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More than friends?
Ok, I have this friend that I have gone out with twice. We always hang out. He is my best friend, and I can tell him anything, and he can tell me anything, as well, or at least it seems this way. We act the same as we do when we're going out, just less affectionate. I have heard from several people that he still likes me, as juvenile as that sounds. They say that he is afraid to 'make me sad again' because he has broken up with me both times we went out, and I was sad about it both times. I feel depressed when I am not around him; being with him, whether we are going out or not, just feels right. I'm afraid to tell him that I like him, because I am afraid of him not liking me back. This sounds like a classic, doesn't it? But really, I don't know what to do... I'm just a stupid girl.
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I know how you feel. you like him but you are afraid to well if i were you i would go with him if when he broke up with you it turned out you both ended up being friends again it must of not been bad. yet it also depends on how you felt when he broke up with you. do you think he will break up with you again? if so will you become good friends just like what happened the last to times? think about what i am saying
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First of all, you are not stupid. No one is. You should just be honest with him and tell him your true feelings. If it feels right when you're with him then it probably is. If it is meant to be you will end up going back out. Take a chance, there's nothing to lose. Hope it works out!
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Ok you arent a stupid girl for one thing. you are about as original as the rest of us. You sound like you have a really good realationship with him and having agood friendship and knowing tha he is a good guy makes you more attracted to him. If you have gone out 2 time and he ahs broken up with you both of them times maybe you should ask him why he broke up with you. When you find the problem try to fix it, and once you have fixed it then you should tell him that you care for him and it hurts. Jsut keep talking to him,., sometimes guys like to tlak jsut as much as we do!
Good luck!
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You should tell him that you still want to be his friend, then say that you like him and it is alright if he doesn't like you back. And then if he likes you you will know. I hope that helps.
~soccrchick~
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No, honey. You're not a stupid girl. There's nothing wrong with liking your guy friend as more than a friend. In fact, I have gotten more emails about THAT ONE TOPIC than anything. You are probably very intelligant and pretty and don't worry! I say: Take a chance and go for it! Don't be scared of love. If you want to have more courage, build it up by thinking that you can do it. Fate is in your hands and I know you can do it. If you don't think you can, get one of your CLOSEST friends to ask him for you! That always works. Just make sure she doesn't like him too b/c if she does, then SHE might ask him out... for herself. That's what my closest friend did to me!
Best of luck & wishes. Hope I made a difference in your lovelife!
--Kayla
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just go fo' it
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If you really like him you should just go for it sister! If you've heard from your friends it might be right but it never hurts to take chances anyway. Live life on the seat of your pants!!
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