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i want it to be over.

Question Posted Saturday May 21 2005, 11:38 am

my boyfriend and i broke up on monday. and i knew it was gonna hppen since a week and a half ago. but. i still like him. and i need to get overhim, hes a very bad person. i need to stop thinking about all the good feelings and times we had together. because i start crying again. i want to be over him. i wake up every morning with a heavy heart and i dont think he even cares. thats what gets me too. any advice on how to forget?

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SoftballxBuddy answered Sunday May 22 2005, 10:14 pm:
If you want to forget him take up a new hobby, it will get your mind off of him. some hobbies can be painting, dancing, or making things. good luck

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kitty_kat123 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:42 pm:
What I do after getting my heart broken is doing something reallt fun with your friends. If he's a really bad person, he SHOULD be easy to forget. Go to Splashtown, skydive, Wavepool, something EXTREMELY COOL AND FUN! Try it. If it works, email me. If it doesn't, email me and I wil,l give you new ideas. O.K, sweetie?
Best of luck!!! *^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*

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xosweetiepiexo answered Saturday May 21 2005, 4:58 pm:
im in the same situationg right now.. i know EXACTLY how you feel.. well my first thing of advice is... if you don't let go of your past, then you won't get to have the perfect guys in the future.. you just have to think to yourself that there are better guys out there .. i mean, you can't help what the heart wants.. so you just have to let it die out.. i would say that you shouldn't even be friends with him, cauz then you'll never be able to forget about him.. don't be enemies, don't be friends, just be nothing.

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voicesofangels2k answered Saturday May 21 2005, 3:02 pm:
Forgetting and forgiving take time....that old saying "time heals", well, it is true. In another week or so, the pain will lessen and you will be feeling better. In the mean time, keep yourself busy with friends doing things that you enjoy doing.

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karenR answered Saturday May 21 2005, 2:12 pm:
First of all it's going to take a while to get over him. You probably won't be over him for good until you find a suitable replacement.

You need to start thinking about why he's a bad person instead of what was good about him. You need to get past worrying about weather or not he cares how you're feeling. Tell yourself you are better off because...Then get back in the ballgame and find a new guy to like. :)

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VanityScore answered Saturday May 21 2005, 12:56 pm:
Something like that happened with me and my ex. And I couldn't get over him for like a year... I got majorly depressed. Finally, I got sick of myself acting and looking the way I did... So I decided it was time to get over it. I got involved and kept busy (4 jobs-- 2 are volunteer jobs). I went out with my friends when I had spare time. I started to try in school and do homework, etc. I even changed my hair cut and it's color to red (temporarily, just so I'd feel like I looked better)... And I think those really helped me get over it.

But the main thing that helped me was finding a new guy to date. Liking someone else was proof that I was finally over my ex. So get out into the dating world, and try to find a new boyfriend. And you know what... even if your ex doesn't care, someone else out there does.

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sadf16 answered Saturday May 21 2005, 12:37 pm:
Like you, I long to forget someone who have broken my heart. I know it's really really pretty hard. Many things remind me of him and maybe it applies to you too and like you, I also have a bad day to start with. Whenever I go outside, It's like I really wanted to see him but I know it's hopeless. In the first few weeks, it'll be really hard for you but as time passes by, like they said time heals all wounds. Don't push yourself to forget him. Instead you'll just forget him when you're ready to forget him. Slowly, pick things that he has given you or reminds you of him and dispose or hide it. Be sure not to open it again otherwise the pain will start again. It's a painful process but worthwhile to start living without him.

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Casey answered Saturday May 21 2005, 12:31 pm:
keep very occupied dont find your self with alot of time to do nothing!! thats never good! and try to find someone knew or something new that intrests you completley! it should help!

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soccrchick answered Saturday May 21 2005, 12:21 pm:
This exact thing happened 2 me and my boyfriend of 3 months i know it may not seem like a long time but let me tell you he was an amazing boyfriend and I still miss him. All you can do is try not to think of him and try to look at other guys thats all I can say but eventually the feeling will go away.

I hope I helped xoxoxo

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imsexyx0x0x answered Saturday May 21 2005, 11:51 am:
keep very occupied dont find your self with alot of time to do nothing!! thats never good! and try to find someone knew or something new that intrests you completley! it should help! x0x0x0x0 luv always x0x0x0

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