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what do i say?
my boyfriend kinda throws me around a little and im ready to get out what do i say?
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if he loves you he shouldnt do that to you! If i were you i would brake up with him because if you relize it he's hurting you not making you feal better!
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You are smart. Most girls don't realize that shit. But just tell him straight up that you don't want to be with him and your sick and tired of what he is doing! Good luck!
-Brianna
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Well it is really good that you have realized this because if you didn't well nvm but it is good that you realized this. You should just tell him that you deserve so much better then him. If you want to be nice about it just tell him that you don't like him anymore or just ask to take a breake. But when taking a breake don't ever get back together with him. (that's what I did to my ex and it worked)
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Tell him you're sick of the way he's acting, you want out, and if he does anything to try and stop it, then you're telling your parents/councilor/ or even the police.
I'm SOOO glad you're getting out. You should NEVER have to be in that situation. NOBODY deserves that!!!!
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i'm glad you are choosing to get out of this abusive relationship .. there should ALWAYS be mutual respect for each other in a relationship , and both the guy and girl should always be equals , without one controlling the other . Also , any man who hits a female is definitely not a good person , let alone a good boyfriend . You should bring a good friend or a couple of close friends with you to place you are going to break up at . A good idea would be a public place with people there , but not a really crowded place . Maybe a restaurant ? Make sure your friends are sitting at a table near you , so they can always help you if your bf tries to hit you or hurt you , though he won't in a public place . Don't beat around the bush when you tell him , just say something like : " this isn't working out . I want to break up . " .
After you break up with him , for the next few weeks , make sure you always have a friend with you no matter where you go as he might try to hurt you . If he attempts to or does hurt you , report his behavior to the police or tell someone like your teacher or your parents . IF you need to talk more about this, just ask me a question via my advice column , k hun ?
Hope I've helped ,
Good luck and Gods Bless ,
*Wondering*
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Okay, I have been in your situation, and it is never easy. I am going to give you a guided list and you MUST follow it, to protect yourself.
If he has done it once he WILL do it again. You need to tell someone, a friend maybe, but I personally would chose a guidence councelor. I am sixteen, and I was so scared to even talk about it. You need to hun, you HAVE to.
First of all, you need to tell someone that you trust. Second you when you break up with him, or try to end the relationship, you need to have at least one other person there with you, he wont hit you or throw you around if someone else is there, he is on a power search. By hitting you or throwing you around, he see's that he is in controll. A relationship should be equal, not one ahead of the other. After the breakup, you need to avoid him. If that means transfering classes at school, then transfer. Think about you this time, this is all you.
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Your dump dick head!
tell Him straight you deserve better.
luv roxie
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