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my boyfriend and i broke up on monday. and i knew it was gonna hppen since a week and a half ago. but. i still like him. and i need to get overhim, hes a very bad person. i need to stop thinking about all the good feelings and times we had together. because i start crying again. i want to be over him. i wake up every morning with a heavy heart and i dont think he even cares. thats what gets me too. any advice on how to forget? (link)
This exact thing happened 2 me and my boyfriend of 3 months i know it may not seem like a long time but let me tell you he was an amazing boyfriend and I still miss him. All you can do is try not to think of him and try to look at other guys thats all I can say but eventually the feeling will go away.

I hope I helped xoxoxo


i'm 13 and i'm only 5'1. i'm very self-conscious about my height so i measure myself everyday. why is it that when i wake up i'd grow half to a full inch from the night before when i measured but at the end of the day i'd measure myself again and it said that i shrunk again? this happens almost every morning, when will i stop increasing an inch and then losing an inch by the end of the day? how can i prevent it? thank u (link)
Ok well when you sleep you grow, then by the end of the day you shrink not enough that anyone will notice. But it is because when you walk, stand, run, ect. all the weight is like pushed downward or something like that so that is why you shrink like 1/2 an inch, then when you sleep your body becomes streched out so you grow


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Hey me and my girlfriend just broke up she broke up with me in january a different girl dumped me and i got over her for a little while but when i started talking to her again i couldnt help but love her again i miss her so much i dont know if she likes me
what should i do should i ask her out or should i sit here and wish she would go out with me please help!?!?!?!?! (link)
You should just ask her back out then see what happens from there

hope i helped xoxoxosoccrchick


Hey guys...well my dad is really mean to me sometimes and I'm really tired of it. He'll be nice to me one minute and a total grouch to me the next. What should I do? I'll rate 5's to GOOD answers!

I'm 14/f (link)
omg I have that same problem my dad and i lke hate each other but he won't admit that he does. What i do is just ignor him when he is mean and nice to me just like let it go and try to be nice when he is mean it might make him in a better mood

xoxox hope i helped


my boyfriend kinda throws me around a little and im ready to get out what do i say?
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Well it is really good that you have realized this because if you didn't well nvm but it is good that you realized this. You should just tell him that you deserve so much better then him. If you want to be nice about it just tell him that you don't like him anymore or just ask to take a breake. But when taking a breake don't ever get back together with him. (that's what I did to my ex and it worked)


A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend (link)
You should just tell her that she is dating "Lee" and not your boyfriend, or you should just tell her to stay away from yours. This may help too, when you are with your boyfriend don't be with her at all that may help.


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I hate myself and want to die. There is no way out. There is no definite answer to anything so how can you ever be right? Why do my friends always want to know what i am thinking when they dont care, they dont listen so why ask. Counsellors get PAID to listen to you. no one will remember me a year from my death. Anti depressants leave you numb and emotionless. Doctors dont issue sleeping pills coz I am a depressant but I cant SLEEP all i do is stare into senseless nothing seeing nothing but black shadows. The only releif is a razor blade and salt. Nothing will ever get better i will have this hopeless feeling of nothingness and desperation for somekind of peace of mind which i wont get. Things will always be the same and then ill die anyway. Im a selfish ugly fat bitch and the only way out is death. nothing can help me. im searching for a solution to get past my pathetic problems asides from counsellors, therapy, rehab, cutting, not cutting, anti depressants the only thing i can think of to a solution is death. no will will ever be able to stop this drowning feeling (link)
Well I know how you feel, a while ago I almost killed myself because life was treating my like hell. For me there was no way out of this, I mean I still do sometimes want to kill myself just not as often. You might want to keep a diary it may help and just express your feelings in there. Even though it may seem childish it will help. You may want to get some new friends and don't put yourself down by calling yourself, "selfish fat ugly bitch" even if you think that you are just don't do it. I know how you feel that cutting yourself with a razor helps but really it doesn't because you will have cuts and maybe scars there for your whole life so stop doing that because people will start teasing you about that and I'm guessing that you don't want that. But just try to think positive about everything even though it may be hard it will help.

hope i helped xoxoxoxox
~soccrchick~


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lately, i've felt really sad, and i've felt all alone. i'm 8th grade/f, and i feel like a guy could fill up a space :( what can i do??
-all alone- (link)
If i were you (and i know that im not but anyway) i would try to look around at boys maybe try to get them to like you but try to get them to lke you for you what also may help (i know this helped me) was to hang w/ your friends alot more then you normally do

hope i helped xoxox if you have anymore ?s leave them in my inbox plz rate me


I love my boy friend so much! He is one of the best things that has happened to me in a LONG time. I just moved more than 30 minutes away from him. My parents almost never give me a ride over there and no one in his house will give him a ride unless we pay them money. I love him but I feel like we are just growing apart. Should I break up with him or just see how things go? (link)
I think that if you feel that you are growing apart and never seeing each other that much then yes you should just break up w/ each other or take a breake from being together until you see each other. Then if you have problems gettin ova him then start to see other guys, even tho u might not lke him then you will be getting over him and the reason im telling you this is because my bf and i just broke up and i loved and still do love him w/ all my heart and it is still hard to get over him but i now am seeing another guy and it has helped alot


hope i helped xoxoxox

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i flirt alot with a lot of different guys and i have a boyfriend is that bad? (link)
No it's not that bad, I mean I do it all the time and I have a boyfriend. Just as long you try not to do it so much infront of him because he then may get mad.

hope i helped xoxoxosoccerchick


Me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a month now, he's really shy but i no he really likes me. We haven't hugged, kissed, held hands, etc. all we did was say i love you and call each other and those little things. For valentines day i want him to at least hug me... but i don't know if he is ready for that because he is so shy... how can i tell if he is? What do i do? I am really confused... i rate 5's... pleaz help... (link)
I have the same problem, my boyfriend is really shy. You she just give him on v-day if he gets u a gift i hope i helped


thanx for the advice.i dont know how to rate peeple.srry.can u tell me!ur idea was great.im going to get my friend who he doesnt know to ask who he likes.the only thing is that my friend has skool and me and anthony(the guy) have homeskool.he gets on really late.but it is the weekend! (link)
thank u, actually i dont kno how to rate lol u could ask sohojules26


i like a guy.i dont know if he likes me.we have only known eachother for 2 months.we have never met.we only chat on the internet.i know we will meet someday.how can i find out if he likes me?(i dont want to strait out ask him if he likes me). (link)
Thats what happened to me. We only talked on the internet, but then he asked me out. Maybe just ask your friends to ask him who he likes. Hope I helped. Please rate.


There is this boy at my school who is soooooooooo hot. I really like him. He always smiles at me andwhen he walks by me he walks really slow and is smiling. Does he like me?

I will rate (link)
This is hard. He may like you but it is hard to tell. I would talk to him about it.


My crush was asking me why he doesn't get any hugs! i said i didn't know and then put on a sad face! so i said u wanna hug and he was like sure! so i gave him a hug! was he just flirtig or was it nothing just a hug?! (link)
he was so flirting


i have really really REALLY sweaty armpits and i need advice on wut kinda deoderant would actually work for me.. its really very embaressing and its really embaressing to ask u all rite now so please don't reply and make fun of me... neway cya hope u can help (link)
Well there is this deoderant its called SECRET GEL the gel helps stop the sweat. Hope it helps.


~soccrchick~


is it alright to not tell your mother baout your period for a few months, because i know if i tell her she will get all emotional and cry and be all my lil baby is growing up and now we have a special bond. i am the only daughter with 2 older brothers. im al right on getting pad and stuff....im just wondering if its safe to not tell for a few months plz help! (link)
You should tell your mom. She won't be like that (or at least I hope not) You might not want to tell your friends if you don't want other people to know. But you may want to tell your mom, but its up to you.


~soccrchick~


Ok, I have this friend that I have gone out with twice. We always hang out. He is my best friend, and I can tell him anything, and he can tell me anything, as well, or at least it seems this way. We act the same as we do when we're going out, just less affectionate. I have heard from several people that he still likes me, as juvenile as that sounds. They say that he is afraid to 'make me sad again' because he has broken up with me both times we went out, and I was sad about it both times. I feel depressed when I am not around him; being with him, whether we are going out or not, just feels right. I'm afraid to tell him that I like him, because I am afraid of him not liking me back. This sounds like a classic, doesn't it? But really, I don't know what to do... I'm just a stupid girl. (link)
You should tell him that you still want to be his friend, then say that you like him and it is alright if he doesn't like you back. And then if he likes you you will know. I hope that helps.



~soccrchick~


Pardon me for sounding emo. I really can't stand myself. I make bad choices, I am a terrible friend, and some of the things I say--that I hardly ever mean--really hurt people. Sometimes I can't even stand to look at myself in the mirror. My family doesn't seem to like me either. I don't have many friends. The only ones I have are jerks--but I don't feel like I have a right to get mad at them. It's what I deserve. I feel so guilty, but I can't think of anything that I have done wrong... But everything I do seems to be wrong, and I am always getting punished for things that I can't help. I am a terrible person. (link)
I used to hate myself and my parents still do hate me, but always look to the bright side of things. Like try to make good and new friends. And the number one thing to do is to think before you speek. Yeah I know everyone tells you to do this, but try to it will really help.



I hope this helps you.



~soccrchick~


What is the book who moved my cheese about? (link)
The WhoMoved My Cheese? for teens is about 2mice and 2 people that journy through a mzae and fine chese it is a really boring book if you ask me.


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