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!just shut up!
I went out with this guy for 9 months, and I was in love. His family had to move so we broke up:( It was really hard but now were good friends and we talk on the phone and on IM. When we were going out, he was really over protective of me and he always kept me safe and all. Now that its over, I flirt with guys a lot and my "friend" told him that. Hes soooo mad at me and I dont know why. He shouldent even be mad because its over!! I just wanna tell him to shut up..but I wont..so what do I say to make him understand that were not going out and he doesnt have to be over protective and all? He even has a gurl-friend and he doesnt see me getting all mad..ugh!!
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First off, this friend of yours that told him you were flirting needs to get a good square kick in the pants. I wouldn't be her friend anymore, for starters. She did this intentionally to hurt him and you. I think your ex does understand that you are broken up, but he doesn't want to think about you with other boys. He is upset because he still cares for you deeply. The best thing to do is assure him that you are his friend and care for him, flirt with who you want, and strangle that traitorous friend that told him what she did.
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Hmm it sounds like hes jelous and likes you. If yours over your x then tell your friend that you are and that your ready to move on. Or just ask him why he gets so mad! Hes your friend and you should be able to tell him stuff. The best thing to do is to ask him y he gets mad when your talkin about him. Good luck. If u need ne thing else then drop one in my inbox. buh bye
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Just tell him that since you guys aren't going out anymore, he has no reason to be mad at you! It makes so sense - you don't even see him anymore and he's still overprotective of you. Tell him to cut you some slack and to mind his own business! =)
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the reason hes actin lyk tat becuz its obvious tat he still has feelings for u.. he mite lyk u in the way he useto or he just cares about u.. its a gud thing n u should be happy tat hes bein lyk tat.. i noe it mite bug u but let him noe in a nice way tat u noe he cares and that u appreciate it and dont mind it to a certain point.. im pretty sure hell get the point.. gud luk.. xoxo angie
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Just tell him the point you just told us. Tell him that there's really no reason that he should be mad at you cause ya'll are just friends now.'N also tell him that he shouldn't be mad 'n overprotective because he has a girlfriend 'n like you said, he doesn't see you getting all mad about it. Don't get all pissed at him though. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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I think you just kind of answered that one yourself. You are right. Just tell him he has moved on and you would like to move on. Maybe he is just being protective of you in a "friend" kind of way. Tell him in a nice way that there is no reason that he can have a girlfriend and you cant flirt with guys.I think he is just afraid to lose you again like he already did the first time. Since you cant see into his thoughts, you are just going to have to talk to him about it. GOOD LUCK!
..::Bri*Babyy::..
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