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My names Jenny and I'm a 16 year old girl, oviously. I'll help you with anything you ask, so ask away. But if your gonna ask a dumb question, you'll get a dumb answer. And try not to start shit. This site is for helping people, not a way to bitch at people beacause your board and have nothing better to do. I know most about sex ;), Buddy4u Profiles, Xanga's, Html, Mental help..Like cutting, depression, and suicide, and love life. I will try as hard as I can to help you, and give you my honest awnser, weather it may upset you or not.













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My cousin knows I do this advice thing, and she has a question, but she's embarassed to ask me and she wants to ask the whole site not just one specific user. The problem is, she's 12. Would I get into trouble letting her ask it under my username? What about if I at least convince her to ask it to just one specific columnist, would that be okay? She won't tell me what the question is, so how do I go about it? I know that you're supposed to be 13+ to ask questions on this site, but... I don't know. What kind of trouble would I get in for letting her ask under my username? I won't if I'd get into trouble, like if I'd lose my modship, or if I'd be banned, but I can't convince her to ask me. So, would I be breaking the rules?

Haha, your a sweetie for trying not to break the rules. But it isn't that serious to ask a question being 12 years old. No one would have known that it was her asking a question, they would have probably thought it was you, and probably not have even known that. Go ahead and let her use it. She could make her own too, and just say she is 13. Really not that big of a deal.

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how do i take things to the next level without making it to obvious?

There shouldn't be "levels" you should just do w/e you feel confertable doing.

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how in the world can i get rid of red marks on my face from old blemishes? i have the most sensitive skin in the world and any type of blemish leaves a red scar-how do i get rid of them???

Dude proactive seriously works really good. It's one of those things on informercials. My cousin had the worst skin a year a go. Covered in zits and her face was basicly all red after from them and she used it. Her face is basicly flawless. Otherwize you can get lazer surgery, or ask a dermo for better help from somone who really knows what their talking about. Good luck.

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if you have "pin worms" can you just let them stay there??...must you get meds or see a doctor, waht if your too embarassed,,how dangerous are they? how do you know if you have a bad or mild case? HELP HELP HELP!
-silvia

You NEED to see a docter!!

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i am a guy and i am in middle school and there is this girl that is like my best or 2nd best girl friend lets call her hilary. so hilary asked me out and i said yes then about a week later she dumps me. then a few days later she asks me out again and i say yes cuz i still liked her. then 3 days later she breaks up with me again. and then about 3 weeks later hilary asks me out agian and i said yes then she dumps me five days later and i have a feeling that she is gunna ask me out again wut should i do if she does?

She's a bitch. I would serioulsy say " No, you've already dumbped me 4 times, and i've moved on. You should too." You can get better.

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2 of my friends are starten 2 act like whores it dont exactly turn me on and they think it does becouse they are always wherein whorey clothes and acten like they are prosttutes around me and my friends how do i tell them that the whorely style doesnt turn me and my friends on

I would tell them that I liked the way they were before and that it doesn't make you like them much or better when they dress like that.

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This guy is like in love with me and he always sends me all these poems and qoutes on how much but im wit a guy t hat i already love and he rele gets sick of this other guy telling em how much he loves me..how can i get this guy to leave me alone i mean ii wanan still be friends with im but..i dont want him to love me anymore..

Love,

WAnt HiM To mOVe On

Tell him your flattered but you don't want to have a more love type relationship with him, and that you just want to be friends. Something like that. Be straight forward with him.

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Ive been going too catholic school for 8 years now and im gunan graduate this spring..and go to highschool this one hs is a rele good school but uglee inside and not that big and its catholic again mi mom and dad r divorced but both remarried and my mom wants me to go to the catholic school but i personally wanan go to the public school nd liv wit mi dad jus during the week and mi dad thinks i should experience public school i mean i dont wanna leave all of mi ppl but im soo sick of being told what to do what to wear and all that and this other school is soo pretty and so much more to offer...what should ii do go to public school or go to catholic school and upset my mom...?

I say do it your way. It's your life not your moms and she cant live it for you.

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Im a 15yr old girl, i met this girl on holiday 3 yrs ago, she wrks in a bar and i've been back to the same place 4 times since we first met. We get on extremely well, shes 30 and got a boyf wit a step son who she tries to hook me up with just for a laugh. When im on holiday there i go 2 the pub n we jus sit n chat all day, bout any random stuff. She really nice and when im home i txt her regularly. since my last couple of visits however i think about her alot, most days, not like sexually or anythink jus in a nice way. im really worried incase im like becoming obsessed with her. i count the days till i will next see her, please tell me if this is wierd?!

I don't think thats weird. She seems just like a frined to you and probably somone who you look up to. Maybe like a mom or something

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ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do?

Your "friends" were just jelous of you. Dumb poor bitches. If your friends are gona leave you beause you have a lot of money then they aren't really your friends. You can find a lot of people rich or poor who won't care how much money you have. Talk to your friends though and tell them basicly what you told everyone in this entry. Best of luck. -Jenna

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ok my best friend is going out with kid and he is younger than her and he is crazy and jumped her brother and pulled a knife out on him and said he was going to kill me and our other friend to but she wont listen to me,.. i tell her to dump him but she said she loves him and i dont no what to do and they had sex and he is two years younger (sorry i cant spell) and they have only bin going out for like three weeks and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!=(

Okay tell your friend that her idiot bf was making threats to kill you once again, and that your life as at risk. If she still doenst litsen tell an adult. Your friend doesn't even love him but is just attached to him beacuse they had sex, mostly likeley. And she probably won't break up with him unless you let an adult know so that her parents will be aware of that. good luck. thats messed up

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i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser?

Many people would consiter that as being a poser. Unless your a girl and have a bf who skates you can get away with it. But seriosulsy fuck them, you should be able to wear w.e you want to..dumb lables..

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My teacher likes me and he stinks.I do not think he uses deoderant.so because of this he is always coming near me,like i said i aint pretty being near him.I want him to stop liking me but i do not want to affect my grades of conduct report.what should i do?
-dont like stink dudes-

Even tho this is dumb. I'd write a letter to him telling him that he smells like shit and leave it in his room or something not letting him know who you are. And give him a bar of deoterant with it and some spray. Or write one to the principle. Just what i'd do ha.

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my kid hates me what do i do they are turnin rebelous help!

All kids hate their parents. If they claim to hate you beacause of your rules, it's only because they're not getting their way. When they grow up the'll understand, and be happy that you were strict with them. Good luck!

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I am 23 years old. I have been having sex with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He's the only person I've ever slept with, and vice versa. I'm having problems because sex is very painful with him and I don't enjoy it. His penis is very large and it hurts a LOT. The length isn't so much a problem, but the girth. Neither of us has any STD's or anything like that. I love him a lot and we've even talked about marriage but I can't imagine a life of not enjoying sex. Any advice?

Well thats a long time for it still to hurt. I would tell him that it hurts you. Maybe you can find a way for it not too, and maybe he'd go as far as ..penis reduction for you. Good luck.

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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!

haha nothing. who doesnt get horny...

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ok pacsun makes a brand named kirra do u think its cheap 2 buy kirra since it is a generic brand

Well if you consiter pacsun's cloths being not cheap, and if kirra cost's just as much then no it's not cheap. damn brandnames..they're just cloths..if its cute..then who cares..

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me and my girl have been together 6 months and i love her and all but there is another girl that i kinda like. i think i have a future with both of them. what do i do.

If you TRUELY "loved" this girl. You would never be thinking about another girl, or would care about another nother girl. You would not be able to live without her. Obviously....you do not love her. Do what ever you want. Personaly I would stay with the girl your with now. It's been a while and you never know what could happen if you guys break up and you get with this other girl, who just may dumb you. Good luck tho.

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Tonight he told me he love dme. That he always would. he said a lot of shit i didnt think he meant. not after what he said about dating before. and now this. he tells me all this and now we both are confused. we are scared to take it further. both scared of being hurt. of it going to far...him being 3 years older..what do i do? im 14..never had a serious bf n he comes this 17 guy already had sex, ex druggies saying he loves me...and hes not lying..i think i "love" him too. but i dunno. seems to fast

Okay well depending on how long you have been going out, i think should determine if you should take things further. Guys that age, sorry to say, will go out with younger girls just for sex and to get action. If you've been going out for quite a while...i'd say at least 6 months, then you could take it a little further. Otherwise i woulnt do anything to serious with him. Feel free to drop one in my inbox if you have anything else to add to this or ask. Good luck!


Adding:: Now that i've read the..your just friends.. if he means you guys being sexual no. but you guys going out..it may hurt now to take a chance..but in the end it wiill be worth it.

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Don't bother reading this unless you have gotten a perm before. I want to get a perm like so it is wavy or whatever they can do but i am afraid they will mess up or it will totally mess up my hair. I use to dye my hair alot and that never messed it up at all. i guess my question is how did your perm turn out and tell me anything that happened that i shuold know about before i get it done? thanks alot

Hey we'll i've gotten my hair permed before. Both of the times i got it, it turned out nice, but for probably 3 months it is really hard to comb out. That was probably because i got highlights mabye 4 times before. Basicly before getting it done make sure its washed bcuz you wont be able to wash it for 48 hours after its done. And if you get it and it turns out way to currley then comb it out so that its straight after you get it done and the next day. I did that and it worked. I beleive there are around 7 different types of currels you can get. When you get there they'll show you whitch ones will make your hair very curley or ones that will just make it wavy. And they also won't let you get a perm if they think it will mess up your hair. They had to decide weather they could give me another one. And you shoudln't color your hair after you get a perm either. Give it up to more than a month. Hope I helped. byes

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