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Stuck and Confused.
16/f
I have alot of stuff on my mind lately. A little over a month ago, me and this guy (we'll call him Ed) broke up. We were together for 5 months. They were best 5 months of my life, but at the same time the worst. I've tried for a whole month to get over him and move on. I was "talking" to this other guy (we'll call him Bob). Four days ago, I had sex with him. Now it turns out, at the same he was "talking" to me, he was "talking" to two other girls. Now, this other guy (we'll call him George) wants to go out with me and I think I may have led him on. Not purposely. See, i thought I was finally ready for "commitment"..an actual boyfriend. But I'm not. I just want to have fun. I'm almost positive I'm in love with Ed, and I'm never going to forget Bob. I need to stop hanging out with Bob because he's been lying to me. But I can't, it's like I'm addicted to him. I have feelings for him but in a different way. It's like I just want us to be "friends with benefits". Tonight, George is supposed to come over but I'd rather sit at home alone and think about everything. So I have to tell him I don't want a boyfriend. I need advice (obviously). What should I do about Ed? Should I stop hanging out with Bob or just talk to him about it? How do I tell George I don't want to be with him, or anyone..for a long time? If someone could give me their AIM screen name, that'd be appreciated. I need someone, other than my friends, to talk to.
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ok girl you shouldnt have to choose you can deal with a boyfriend youre on time and nobody should rush you
if you still have feelings for ed then talk to him because he might feel the same way too but if you dont want to embarrass yourself if he doesnt feel the same way then just try to be good friends with him before you let him know
dont keep letting bob use you like that dont let him sleep with you and then talk to other girls making love should be sweet and special not something that he does to get over somebody (not trying to be really mean) but you gotta let him be your friend because you dont wanna get hurt
trying talking to george and see where he is in the picture and in your heart
hope i helped
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the easiest and best thing for you to do is to tell all of them how you feel. explain to them that you need to time to think and that you cant get over your x and need sometime.
*~Stephanie~*
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Damn Girl, you got a lot of guy problems consider yourself lucky...in a way i mean. Because some girls cant ever get 1 guy let alone someone who has what did you say 3 on there plate? lol OK first off....the guy that broke your heart...The general rule of thumb is 1 week of morning for every 6 months you were together Now I realize thats just a cliche but it's way past time to forget and move on and theres no easy way to do that. Now this 2nd guy....your booty call? lol I think you deserve more than that, sex with another guy is not going to heal your "broken heart" from the 1st guy anddddd this last guy you mislead, just explain to him you consider him a awesome friend but that that's all your ready for at the moment. best of luck wit your man probs
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ok listen i would definitly move on just talk to both of them tell them you are not ready to have a boyfriend yo thought you were commited to having one but unfortunately your not and tell ed that when you guys broke up you couldnt get him off your mind but tell him that doesnt mean you still have him on your mind you just want to be friend with both of them. Try that and let me no how it works
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