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Question Posted Friday December 31 2004, 1:41 am

i am a guy and i am in middle school and there is this girl that is like my best or 2nd best girl friend lets call her hilary. so hilary asked me out and i said yes then about a week later she dumps me. then a few days later she asks me out again and i say yes cuz i still liked her. then 3 days later she breaks up with me again. and then about 3 weeks later hilary asks me out agian and i said yes then she dumps me five days later and i have a feeling that she is gunna ask me out again wut should i do if she does?

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SwEeTdReAmZ answered Saturday January 1 2005, 4:37 pm:
If she does ask you out again i would say no if i were you. It sounds like she could be using you and that she playing with your feelings. You could try talking to her about and ask her why she is doing this to you. Hope i helped
(*SwEeT DrEaMz*)

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Saturday January 1 2005, 1:50 pm:
i would say no because you should never try to fix something that is meant to stay apart...confusing i know..like a mirror once its broke dont try to fix it

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x0oLoViNiTo0x answered Friday December 31 2004, 6:23 pm:
don't say no, say HELL NO! All she's doin is playin you and you shouldn't go along with her game.

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iNsAnelyKrAzie76313 answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:46 pm:
Say no. Be like no hilary we've gone out a lot already and everytime you dump me like 3 or 5 days later and im sick of it. If you like me that much then you shouldnt have dumped me so many times, Sry i just want to be your friend.

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sammy9 answered Friday December 31 2004, 3:01 pm:
i woudn't go out cuz shes most likily gonna dump yu again

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CoKeIzZle answered Friday December 31 2004, 2:03 pm:
Hey babes, Say no!!No matter how much youlike her she is just using you!!Sorry to say hun but from what i just her thats what i'm thinking. I'm a girl,trust me hun!hope i helped!XoXo Nicole

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Brunette27 answered Friday December 31 2004, 12:03 pm:
Tell her that you do like her, but if she keeps asking you out and then dumping you a few days later, your relationship has no point.

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DestinedxTragedy answered Friday December 31 2004, 8:49 am:
Well, I think you should say no. Spend some time without her and see if you still have feelings for her. I mean, theres no point in going out with someone if you have no reason to. Just try to let go. Give it some time.

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PleaseHelpMe answered Friday December 31 2004, 5:05 am:
She's a bitch. I would serioulsy say " No, you've already dumbped me 4 times, and i've moved on. You should too." You can get better.

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theblondeone989 answered Friday December 31 2004, 3:31 am:
TALK to this girl. Something is obviously going on. It's a little abnormal for her to dump you, only to ask you right back out again. She's your friend--ask her what's going on. If I were you, I wouldn't go out with her anymore until you had a serious talk.

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K3587 answered Friday December 31 2004, 2:19 am:
You're in middle school. Middle school relationships are dumb. Simple truth! You're not really dating. $20 says you never even saw each other outside of school.

She doesn't know what she's doing because not only did she break up with you days later, she asked you out again.

You don't know what you're doing because you agreed to go back out not only once, but twice.

The harsh reality is that people your age don't have much to put into a relationship. You have little to no experience...so just see this as an opportunity to learn from. This is the type of relationship to avoid, because neither of you get a damned thing out of it.

Don't pay much mind to all this. It's not a big deal.

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netsirk07 answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:59 am:
Im a girl and i did that in middle school just to see how many times i can break his heart! (really mean i know) just say no im not going to play your game anymore! go find another guy!
hope you can find a girl that likes you and wont play with your head!
**kristen**

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Down2marz answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:58 am:
If she does, say no. Either she can't make up her mind or she is playing with your head. So SAY NO!






love always,
Down2marz

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bigzcenter answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:55 am:
say no she has a pattern goin and i dont think she is goin 2 break it

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xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:54 am:
say hell no thats not fair to you shes using you bc there is no other guy she can go to move on babe there is soo manii other gurls that could treat you better!! and then smush it in her face..god that bugs me when ppl do that
good luck
-Kalene

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Sherry answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:53 am:
I agree with Storage. Shes playing games and I think you shoudlent talk to her all together. Stop falling for her, shes not worth it.

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storageanddisposal answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:51 am:
Say no! This isn't fun for you, is it? Getting dumped over and over again.

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