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I have two cats, one full grown and one almost full grown. Ive raised them together in my own apartment since they were both kittens, and they are bad. I try to train them and discipline them but they are just bad cats. They claw everything, jump in the windows and mess up my blinds, knock over cups containing drinks that stain, and jump up on counters and tables. I love these cats, but with all the damage they are causing, I don't know if I can keep them. I don't want to get rid of them. Someone said that getting them fixed calms them down, but is that true? What can I do to make my cats calm down and be good? Ive grown up with cats all my life, and this is the first time Ive had a discipline problem. (link)
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yes getting them fixed does calm them down my six month old got fixed and he is pretty calemed down
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I want to start babysitting, but i don't know anyone who is willing enough to let me.
I need some money to save up for something.
My Cousin is due in 2 weeks!! When her baby is older, should i help her?
-needs some money (link)
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yeah look into helping her but on your block hand out some flyers to people you know of with babies but let the people no you are responsible!!
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My dogs just chased a Ups man (lol) and he ran for his life. I got my dogs calmed down and I told him I was very sorry. But what can I do to prevent this in the future? I have 2 House Dogs (that stay outside!) and 1 other 'old' dog that bit a boy one time. So what Can I do?? Thanks! (link)
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its good you got them calmed down i think that you should maybe consider obedience scholl if they do that they need to learn that that is not good and i also think that you should keep an eye on them to make sure tey dont do anything bad i mean in obedience school they will learn the commands and if you think that they will do something bad just say a command and they will hopefully listen to you! happy new year by the way well almost
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Okay well i have 2 dwarf hamsters. male and female. i have to do a project on them at school but i need more info. do you know of anything. thanx for the help (link)
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i think you should look at the patterns of what they do and how they do it or do some kind of report and see how the female is different from the male and see what they do differently and maybe what they do that same or search google for hamster projects or something
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Ok, well I came home from school today and found my cat behind one of our landscaping trees, so I called his name, and he kind of looked up, but didn't come, which was REALLY unusual, so I knew something was wrong. Well, I took him inside, and kind of checked him out, to see if he was ok. I think I found what's wrong: in his right ear, I can see a little blood, and there's also a bit of dried blood below his ears on his fur. When I tried to touch it, he flinched, but when I touched his other ear, he was fine. So I'm pretty sure it's his ear. But he won't eat or move much at all. Right now, he's behind the rocking chair in the corner, not really moving. I'm scared, because I've had him for about 9 years, and I recently lost a dog who was only 7, and I can't bear to lose my other pet. I'm thinking he either got in a fight or got attacked by another animal. (he's an outdoor cat). My question is, does anyone know what's wrong with him? Is it really bad that he hurt his ear? I'm taking my dog to the vet tomorrow to get her sutures (sp?) removed, should I take my cat too? I tried calling both my parents, but they didn't answer. I'm really scared, what should I do? Please help me. (link)
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Ok i would think he did get hurt by another animal i think it is bad but i am not sure go bring your cat with your dog because soemthing bad might have ahppened and the vet is going to have to look at it i say call and tell them that you are bringing your dog in and was wondering if the vet could also take a look at your cats ear because it seems like it hurts him when i touch it because i found blood in his ear and on his fur but his other ear is fine. Just say if you cant fit me in with my cat while i have my dog do you have any suggestions to what i should do to help my cat i do not want to hurt him but i really dont want him to suffer anymore through his ear problem i think it is something where he got hurt by another animal but i am not sure
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My boyfriend just called me after he got back from hunting (we also talked at 5 AM this morning) and something was wrong so I asked him what it was and he said he had just had to shoot his dog. Because his dad ran over him with the truck (accidentally) and he had a broken back. You can tell my boyfriend is really upset, and I wanna say something to make him feel better if he's still appears upset about it later. He told me about it when he called then said he was going to go to bed (tired from hunting all morning.)
Any advice? I WILL RATE! (link)
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just tell your boyfriend that it is very painful when something like that happens but he has to keep it in the back of his mind not forgetting it his happened to my cat we had to put him to sleep i still have him in my mind but i dont get upset over it now but never forget the pets!!
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I have two 1 year (and maybe older) cats. One's a Boy and another is a Girl. They Fight everytime they see each other. So we have to separate them. Like one Will Be In one room with the door closed and another will be in another room! What Can I Do to Make Them Stop!?!? (link)
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I say dont do anything i have two cats to and they fight but they are soon going to get used to each other if you ask your vet what to do he will say to let them do it but if it becomes to hard-core fights then i would say find out what is going on they might not even like each other and maybe if this is true then you should keep them away for as long as you can until they get the hint that they will have to live with each other.
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16/f
I have alot of stuff on my mind lately. A little over a month ago, me and this guy (we'll call him Ed) broke up. We were together for 5 months. They were best 5 months of my life, but at the same time the worst. I've tried for a whole month to get over him and move on. I was "talking" to this other guy (we'll call him Bob). Four days ago, I had sex with him. Now it turns out, at the same he was "talking" to me, he was "talking" to two other girls. Now, this other guy (we'll call him George) wants to go out with me and I think I may have led him on. Not purposely. See, i thought I was finally ready for "commitment"..an actual boyfriend. But I'm not. I just want to have fun. I'm almost positive I'm in love with Ed, and I'm never going to forget Bob. I need to stop hanging out with Bob because he's been lying to me. But I can't, it's like I'm addicted to him. I have feelings for him but in a different way. It's like I just want us to be "friends with benefits". Tonight, George is supposed to come over but I'd rather sit at home alone and think about everything. So I have to tell him I don't want a boyfriend. I need advice (obviously). What should I do about Ed? Should I stop hanging out with Bob or just talk to him about it? How do I tell George I don't want to be with him, or anyone..for a long time? If someone could give me their AIM screen name, that'd be appreciated. I need someone, other than my friends, to talk to. (link)
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ok listen i would definitly move on just talk to both of them tell them you are not ready to have a boyfriend yo thought you were commited to having one but unfortunately your not and tell ed that when you guys broke up you couldnt get him off your mind but tell him that doesnt mean you still have him on your mind you just want to be friend with both of them. Try that and let me no how it works
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hey ok well here's the deal...my mom will let me go out with friends no problem. but whenever i m going w/ just a guy FRIEND she like makes sure a million times we are JUST FRIENDS. and we are. so no problem right?? but heres the Problem; she'll let me have boyfriends but she won't let me go out anywhere with them! whats the point of having a b/f if i can't go anywhere with them? how can i get her to lighten up and let me go out with a guy who is a little more than a friend????????? HELP!!! -and please dont say sneak around her i'd feel really guilty!- (link)
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of course i would never sneak. I am going to tell you to talk to her i mean tell her she really needs to lighten up. But dont be mean say it in a nice way
TRY THAT
~advice girl
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26/m
i don't know what to expect from this but here goes.
everytime i really start liking a woman i always end up being "like a brother", this last time seemed to have taken the life out of me to the point where i start feeling resentfull towards woman and sociaty in general.
I really want a girlfriend, and always try to be just myself, but nobody seems interested, EVER. i've never had a girlfriend, i really can't believe that i'm such a big loser.
I really don't know what to do anymore :( (link)
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Listen just keep being yourself and girls like the sweet guy but dont throw yourself towards them. They wouldnt like that.
-Advice lady
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this is going to be long and i will need serious answers. okay, so i like these 2 boys. like, i realllyy like them. so anyway. lets call them m and p. so i went out with m before and i really liked him and then it ended , but that was a year ago. and we have classes together and we see eachother and we sometimes hangout and i like him. but i kinda don't really wanna go back to him because i feel that would be a mistake..but i really like him. and then theres p. we've talked all of twice but i get this crazy feeling that i like him so much. and i mean before school i stand with people in which he stands too and i just completely fell for him and i dont understand why. so basically i'm asking two questions:
1. if you were me, who would you choose?
2. if i were not to choose m, the one i dont really wanna go back to, and i chose p, how could i start to talk to him online or kinda build up a friendship. oh, and like how to make it completely unawkward if i just randomly imed him online.
P.S. They are both on the same basketball team? if that helps. could i start a conversation with p about basketball? or would that be weird? (link)
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if i was you then i would choose P i think that you should start out new. Stay friends with M. Start to build a friendship with p. When you stand with that group stand next to him talk about basketball but dont start to get to obsessed with it because it might sound to him like you are weird.
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Alright so I know people ask this a lot but hey help me out too. So there's this guy who we can call Joe and we were both at a party last night. Well I got really tired so I decided to go lie on the couch and he was there so I used his arm for a pillow. Well, I gradually got more comfortable and so did he and he had his hand on my stomach and he was playing with my arm all cute and stuff and we were holding hands (with the one that was on my stomach) and everytime hed get up hed come back and get in the same position again. We're friends and that's just not how our friendship is like if I give him a hug in the hall hes like "Oh hey Susan." and its just a brief hug. Do you guys think he likes me as more than a friend? I think I like him as more than one so I don't want to get my hopes up.
Thanks
PS when I was asleep on him he whispered to my friend and asked her if I liked him if that means anything (link)
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That could mean something. ASk him to go to like the movies or something with you go on a few dates and that could soon turn into something more than being JUST FRIENDS!!
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okay. 15/f. so ive been in a tangle of relationships latel. my boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me less than 2 weeks ago. so just last weekend i thought okay. im getting over you so im going to go out and have some fun. well. he did the same thing. i didnt care at all but he called up one of my friends all mad bc i was out with another guy. i explained to him he cant tie me down nemore bc we arent dating. well get got mad at me. so then this tuesday he got a new girlfriend. againg. i dont even care. and hes trying to make me jealous!! because i was with the other guy. is there anyother weay i can tell him im not going to get jealous of him and his new girfriend and he cant get mad at me for being with another guy, because ive tryed talking to him and ignoring hiom. but it didnt work. AND hes been spreading rumors about me. and its making me hate him. ive tried being nice but its not working.(he thinks im trying to get on him when im nice) ive tryed ignoring him. but he just gets mad. ive tryed being mean back but then he spreads rumors. and tells people everything ive told him. SO IM JUST SICK OF IT AND DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT ALL THE DRAMA HES CAUSING.
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Well it is very good that you are not jealous. That is definitely the mature thing to do. I think you should go up to his girlfriend, and i think you should ask her to talk to him. Tell her what he is doing see what she can do about it if there is nothing she can do let me no. I will give you some more advice.
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i have this amazing boyfriend who i love talking on the phone with for hours and i love him now i no this is going to sound shallow but whenever i see him i think ew how ugly cause he got pimples should i break up with him or what i need help cause i am seeing him in like 2 weeks 13/f >3 (link)
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well i no this might not help but just go with your instincts i mean if he is ugly with the pimples and you dont think he is attractive then break up with him..
TRY THAT
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last night i talked the guy i like. he likes me. we have a dance coming up. he asked me to it. so were going. im so excited. we have been best friends for the longest time. he is so funny. last night we talked about how much we want to be together, and how much he likes me. then he told me that he wanted me to be his first. and i didtn say it back but i feel the same way. how can i tell him htat. without sounding weird
ill rate high for helpful answers. bye
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i think just be honest with him i mean if he can be honest with you then you need to be an honest person with him!
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Okay so theres this guy(we'll call him M.S)....and i really REALLY like him, like he's all i think about. But i don't think he likes me. I mean i told him n he didn't really say n e thing but if he liked me he would have done somethin right? Well, a couple of days ago i found out that this other guy liked me (we'll call him C.C)Well me n C.C are pretty good friends n we hang out n the classes we have together, but i don't kno if i really see him as a friend. People say that I should give him a chance n stuff n i really don't wanna hurt his feelings but i just can't get over the other guy. What do i do?
~Helpless~ (link)
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Well I suggest you choose neither because then its just heartack for one guy and guess what HEARTACK FOR YOU!! you cant go through that and if the other guy really likes you he should tell you just go with neither find someone that is really commited to love!! There is no real cure for true love!
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Okay.....how do you get over a guy you really like? Do you go out with someone else to get ur mind off him? Or do you just let things be n see what happens? Help Please!! (link)
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i think you shouldnt get another guy then you might think that the guy you liked likes you and he might be jealous so i suggest not getting another guy theres no real cure for true love!
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im 16/f and i met this guy during my summer job. and up till this day ive been thinking about him none stop. before my job ended i gave him my number, well sort of. im not going to get into major detail but basically he got my number but he might of gotten the impression that i didnt want him to have it. but now somebody gave me his email address and i dont know if i should email him because i keep thinking if he wanted to talk to me he would call but he hasnt yet. but then again hes a great guy and i dont want to loose touch of him. we liked eachother through the summer but never hooked up because hes like 8 years older than me. so should i email him or just leave it alone?? thanks yall i'll rate high! (link)
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In my opinion, i say go for it and dont go for it. I say go for it because it could be a good experience. But the reason i say dont go for it is because if he is much older then you then you dont want to waste your time on trying to get a guy that might not have even wanted you.
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So; I'm gonna try and make this short but its kind of a long story. So I've liked this guy since the beginning of the year and i havent really talked to him much. Well my friend rides his bus and was talking to him one day about the upcoming dance. She asked him if he liked anybody and he said no, so she told him she knew of someone who liked him. Somehow his friend Chris found out and told him and I didnt know any of this until the next day. The next afternoon when my friend was riding the bus she was like so you know who likes you? and hes like yeah. and shes like well do you like her and hes like I dont really know her. Than like a week later once I had made up my mind that I didnt like him anymore, she asked him again. And he replied.. I dont really know her. Its kind of awkward now knowing that he knows I like him, otherwise I would start a conversation with him. But I've been noticing lately that he pays more attention to me. Maybe he wants to find out what I'm like but hes too shy to talk to me too? (he doesnt talk much) I dont know. Then there's another boy whom I sort of like. He's a grade younger than me so I don't see him much in school but when I do he always picks on me and I usually talk to him online. He used to be really easy, if you know what I mean, like like any girl who likes him so I thought it would be pretty easy. But than I realized I wanted him to actually like me or not like me at all.. but hes not like that anymore. I just don't know how to get him to notice me like that esp. since hes like some of my friends in the past =/ (link)
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i say just be yourself and i am sure one day he will come to his senses and like you back! you need to have some confidence in yourself. One day you will find the right guy and you will forget about all the other guys and only think about HIM.
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What do people mean when they say "opposites attract"? Is this statement true? (link)
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yes it is true because if you are exactly the same its not going to work out! opposites attract because you dont know about each other and they will attract because they will want to no more
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