat hes bein lyk tat.. i noe it mite bug u but let him noe in a nice way tat u noe he cares and that u appreciate it and dont mind it to a certain point.. im pretty sure hell get the point.. gud luk.. xoxo angie
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I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation? (link)
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honestly its hard bein in a relationship wen ones far away.. but if its meant to be then ull b together.. but if he said hell propose den tats koo.. den he really luvs u.. dnt lyk run away n get married lyk be engaged 4 a while till ur ready to get married.. dnt stress it soo much now.. its better to wait till the moment comes n see wat happens gud luk xoxo angie
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I've had my period since i was 10. meaning it should be on a regular cycle by now. DONT TELL ME THAT ITS NORMAL, because i've had it for five years. and just this year it started becoming irregular. like i'd get it every 21 days, sometimes 19 days and sometimes every 2 WEEKS. i get it way too soon. well my mom asked her gyno and he said well thats normal for it to be irregular but if it gets worse we can do something about it.
so my question is, i heard they put you on birth control? fine. but why birth control? what does birth control do. because i'm a catholic and i kind of dont believe in birth control but i guess if it's needed for my period then its okay. someone explain what birth control does. (link)
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well ive had ma peiod 4 6 yrs now.. n its not regular watso ever.. i may get it in 2 weeks or even 9 months.. i went to the doctor n they were gonna put me on birth control.. but then ma other doctor said tat it was best to start on other pills.. so i started takin the pills every month from the 20th-29th and it makes u get ur period every month on the rite day.. its lyk a cycle and it makes u have ur perios regularly.. so i donno but alot of ppl gp thru tat.. gud luk xoxo angie
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All my friend has been doing lately is complaining. Not to be stuck up or anything but things are going a little better for me than they are for her lately and shes tryen to bring me down with her so we can share being upset all the time . On the fone she doesnt stop complaining I just want to hang up on her. I dont want to be rude to her about this but im just so sick of listening to her complain. PLEASE help! (link)
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i noe how u feel.. i useto think tat all ma friend useto do was complain complain n complain sum more.. but guess wat... shes a friend and tats wat friends do. they go to eachother and ask 4 advice and want u to comfort and support them. u mite not realize it now cuz i didnt then but ull realize it sum day.. gud luk angie
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theres this guy that i have a major crush on, and i've known him forever (since i was 4) and we went out when i was 9 and he was 10, but then when i turned 10 me and him got into a silly argument and i broke up with him. after that i haden't seen him or talked to him for 3 years. but he lives 2 houses over from me. =/ i recently started high school, and he takes the same bus as me to school every day, and i see him often in the halls. i really like him again and i have no problem talking to him, but i want to tell him that i still care, and that i'm still here. please help because i have no idea how to bring that convo. about because idk how he feels. =/ (link)
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heyy.. i think tats really cute.. but honestly i think u should start off by writing him a note. in the note tell him exactly how u feel and wat u want. maybe he'll say it didnt work once so y would it work this time.. n if he does let him noe u were kids and that uve grown up. but u should let him noe and see how he feels as well.. and go on from there.. but u never noe wat culd happen so i suggest u just go 4 it. gud luk n let me noe how it goes.. angie
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This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!! (link)
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well i think u should tell him and u should always b honest wit him.. especially since u think tat ull marry him.. but let me remind u.. every single bf i had i thought i was gonna marry n we were only together for weeks or months.. n u've only been wit this kid 4 4 days.. so dont really rush into n e thing.. but they could b lying but wat i learned from my current bf is tat u shouldnt believe wat ppl tell u.. becuz ppl always talk syt and wanna butt into ur relationship.. trust ur bf.. n talk to him! tell him wats up n tell him hoiw u feel.. ask him if wat u heard is tru n to tell u the truth! well gud luk xoxo angie
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OKay i really like this guy .. i mean like i love him n he loves me..! I just got out of this whole real love relationship n i truely loved him but i got hurt a bunch of times within that relatinship so he dumped me! Then this guy i like was going out with my best friend so my best friend dumped him n went out with my ex i was talking bout.. so now i like her ex! [[i know its confusing but try to help]] but see i dont wanna go out with him n hurt her like she hurt me.. but i like him alot! WHAT DO I DO! I RATE HIGH! (link)
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look honestly if she didnt think about u n ur feelings well den dont think about her n her feelings.. i dnt wanna be mean n stuff but really.. in ur lyf ull realize if u havent already tat ull have lots of friends tat really rnt n i think this is one of them.. but in ur lyf u gotta think about u n want u want.. dnt let things pass u by just b cuz of other ppl.. so if u lyk him n u wanna b wit him then go ahead! gud luk xoxo angie
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ok, im a 17 yr old female, and i have been "seeing" this guy. not really dating, because he doesnt think he's "boyfriend material" i dont understand this, but i know he cares about me the same way i care about him.
i wrote him a 3 page long letter telling him how i felt. he told me he liked it and he reads it often.
we hang out alot (many times for 10 or more hours or untill like 1 am!) and every time, we hold hands and cuddle and hold each other close the whole time, even around our parents. my family loves him and his family thinks i am just the sweetest thing to walk the planet.
but...alwayz a but...he and i have dated before. and he ask me out both times. so now i think it is my turn to ask him out, to show him how much i care. but, i dont want to scare him off.
so i ask you guyz, does a girl askign a guy out kind of freak him out, or do they like it? and i also would like to know if anyone has any ideas what he meant by "i dont think i'm boyfriend material". please help me out! (link)
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well i once asked a guy out and he said no n it looked lyk if he was really scared.. and i never did it again.. but maybe hes different! i donno maybe he thinks tat hes not a gud enough boifriend 4 u or maybe he's not ready 4 a gf.. ask him.. n ull get ur answer.. gud luk xoxo angie
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months.... and we met at church camp where i asked jesus into my heart for the first time.. and that totally changed my life.. but then when we got home all reality came back.. i had used to be really bad.. such as have sex and drink... and well now i stopped all that and my boyfriend is really religious... and he found out about all that and he told me that when you ask jesus into your heart the first time all your sins from that past are forgiven... and he told me he loves me for who i am now and my past doesnt matter to him.... but now.... we were like in my pool and he get touchy feely.. and im not like that anymore.. we still didnt do anything or anthing. .but it scares me cuz i think that he might try to do something i dont want to.... and also... people sign his buddy profile guest boook telling him lies about me haveing sex with a 21 year old and stuff like that... and he still worries.. and ill tel lhim they arnt true.. but it still bothers him.. i dont know what to do... and my parents are leaving for a week and ofcourse me n him are ganna hang out... i just dont wanna do anything that we will regret... and i dont know how to tell him that without embarrasing him.... please help me!!!!! (link)
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well 1st i wanna say tat its awesome how u changed ur life and how u accepted Jesus into ur heart.. well 1st just bcuz ur both religious and all doesnt mean u cant b affectionate.. it doesnt mean u have to have sex but being touchy feely n all isnt bad.. but if it bothers u be honest wit him and tell him how u feel and im pretty sure he'll understand since he noes ur past.. but make sure u let him noe tat ppl talk syt.. n if ur gonna b in a relationship tat it should b based on trust n honesty.. tell him to trust u and not to believe wat other ppl say.. but just leave it all in the hands of God n he'll do wats rite! gud luk.. xoxo angie
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my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean?? (link)
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when ur eye twiches tat means ur under stress.. so i guess u should just try relaxing!
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