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hey. umm i need advice. my boyfriend has been acting weird lately and sometimes it seems as if we are going to break up or that he doesn`t want to be with me. do i dump him or do i talk to him? (link)
talk to him


Hi my name is shannon bell and am 13 years old i had surgery on my back at12 and my family andn friinds say that i could never be a model with i scar in my back.I think that i can becuase i am fabulous.but when i seen americas next top model i new i would be good for runway but i did mot know if any modeling agency would won't me with a big scar on back.What should I do go on with dream or just forget.I need your help please. (link)
Definately go for your dream. Never give up. Good luck! I'm sure you are a great model!


i always seem to go for the wrong guys and get hurt in relationships. how can i stop that (link)
If you don't want to get hurt you should just stop going to the guys and instead let them come to you. Try that.


does anybody know any sites that have music to put on my xanga? thanx! and i WiLL rate (link)
try www.xanga_music.com


ok theres this one kid i have known for about 3 months and i think he is really cool and i have liked him for awhile... well my best friend has only known him for a month and went out with him... and like i really liked him the whole time but wanted her happy but she broke up with him bc she didnt like him all that much and now me n him want to get together but iono what she will say... should i talk to her bout it or just tell her i like him n i am prolly gonna hook up with him? some one plz help me
Thanks so much Love alwayz
Lost and Confused (link)
Talk with her and ask her how she would feel if you hooked up with him. If it will hurt her then maybe its not the best thing to do. Take things slow. Work through everything and make sure everyone is happy.


do you think its better to fit in and go agianst yur own beliefs OR to be a little ""less popular"" and do what you want to do? i am stuck in between. (link)
You should always be yourself and do what YOU want to do. Don't worry about what people think of you. Yes, there are some cruel people out there who will make fun of you probably. But, at least you are happy doing what makes YOU happy.


Ok, I have this friend that I have gone out with twice. We always hang out. He is my best friend, and I can tell him anything, and he can tell me anything, as well, or at least it seems this way. We act the same as we do when we're going out, just less affectionate. I have heard from several people that he still likes me, as juvenile as that sounds. They say that he is afraid to 'make me sad again' because he has broken up with me both times we went out, and I was sad about it both times. I feel depressed when I am not around him; being with him, whether we are going out or not, just feels right. I'm afraid to tell him that I like him, because I am afraid of him not liking me back. This sounds like a classic, doesn't it? But really, I don't know what to do... I'm just a stupid girl. (link)
First of all, you are not stupid. No one is. You should just be honest with him and tell him your true feelings. If it feels right when you're with him then it probably is. If it is meant to be you will end up going back out. Take a chance, there's nothing to lose. Hope it works out!


I am thirteen years old and in the 8th grade. I am quite shy around new people and do not make friends easily. What is a good way to get over my shyness and make friends easily? Also, where is a good place to make friends? (link)
Well, When I was in elementry school and wanted to make a friend I used to pretend that I needed help with something. And if I didn't know something I would ask the person what the answer was. haha. yeah, I know..kind of lame. But, it worked for me. Try it, hopefully you will make a friend.


How do you REALLY make out.... I need to know...and dont say "oh its easy theres really no way to explain it just go for it...go with the flow" thats stupid and doenst help... say what you actually do...i need help!!!!! (link)
Ok, I know what you are going through. Basicly, the other person puts their tounge in your mouth and you do the same. Thats all. And, your tounges just move around. I'm sorry if this sounds weird or didn't help you but thats how I would explain it.


heyy ok.. one of my bestfriends has this secret and she only told me and my other bestfriend but she told us not to tell our other bestfriend (all four of us are bestfriends) but anyway.. i told that person n i kno i shouldnt have but it was too hard not to. We also fight alot.. we say really mean things to eachother and hit eachother as a joke.. but do u think thats a good friendship? Let me know wat u think! thanks a bunch! (link)
Well, If you can't trust each other then no. All relationships are based on trust and honesty. However, like my friendship with one of my best friends, we also get into fights. But, we know that they only make our friendship stronger. Its really not for me to say whether you guys have a good friendship. If you are truly happy with them as your friends then it probably is a good friendship. But, its up to you to decide. Good luck!


ok, i am totally head over heals for this chick.. she is beautiful.. and kind.. and she says to me that she isnt ready for a relationship.. or that she doesnt want to be more than friends.. but i keep getting this feeling that there could be something more! and so i told her to look deep in her heart and see whats there... and to ignore everything her brain is telling her.. then she replies that what i wrote was beautiful and to give her a week to sort things out and not to talk about me and her in a relationship and give her space.. what does all this mean!?!?! by the way most of this is all said in email but yeah.. its the easiest way to comunicate.. plz help!! (link)
Well, maybe she just needs time to think about what she wants and if it is the right time to be in a relationship. She could also have feelings for someone else and just doesn't want to hurt you. This could mean a lot of things. But, I think you should give her some time and after awhile, if things don't work out the way you want them to then ask her if there is a possibility that in the future something could happen between you two. Just give it some time. I hope things work out for you!


a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen. (link)
Just try and think about it this way..

Maybe god has another plan for your friend up there. A plan even better than the plan he has for your friend down here. Your friend will always be happy up there and will always be watching over you. Keep your head up and think positive thoughts. I Hope your friend gets better. Good luck!


i am a guy and i am in middle school and there is this girl that is like my best or 2nd best girl friend lets call her hilary. so hilary asked me out and i said yes then about a week later she dumps me. then a few days later she asks me out again and i say yes cuz i still liked her. then 3 days later she breaks up with me again. and then about 3 weeks later hilary asks me out agian and i said yes then she dumps me five days later and i have a feeling that she is gunna ask me out again wut should i do if she does? (link)
Well, I think you should say no. Spend some time without her and see if you still have feelings for her. I mean, theres no point in going out with someone if you have no reason to. Just try to let go. Give it some time.




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