Member Since: April 17, 2005
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Ok sorry that this is long but please don't pass over it I really need help.
My parents aren't divorced but they both cheat on each other they basically both get with anything that moves of the opposite sex. My dad is always drunk and is very abusive. My mom isn't physically abusive but she just tells me that I'm a waste of life and that she wishes she never had me and that I'm such a huge mistake and bla, bla, bla but her boyfriend Tom hits me all the time and even rapes me sometimes. I've gone to the police before and they took my parents side because to everyone else they look like such nice people. But at night they're druggies and alcoholics. I even went to social sevices they put me in a home for a week where I started cutting and then they put me right back with them! Lately I met a guy who uses drugs and I've been going out with him. And we were using and did some things and now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. He was arrested for possesion so I can't go to him. I can't go to my parents. I really don't have any friends who aren't stoners and all they care about is how they're going to get their next fix. I don't know what to do. I've already tried killing myself and it didn't work. I'm soo scared I don't know what to do. I was going to run away but I know that I'll just end up somewhere where there's drugs and I'm really trying to stop. What can I do about all of this? Please help me (link)
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I am going to answer this as if I were your best friend and not some stranger. The life that you come from is horrible. When your mother says those things, she means that she made a mystake, she just regrets not living the life that she had pictured. It is not your fault, dont ever think that. Your moms boyfriend needs some help. You need to get out of that house. Your baby needs a stable home, you need to get your self out, and get help to give that baby a life that you didnt get. You dont want her to grow up around people that are on drugs, she will just get raped as easily as you did. Email me and I can help you further. I am sixteen, and I am willing to help with what i can, even if that means helping you find a place to live.
Our home has always been open to teens and children who need somewhere to go. You always have food in your stomach, warm beds to sleep in and a roof over your head.
God Bless you hun.
Liz- my email is dare2dreambigthings@yahoo.com
-Your in my prayers=----name suggestion for the baby-if its a girl-mabel meaning M-others A-lways B-ring E-xtra L-ove.
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this may sound scary but lately i have these thoughts like a voice in my head saying im a satanist. i don't want to be and i try to force the thought out and think that god is my only one though it always comes back. i got this book and it had a list of all the warning signs of a satanist and i had all of them except for one. i think i am becoming a satanist. i also do witchcraft but i never did anything involving the devil. now all i can think about is becoming a satnist i need serious help. i am originally catholic. and i am a girl. (link)
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okay, I think that you are troubled. I am assuming that life at home isnt well for you or abuse has happend somewhere along the lines. You really need to see a doctor, you are not insane, and your not becoming a satnist, you just have an illness that can be treated. Seak help from a doctor, you will do alot better i promise you.
If you have any more questions, feel free to email me, dare2dreambigthings@yahoo.com
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i want to lose about 5 - 10 pounds by summer which is a month and like 3 weeks away. How can i do this in a healthy way? (link)
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Eat smaller portions and jog once a day, no pop, no sugar, ice water and small amounts of milk.
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Hello everyone, how can you know if it is really love or not. There's this guy who I have a crush on for four years plus already and I still can't forget him. Whenever I see him last time and he goes near me, my mind can't think anything. It's like my mind is saying say something say something but I can't think of anything to say. Now, I'm worried about him and I don't know if this is really love. If it is, could it be possible that love exist at my age? I'm 16. And could it be possible that you love someone you don't know really that much? (link)
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I have a similar situation, yes i do think that love can begin at this age, i am sixteen also. Honestly I would follow your heart. You will find your answer, if you listen to your self.
**Liz**
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my boyfriend kinda throws me around a little and im ready to get out what do i say?
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Okay, I have been in your situation, and it is never easy. I am going to give you a guided list and you MUST follow it, to protect yourself.
If he has done it once he WILL do it again. You need to tell someone, a friend maybe, but I personally would chose a guidence councelor. I am sixteen, and I was so scared to even talk about it. You need to hun, you HAVE to.
First of all, you need to tell someone that you trust. Second you when you break up with him, or try to end the relationship, you need to have at least one other person there with you, he wont hit you or throw you around if someone else is there, he is on a power search. By hitting you or throwing you around, he see's that he is in controll. A relationship should be equal, not one ahead of the other. After the breakup, you need to avoid him. If that means transfering classes at school, then transfer. Think about you this time, this is all you.
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