Ok,...well, There's this kid Ryan, he's like my best guy friend and my ex. He broke up with me because he was busy with baseball and could never see me. Well, when school started, I found out that he was in 3 of my classes.That half of my classes and I go to lunch with him. Anyway a couple of months later, I hooked him up with my 'best friend'. We're just friends now, but we used to be really close. I hooked him up with her, I don't know why. I'm gonna get off track for a sec, but it kind of leads up in a little while. I've always been jealous of Katie, my friend. She's alot prettier and skinner than I am, and guys always like her instead of me. And the guys that I do get, when they break up with me, their next girlfriend is Katie. So I went out with Ryan before Katie did. And this past month, I've relized how much I'm in love with him. I remember all the things we used to do whenever we were little and they're so cute. I told him how I feel and I just wound up getting hurt. He said he didn't feel anything for me, he had this weird feelings for Katie. I asked him why I had this weird feeling for him...I just cried, and I don't know why I love him, I don't want to but I just do! Anything that will help me I'll rate!!!
Sorry it's so long!!!
Thanks in advance
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? angita answered Monday December 26 2005, 11:15 pm: heyy.. this reminds me soo much of middle school and my old best friend..
i useto be jealous of her but she never knew.. no one did.. but what i later figured out was that i am so much better than her and that there was no reason to be jealous...
plenly of times i tried to set my x with friends..
you kno why.. because i still liked him and i was trying to deny it by showing tat i can set him up with a friend.. but what i thought was that by setting him and my friend up i would forget about him.. the thing is, is that instead it drve me insane.. i was only getting myself stressed and hurt and sad...
look the point is that u still like him and by doing what you did..know ur just hurting urself and it will take time to get over it.. and ull probably make this mistake again.. but the thing is that sometimes it doesnt hurt to think about urself and not others... i bet your friend liked him and told you to hook them up.. right or maybe he asked you.. that right there is showing that they are thinking about themseleves and not you.. so do the same!! i hope i helped a lil.. let me kno how it goes...
SWEETXLOVE answered Monday December 26 2005, 10:55 pm: im so sorry sweetheart! well im not quite sure what your question is but i think its what should you do about ryan and your feelings for him? well i think that if your really in love with him..then you should try and wait a bit..and see what happens with him..if nothing happens you just have to move on! go out and meet other people..there is that one guy out there that is waiting for you..go find him! plus you said how your friend katie was so much prettier and skinny..well sweetie looks dont always matter..yeah guys can be total jerks and just go for the looks..but that one guy out there..is gonna love you for who you are and not what you look like! just go out and have fun, go to the mall or movies and meet some new hotties lOl. you'll find the right one, trust me! well hope i helped
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xOViLLYxO answered Monday December 26 2005, 10:51 pm: hey aw i had this happen to me before its like you dont want feelings for him but you still have them no matter how hard you try well that means you like him alot but now since he has a gf you cant do much about but wait and it could take a while so as crazy as this sounds just give up on him.dont be jelous of your friend because im sure your really pretty but you just dont think you are but honestly all girls think that about there friends so just move on i know it sounds crazy but its the best thing to do ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
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