I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
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Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
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i've had my period from the beginning of July up until now (16thh.) i've had it for 3 years, so its not like it still could be irregular. what could be wrong with me? its so annoying having it all the time so can someone help mee ! thanks. (link)
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No. I've had mine since 2001 and its still irregular. So you never know. If you go on birth control it does wonders for your period.
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I dont know wat I should do. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 and for his friends 18th birthday he is inviting all his close friends to his party at a stripclub, and my boyfriend is invited. I first heard about this when I was on my boyfriends myspace. My boyfriend go an invite and had told another friend that he should come as well. I didnt think i should ask about it so I just kinda decided to wait to see if hed bring it up with me at least. A few days later he told me that his friends wanted him to go but he knew that I wouldnt want him to so he wasnt going. But he also told me that his friends were trying to convince him to go and just not tell me anything about it. Im glad he told me and Im even more glad that he said that he wasnt going to even if I gave him permission, but Im still a little nervous. I know he wont hook up with girls there, and I trust him but Im worried hes going to go behind my back. I heard from a friend of his that he had told them he was going. What should I do? Do i confront him? I really dont want him to go but I dont want to be unreasonable. I dont think its right if we r in a committed relationship and hes out looking at other girls... Am I overreacting?
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No. Strip clubs are demeaning to women. And if he is truly your boyfriend, he should understand that strip clubs aren't okay. You're not over reacting. Don't give him an ultimateum or anything, but definately let him know that it sure would hurt you if he did go.
Add a little ps of if he's going to watch naked women for fun, you want a stack of porn up to your eyes. If he can watch naked women dance, you don't see the harm in a bunch of pictures of naked men. Even if you don't want them, it will sure open his eyes to how wrong he's being.
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hey i was wondering if it was nomal for me to wt=rite songs at my age we'll just say(11-13) lemme know (link)
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Its not normal, but its excellent!
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Me and my mom made a dealy bribe about the PSAT; I read a big book on it and take a practice test, and I could get somethin special. She had been really adamant about not getting a second hole before (I'm 13), and this is the first time shes actually said that I could (I've done a bunch of bribes before that she held out on.) But also, she said, instead that I could get a new, fancy schmancy cell phone instead of a second hole, maybe even she would split the price on a laptop! (But that would be all my $$.) What should I do? lol
-Bribe schmibe (link)
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Am not quite sure i see the problem. get what you want most. YOUR MOM IS OFFERING YOU FREE STUFF! cash in damn it!
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EVERYONE i know always says that your first love will always stay in your heart no matter what, etc.. Do you guys think this is true? Even after a year or longer after breaking up and gotten with new ppl and not talking at all, you think that those feelings for your first love are still there? (link)
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i think its harder for guys to fall in love, so there for, maybe he broke up because he wasn't in love.
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if someone reports another person, will the person being reported know the username of the person reporting them? sorry if confusing! (link)
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i don't think so.
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I have this friend and me and her decided to try a new style for christmas and summer.its kinda 80ish.We want to cut pantyhose knee length and wear a cute abercrombie skirt over it.This is for summer by the way. But then we want to wear a colorful tanktop. For shoes we want flipflops or converse. Can anyone tell me if this sounds cute? (link)
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sounds great, i'm sure it will catch on! Have fun, thats what's important!
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What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance! (link)
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VIDEO GAMES. Bored games, uh, sports (like basketball, baseball, stuff out side, i dunno). Hmm, theres are sorts of things you could do. take a nap or something.
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13/f. I have this friend. We've been friends for two years already. Well, he's nice a lot. We make jokes and all. But other times he makes me upset. He talks badly about my friends. He also always comments on my profile on AIM. He tells me somehow how I'm wrong in what I put, or how it's dumb. He promises time and time again to keep my crushes a secret, but tells them anyway. Half of our grade finds out and soon enough I'm a laughing stock. I no longer tell him but sometimes when he's nice I do it anyway. In person he's got a really great personality. We used to date in 6th grade and he was the sweetest guy. When we broke up he talked about all the things I didn't do perfectly when we were going out. He makes me upset basically just online. So what do I do? (link)
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block him.
No really, just block him. Like seriously, if he's really upsetting you that much, just tell him to take a hike and leave you alone because when you talk to him.
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Okay I have this guy friend who is one if my best friend's boyfriend and i was talking to her today. She said she wanted to dump him and said she wants to be single again. I know he will be heartbroken. How do I help him through his hard times without completely dumping one of my best girlfriend's? (link)
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Don't say anything about her. Just be there for him when he needs you. Stay friends with both of them. You can poke fun at each of them (if thats what you normally did, i know i did), but nothing like flat out mean.
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I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please! (link)
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well, if you have a younger sibling, then offer to his/her new friends parents your baby sitting serveses.
hang posters in elementary schools, or like local preschools and places like that.
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how do i tell someone that is cutting themselves that what they are doing is very dangerous, without a confrontation? (link)
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tell them how much you love them, and that you hate seeing them in pain and hurting themselves. Tell them that you will do anything it takes to make them better (but you have to stick to that. you can't just make that an empty promise) and that you will get them help. Make it clear that they're not just hurting themselves, but they're hurting everyone they love.
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So I'm 16 and I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I have alot of guy friends but they are all what it sounds like "guy" friends not boyfriends. I'm not a tombboy or whatever..Am I missing something here. (link)
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You don't want to be kissing guy friends anyway. Kiss the guy that makes u feel special. Date some one that you really care about and kiss them. You don't want to rush it, because your first kiss is something you'll remember forever and ever, and you want it to be special.
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i have an older laptop, i just got it its somewhere from '85 to '92 and I accidently deleted some files and now it wont even let me get on the computer. it wont let me get to microsoft windows. how do I get on there and undelete the files if possible? it keeps saying error.... (link)
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reinstal windows.
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my garbage cans do not fit under my sink in the kitchen, so we leave them to the side. What are some good things tht I can do to them to 'hide' them, because they look really ugly just standing out in the open. I want to make them look nicer. Thanks! (link)
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paint them really nicely to match your cabinates and stuff. people will think they're just part of the kitchen if you get a lid painted for them as well.
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Say you like a girl and you know she likes you. You've hooked up once or twice and promised to call her so that you can arrange a proper date. How soon should you call/meet/talk to to arrange this date? (link)
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a couple days, not the same day though, cuz that seems desperate. Make it so she's wicked excited about this date by making her wait just a little bit.
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I'm taking fencing right now and at the begining of each practice we have to run 10 laps around the gym, forwards, backwards, cross overs, knees up, feet up. I have physical induced asthma and I'm having trouble breathing while I'm running. My mom is going to my doctor to get my inhaler but that's on Wednesday. I have practice on Monday- Friday so on Monday and Tuesday and maybe on Wednesday I won't have my inhaler. I'm confused as to whether I should tell my coach about it and sit out when we run or just suck it up and run. We've had two practices so far and I've had to suck it up and run but I felt like I was going to pass out. I was lightheaded, nautious and breathing really heavy. Should I talk to my coach and see if he lets me sit it out just for these couple of days until I get my inhaler? I don't want people to think I'm a lazy bitch and not want to run though. Can anyone help? (link)
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Coaches are really really cool about stuff like that. They want to do whats best for there players at all time. As long as you try hard, and explain that your prescription or whatever it is won't be avalible untill at the earliest Wednesday, he should be totally fine with it.
Don't worry about what people think. Just cough alot if your really that worried about it. And on Wednesday, kick there asses in the laps, and they'll realize that you were just unable to do it Mon and Tues.
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hey ok i have a cold sore on my lip from making out and its not rally big yet its just starting and i hate having it on my lip cuz it looks weird does anybody know how i can get rid of it before it gets big? and how long do they take to go awya? help plz! (link)
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Ok, it looks really gross, but i get coldsores all the time (not from making out) from the cold weather up here. I use this litte white like squeeze tube with the name Blistex on it in blue letters. It might come in like a red box or something. Its like the best thing in the world!!
Whatever you do . . . DON'T USE AQUAFINA!!! it will only make the problem worse.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years... and in this 3 years I have always bought the birth control pills and condoms (i know about prescription plans but i couldnt get one until like now) I have always tried to get him to buy or help pay for it but he never does, or always forgets just recently i told him he was going to pay for the next batch of birth control pills i was buying and he got all mad, and said i should pay for it? Is that fair? I think since it is for both of us we both should pay and seeing how i have paid PLENTY of money that he should put in some money? What should I do to help him understand? (link)
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no. don't have sex with him unless he pays up. Just be like, oh sorry baby, i ran out of pills rubbers and money. Guess we can't have sex . . .
That'll change things very VERY quickly.
Good luck.
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Alright this is kind of weird... but i mean i want to know if this just happens to me. Alright when i masturbate i do it for a while and what not, but like after a while it gets really tender and i'm not turned on anymore and i get this pulse feeling down there. and my boyfriend has like rubbed down there and it happened. Does that mean i orgasmed? Or what is it? Sorry that sounds SO dumb but I have no idea. Is it just me?! help people! does this happen to you? (link)
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sorry, i don't do that.
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