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ohh mann
this is going to be long and i will need serious answers. okay, so i like these 2 boys. like, i realllyy like them. so anyway. lets call them m and p. so i went out with m before and i really liked him and then it ended , but that was a year ago. and we have classes together and we see eachother and we sometimes hangout and i like him. but i kinda don't really wanna go back to him because i feel that would be a mistake..but i really like him. and then theres p. we've talked all of twice but i get this crazy feeling that i like him so much. and i mean before school i stand with people in which he stands too and i just completely fell for him and i dont understand why. so basically i'm asking two questions:
1. if you were me, who would you choose?
2. if i were not to choose m, the one i dont really wanna go back to, and i chose p, how could i start to talk to him online or kinda build up a friendship. oh, and like how to make it completely unawkward if i just randomly imed him online.
P.S. They are both on the same basketball team? if that helps. could i start a conversation with p about basketball? or would that be weird?
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i get where your coming from! well what i would do is if you dont want to go back out with "m" again, then try and talk to "p" more! since you've talked to him already, even if it has only been two times at least he knows who you are! try talking to him at school, or if you want to i/m him..just be like hi this is ___ whats goin on? i havent talked to you in awhile..how have things been? then you can start talking about basketball..lOl guys always love talking about sports..even if its not the girls favorite subject. well anyways i would try and talk to "p" more then after you've talked to him for awhile be like yeah we should hang out sometime..call me! also you could have a party and maybe invite one of his friends that you know and tell them to bring "p" and then you guys could start talking at the party! well if you need anything else just leave one in the inbox!
♥ Kristen
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heyy you said you wanted serious answers so ima be honest..
1. i cant choose for you because its not for me.. and i dont kno what your heart is telling you.. this is your choice.. im just here to help..
2. i think before you make any desions you should get to kno p.. i kno you might want a boyfriend but you dont have to choose either of them.. maybe neither of them are for you..
be true to yourself!if something is telling you that being with m would be a mistake then maybe you shouldnt! just let it be.. dont stress it so much and just let things happen!! let me kno how it goes!
xoxo an
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if i was you then i would choose P i think that you should start out new. Stay friends with M. Start to build a friendship with p. When you stand with that group stand next to him talk about basketball but dont start to get to obsessed with it because it might sound to him like you are weird.
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